When you're angry or sad you try not to start a new discussion on Mylot?

Sometimes when I am sad or angry I will stay away from here, because I do not want my emotions to color my responses. There are times, though, when I will come here to post when I am sad or angry, because it really is therapeutic, and usually I will end up feeling at least a little better by the time I am done. Even if I don't feel any better, though, I will at least have made a couple of cents while I was on here, so it would not have been a total loss.

well friend you have started a different but useful discussion.being a new comer it is not happened with me yet now.but i think it will be great to start a discussion specially when you are bothered or depressed about trivial things.obviously if the matter is too much depressive then it might not be helpful.the discussion will give your mind a different dimension and soon you may find yourself among many one discussing about that topic you initiated,you will be relaxed and refreshed.

Well, you should never start a discussion in anger...I've learned that first hand. But if you're depressed sometimes it's good to talk about it or even talk about something else to get your mind off your depression. [b]~~AT PEACE WITHIN~~ **STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS**[/b]

If I'm really going through a rough time I try not to let it affect my responses to topics.....Sometimes if I'm going through something I will start a topic about it and get some really good advice of how to handle that problem.....HappyMylotting.....

When I feel I'm sad or emotional stress the more thing that i need to write my feelings down here. Most of my emotions comes out here in my friendly mylot. This site really helps me a lot to release all my secret feelings. That is why i really love my friends here and this site.

hi marianna---I do not start a new discussion in here or make any responses when i'm sad or feeling bad---as my mood might have an impact on the posts i make and i dont want to offend anyone so i just try to keep it myself and think over it in a calm place and sort it out.it works for me and its not right to impose our anger on others as far as i'm concerned.great day.

I rarely get angry offline but it sometimes happens that I read something here that makes me mad, usually something plagiarised and then I have to report and report until it is dealt with before I post again. Sometimes that has caused me to start my own discussions on that subject. When I am sad offline I often read things on here and I cheer up. It doesn't happen often that I am sad either but there was a time just over a year ago that I had something offline which took away all the smiles and sunshine and I ended up not posting for over a month. I just couldn't bring myself to join in. Usually I'm a happy soul and I see the funny side of many things on here, even where there was not meant to be one

When I'm angry or sad, I just do my normal stuffs. Or chill out for a bit. I tend not to start a discussion when I'm angry, unless I really find the need to. I'm more inclined to answer and comment. When I first started out, whenever I'm in a foul mood, I find that I can't do anything in the lot. But that has changed over the years and I'm in control of my emotions more nowadays, which means that I can still participate happily despite my mood.

Everyone should know how to get our emotions under control,if they can do that they sould not post because bad feelings can make you say things you do not whant to tell and you be sory.

hai marianna.i think and i believe that there are strong link when we are in unhappy situation or bad mood,it can reduce our spirit to write in mylot.began 2 weeks ago because my problems (heart problems)it make me lazy to be active here.i loss all my spirit and motivation sometimes.i dont happy or no more feelings when say something here, i dont know why.but it happens to me

yes sometimes i am, if i wake up and im no tin good mood then when i open mylot specially if i read a silly question it really makes me piss off like what the heck this person talking about. i mean those questions that look so stupid to ask. sometimes the post is just like a rewind like they just keep on copying the same question and it really piss me off. but if im in good mood then i dont care how silly the question is, as i just want to respond.

Yah when i'm sad or mad i don't have so much interest in posting a topic or answer some discussions .I just go on browsing and read some topic but i can't make myself to concentration to response and If i did it takes me sometimes to finished it,I just don't get the feeling to answer questions even cannot smile for some funny things that i used to laugh whenever i saw funny answer and discussions.I think i just I am just being emotional or want sometimes to ease the feeling of madness or sadness then everything will be fine. Hopefully everything is gonna fine!SOON!

NOpe, when I feel mad or sad it doesn't really stop me from replying on some discussions here in mylot because, it has nothing to do with what I feel, I mean it's not the discussion that I am mad about and it's not the reason why I am having such a bad day or emotion. When something has nothing to do with what I feel, I don't really make any negative move towards it. I mean that is just ridiculous, I don't blame others for what I feel, I am always the one responsible. And when I am mad or sad, writing helps me feel better, that's why I make discussions and express my feeling through words and I always get good advices from everyone, it;'s something I want, someone who understands you and gives you comments and feedback, whether good or bad i just love it.

hello marianna45! i hardly never start discussion on mylot cause i can not think about what to discuss.everytime i start something i would like to start asking or discussing they are already there. i maybe start a discussion once or twice a month or less than that.

well sometimes this can be a really good place to vent when you have had a bad day as long as you keep it in control and don't take it out on others users on here. we all seem to run into people throughout the day especially where i live that do something that can be infuriating, but i would rather talk it out then to take it out on someone or something. Most of the times its other people on the roads where i live they can be so infuriating at times, but its not a good idea to try to get even with people just cause they do something stupid. A fine example the other day we are at a two way stop there are 2 cars stopped at the stop sign we are coming from the other direction which does not have to stop and the first car had gone so my mom went and the guy at the stop sign apparently didn't think he should have to wait since he was already stopped and was honking his horn like an idiot even though he was supposed to wait for us, because we have no stop sign. He sure made my mom mad and she went really slowly after that.

I don't start all that many discussions, but when I do, I am not depressed when I do, as I know it would probably show in my discussion, and I wouldn't get the responses I was expecting. I have been sad many time, but coming in here and posting responses, helped me as I would see something that would turn my frown upside down. I am not all that an unhappy person anyway, so I really don't have that to worry about. I really do enjoy being here, and sharing my thoughts with others. When I do start a discussion, it will be because I have been thinking about something and so I put it down as a discussion. I do have a hard time trying to come up with a good topic though, so that is why I don't post all that many discussions. Good lucik to you and happy mylotting.

Well, sometimes opinions comes out of your mood. I believe, what ever the feelings we are say happy, we will give positive ideas. Sad, we would give alert or negative ideas. But in mypoint both are good. As in life, decisions, we need to look at the both sides of coins and then make a final decision. So all suggestions in mylot are just ideas, for one to finally decide upon them which suits best for their situation.