Are there any surrogate mothers out there????
By asmurthy
@asmurthy (2461)
India
November 15, 2006 9:05pm CST
me and my husband have bee ttc for a while almost 2 yrs to be exact...we are both healty and young(24 and 25)...we have tried in vitro, no succes, clomid, and even private adoption...(the girl changed her mind a few hours after the baby was born...we have put in a lot of money in tryin to have a family...i wanted to know is there anyone out therethat is pregnant and not ready to have a baby and wants to go through private adoption..all needs will be taken care of, all hospital expenses, etc..we dont want to wait for reg. adoption, weve been on 2 of them for almost 2 yrs now in n.c...now my husband is stationed in korea and we want a family now more than ever...i have been a foster mom for 3 yrs now but if someone wants to adopt them, all i can do is sit back and watch...so if anyone knows someone...we have recommendations, credtials and everything...let me know please...i kno theres alot of girls wanting to give their child a good home with love and security...
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@ajcffmn (35)
• United States
28 Nov 06
Are you an Army wife? If you are let me tell you I have been at it for 15 years and you need a child because at times that is going to be your only friend and family. Good luck... There is a really good private adoption program here in Savannah if you would like the information let me know.
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@birthlady (5609)
• United States
22 Nov 06
Please try contacting an adoption agency, or an obstetrician.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
8 Dec 06
Well, a lot of times, it takes Prayer, Faith and believing in something Good to come from all of this. Just when you begin to think all is lost a Miracle comes in and presents itself. I was never able to have kids, so I can relate what you are going thru, but for me, maybe it was a God send as I am now in my 40s. I do wish you Luck, and know it will always work out for the best in the end.
@alladisada (2305)
• India
17 Nov 06
much as i think being a surrogate is a nobel thing to do, i don't think i could personally do it, except maybe for someone i'm very, very close to. but many people feel differently - in fact my best friend offered to be a surrogate for me if my husband and i wanted kids and were unable to reproduce. it's certainly the best gift you can give someone, but i think that if considering it, you shouldn't underestimate the attachment that inevitably forms between mother and child during those 9 months...
@laurawarde (388)
• United States
29 Dec 06
You are young-I am 24 to-and in NC and also a foster mom and biological mom. I cant imagine what you are going through. People that get pregnant easily (including myself) often take it for granted and dont think of the possible complications. Do you know why you cant get pregnant? Is it you or him or possibly both? Surrogacy is an option, just make sure the arrangements are strict. I dont know anyone that is pregnant, but just wanted to say good luck. Why have adoptions not worked? No match yet?
@fiveisallofus (273)
• United States
20 Jan 07
I feel for you and totally understand what yu are going through! I am a surrogate and I work for an agency and we find surrogates and Intended parents and match them.
Try our agency if you want a surrogate or you can always talk to me more about it.
www.agency4solutions.com
also you can go to SMO
www.surromomsonline.com
They have lots of things, even private adoption classifieds!
