Will you still say "GOODBYE" to the one who doesn't want you to "GO"?

Hi Cloud, I do not think its nice to leave without saying good bye. One can explain the reason to the person so that he can understand why one needs to go and say goodbye. All reasonable rational person will understand and let you go.

If you already made up your mind, then you can already say the word "goodbye". If he refused you to go, that will have no effect since you already made up your mind. Just stick to your decision. You have decided to say goodbye because you are already tired and you are no longer happy with your relationship with him. You love him so much before but he just didn't take care of it. He took you for granted. He has broken your trust. If he did a mistake to you, there's a possibility that he will do it again. So you really have to move on. He is not worthy of your love. And you must always remember that once you close a door, there will be another door that will be open for you. Have a new life, it's time for change. Good luck! Take good care of yourself. Happy myLotting!

hi, I have stepped out in a relationship one time to many when things don't get better after trying to solve things. For me I always sat down with my exes and look them straight in the eye and told them about ending the relationship. I do not sugar coat things because that signals the other party that there might still be hope.I am polite but firm when I say things and I let them know right away that there is no negotiating. I had my share of an ugly break up where in the guy tried to cling to me. I don't want to stay in a relationship because I pity the guy, because eventually I know I will get tired and I will still leave him. So I'd like to spare myself wasted time and the heartache. So I would be blunt about it. Saying goodbye is putting closure in the relationship, because sometimes when the other party don't get closure they keep coming back. However, when you have tried to say goodbye too many times and that's what happens just leave, no phone calls infact you might want to change your number, no emails, delete him from your social network or block him out. I know this sounds brutal lol but you have to do what you gotta do if things gets messy.

you can do it without any word but if you are uncomfortable set a meeting with him and explain the real reason. Make it sure that your goodbye must be peaceful.Tell him that you don't want to be unfair with him that is why you are leaving formally. My advise is formally end up your relationship with closure.

if some one reallu want to go thn.....he must go in a proper way....like he has to tell every thing or situation due to which he wants to go.....thn...leave.....by saying jst sweet n simple goodbye............

Talk is the best way. To say goodbye in person is a lot easier said than done . But is the right thing to do ,it would hurt at frist but a promise of a return is nice. there onece was a saying that if you love set it free. If it returns to you it is your's to keep

it is always proper to end something, whether a relationship or a deal with a closure. though, there are times when doing it is not already necessary because some circumstances would tell us to just move on and be happy with life. especially if we felt that we are taken for granted and you have lost the love for the person.

i will say goodbye, but not straight. just leave him a note. at least u had give a note that u were leaving.

Sometimes you just have to say"goodbye". If you aren't that happy you shouldn't suffer because of someone else's behaviors or actions. It isn't right and you shouldn't even have to consider such a thing. Perhaps they need to realize if they really do love you you can have your space.

this is a appropriate to say goodbye in proper way when you going to leave or you want to end a relationship but this is not a apply every where because the tone of both goodbye when we end relation then we one who is good are who are broking relation ship with compelling he saying but very surly or it is right according to me this word is ton proper right.

End of any relation it is decency to say goodbye. But at the moment of breaking the relation we are not in that mood. So many of us never talk with the people whom we want to leave from our life. Very sad moment of the life is the moment when we are leaving anyone from life. There is deference between normal goodbye and good bye for ever. Both are sad moment. In normal goodbye there is a chance to me the person again. But good bye for ever is very panic.

Hi Cloud,nice topic,it is a common saying that if you love someone then set her free. if she comes back, she's yours. if not, she never was. should you leave someone because it is deemed necessary to find yourself, to know who you are, where you stand, be polite to enough offer you him your reasons. as the song goes, " there's no easy way to break somebody's heart". let this guide you through. and when you do leave, dont close the door. you'll never know, you may try to find your back.hehehe take care always.

hi cloud what's going seems your unlikely to be unhappy these days your topic are full of resentment lol.Beautiful cloud having problem or something?lol you can do it your tough isn't it? You even ignore me how can you have this kind of feelings? Go and don't look back ,look forward I'm waiting you at the other side.At least you say Hello to me Miss cloud31. You're not weak i know, you're such a nice girl and be it.Although you ignore me i will still be here for you!smile! lol

If you have to then you just really have to.

cloud31, Actually, you already have an answer (a blatant one in fact), just that it isn't the answer you seek, although it is an answer that answers all your questions. You don't need advice - you merely need decision. If you keep harboring the reaction possibility and desire a short cut of doing things (BGR or non-BGR related), you are just going to bang yourself against the wall. Learn to respect - if he reacts negatively, then exercise the wisdom to walk out of his space and find the life and love all the more, that's truly yours!

If we want to end the relationship was good we say goodbye, although someone who would we leave behind, do not want to go. The best talk to give an explanation or reason why we should go.

Personally, I don't like goodbyes... But anyway... If that guy I'm in a relationship with really wants me to stay in his life but I don't really love him anymore, then he'll just have to settle with us being friends--- even special friends... But friends nonetheless. If he cannot accept that, then I'm afraid I would have no choice...