Does ages matters in love?

Singapore
March 8, 2010 8:31am CST
I have seen girls who fool themsefl that they don't love this boy,that boy but the truth is they really have feeling with those boys,the only problem is they can't confess that thay love the boys who is younger than them or the boys who are much older than them!It's must be embarrass and all...And also some boys who always deny their love for older girls even though they really like these girls! How do you think about this?Does age really matters in love?
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7 responses
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
No it doesn't matter! It only looks inappropriate but it really doesn't matter anyway! The most important thing is that you really feel the love, that it's true! and it's real! I am actually in love with a man 33 years older than me! Sometimes it just looks immoral becasue it might look like mother-son, father-daughter physically but that's not the important thing right?
• Philippines
11 Mar 10
in love age doesnt matter if both of them know that its really love that they feel for each other and not just lust nor like. and as long as the person the value of love and on how to fight for it. if both of them understand each other and happy being together then why not.
8 Mar 10
There is a large age gap between myself and my partner but that has never been an issue between us. Aage shouldn't matter at all when two people love each other
@leateagee (3667)
• China
8 Mar 10
Hello there! In the older times it is really an issue if a couple don't have the same age. Actually there is a lot of factors needed when getting into a relationship. But the modern times in my opinion have a lot of changes. Love lies on the emotion itself. Not in age, not in money, not in education, not in status quo. Though honestly the said factors have a big influence in choosing a lifetime partner. For me, age doesn't matter. Happy every day!
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
everybody have different views about these, they would say age doesn't matter and all is fair in love and war, and i agree on that. but personally, i will still go for someone older than me. when i was 28 years old, a 21 year old boy courted me, he is cute, intelligent, and thoughtful, but i did not give him false hopes. it's just that, at 28, i already think about going into a relationship for good, and getting into marriage. but at his age, those things are still away from his mind, although he would say that he wish to marry me. and with an age gap of 7 years, we have different priorities already, he's still in school while i am building my own career. so i don't think everything will fit and compliment, we will just make things more complicated if we will go into a relationship.
@PedMar (11)
• Portugal
8 Mar 10
No, love has nothing to do with ages. You may meet the love of your life whether 13 or 31. Maybe you won't marry your lover if you met her/him when you were 13, but that doesn't mean he/she was the love of your life.
• Philippines
8 Mar 10
hi phungminhthu. its a factor before considering commitments but it really depends on the person. i've known some who likes partner who is much older or younger than them. those who seeks for older ones seeks for a matured relationship while maybe those who wants younger partner likes happy and not boring relationship. we all know young ones are very adventurous. lets just put it this way, if you really love the person regardless of his/her age, looks, stand in life or what so ever then why not just continue loving him/her. after all whats important is not those people's happiness but yours. just be happy and be in love. remember happiness is always a choice. keep safe people :)