I have witnessed an Office Illicit!!!!!
By enix119
@enix119 (101)
China
March 9, 2010 5:51am CST
Do you know Office Illicit? It means abnormal relationship between office man and office lady. Maybe it is a fresh expression, but I think most of us have ever met such an occasion. It means dishonesty to your wife or your husband. I have just witnessed that one of my colleague as well as my good male friend kissed a female colleague and I know that this man has married. If I were his wife, I will feel desperate and never give him a seconde chance. Have you met Office Illicit and what do you think of it?
1 response
@jimeny (640)
• Israel
9 Mar 10
I don't know if it's an "Office Illcit", but I think I went through something similar.
I am working in a school as a secretary assistant, so both the secretary and the principal have my cellphone number.
One day, one of the teachers asked me for my phone number. I did not think there was something wrong with it because I thought it will be used only for work related issues... boy I was wrong. That teacher started texting me everyday, and he was calling me every afternoon (AFTER work) to ask what I'm doing and if he can join me. (and he's married+kids)
I consulted with some friends and they told me to let him know this is improper and to tell him to stop, so I texted him and said that I rather separate my 'work life' from my 'personal life' and that I want him to stop texting/calling me. He didn't text/called me ever since- so it's all good now.
This was an expiriance that I never want to have again.
@enix119 (101)
• China
9 Mar 10
I think you have dealt with such stuff sensiblely and directly. What's worrying is that when some guy meet these office Illicit, although they know it's not smart, they can help to do that and even said it's just a way of jumping out from the office pressures. Anyway, I appreciate your ways to do it=)
