Do you have an intimate chatmate?
By carrine
@carrine (2743)
Philippines
March 10, 2010 10:57pm CST
i mean do you go online because you have a regular chatmate that everyday you really have to be online because she/he is waiting for you to be online? hmmm in my case, yah because i have this boyfriend thing here online, so i have to be online. hahaha
do we have the same situation? LOL dont be shy to share here. 
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9 responses
@dhanasekart1984 (450)
• India
11 Mar 10
yes i have few online friends who got introduced to me through this wonderful mylot. and as we shared our views and thoughts now she is my best friend and sister, i have a caring aunt too.. i got both of them here in mylot only.. thats really a nice feeling.. the only thing i didnt get from here is a nice girlfriend. LOLz
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@dhanasekart1984 (450)
• India
11 Mar 10
im ready to start.. hope you refer me a bunch of people to approach. hehe
@Gany15k (1673)
• India
11 Mar 10
I never had an intimate chat...There is no one waiting for me..
I just chat with my friends when ever I get free time.And chatting with friends will be great..even in online they will make laugh to the most..So..just I chat with friends..and have a good ...sorry.. great time...
I just chat with my friends when ever I get free time.And chatting with friends will be great..even in online they will make laugh to the most..So..just I chat with friends..and have a good ...sorry.. great time...1 person likes this
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
11 Mar 10
haha =D Who's the lucky guy?? another mylotter?? hehe ^_^
Well, i have my mommy too!! But too bad, i'm too busy nowadays and i cant be there for her, for the past 2 weeks!! I know she's 'Hungry' too, but i really dun have time for her!! hehe ^_^
Thus most of the time, when she's online, i'm not here.. and even if i'm online, i cant be chatting to her!! 
@tash01 (2030)
• Jamaica
5 Nov 11
I have a few friends,that i chat with online.Yes he is a guy, i have meet him twice for lunch.
He come Jamaica Once in a while an we do enjoy our little talk,I can talk with him about stuff.
I don't have to be online every day because he know that am married,an he have to work.
We text when we have the time,an if am online we will talk also.if he want to talk he would text me an said come online,an if i can go online then i would.
@dianneld (2)
• Canada
22 Aug 12
I also have a chat mate for about 2 months whom i can say we have special treatment through chatting and we have constant communication too. At first, we never told each other about of relationships with our gf/bf. He has gf for 2 years and I have bf for 4 years. We got attracted to each other in chat with cam so we continue our communication as gf/bf. I bet i fell in love with him for he's sweet and caring through his words. But when i found out that he has gf, i felt so sad and I hated him for I'm about to break my real bf if i just didn't find out.
So to feel ease of my feelings, I shared with him too that i have a bf in my hometown and since I'm abroad, i felt sad and I needed someone to talk to. I felt jealous when I knew he and his gf live in together. But i never let him feel it though.
He said, he's excited to me though it's strange for him to feel it, but that's what he feels. After the revelation, we became close friends. I'm also excited to see him and send him messages although my bf and I are in good terms now. I can say that I truly love my bf, but what do you think i really feel for my chat mate? why do I have the feeling of excitement too as he has when he's online? Please help me perceive this things for every time he shares about their sweet moments together, i felt a little jealousy. What do you think should I do?
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
11 Mar 10
about two years ago, before i came to join mylot, i have this friend of mine from the other social networking site. and when we were both on mylot, we always open our lines to each other. we chat every night because i was only available at that time during my night job. i miss that friend of mine because she is now inactive here.
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@carrine (2743)
• Philippines
11 Mar 10
you know what, the easiest way to have an intact contact online is get ther IM and any chatroom which is very easy to join,. thats what im doing. if i can find a friend elsewhere. then get his IM add. and after that we have already a contact every now and then.
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
25 Aug 10
Hi, carrine. No. I don't have anyone that I just chat with on a daily basis like that. I have chatted with a few people that I know from facebook. But, that was just about all though.. I don't have anyone that I conversate with on a regular day to day basis. At least this guy is your boyfriend.
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
25 Aug 10
I used to have before when I don't have a girlfriend outside the internet world. It's more like a strong solid friendship that is hovering in the edge of getting in to a relationship. But it changed abruptly when I meet this wonderful girl and until now we have a strong relationship and I never go back.
We still have a communication with this chat mate of mind yet I never go far. And I already told her that I have a girlfriend and I am happy with her. She felt sad but she understand my situation.
