it's hard to make a decision especially if you have to... / myLot

March 11, 2010 2:22am CST

People get hurt every once in a while. As to why, we only find ourselves asking too many weakening questions. I do believe though that it's time people view these ridiculous pains differently, but in a positive kind of way: not as a killer obstacles, but as great opportunities; not as ropes that keep pulling as back, but as winds that consistently blow us to the right path; not as the future, but mere memories. It's all up to us really to understand and accept the circumstances that come with making the right choices. At this point in my life, I stand at a level higher than the last second because I AM MAKING A CHOICE, the greatest after a long time now. TO THE HURTFUL PAST: YOU REMAIN AS MEMORIES, thank you and goodbye. TO THE VERY BRIGHT FUTURE, 2 words: I'M COMING. =)

4 responses

lyzabelle

@lyzabelle (1668)

• Philippines

12 Mar 10

Yes...and people always get hurt because sometimes they are being too sensitive. The environment is changing and things will never be the same again. People do differ in opinions and one way or another conflict may rise so usually both parties may end up hurting at their end.

@guaifenesin (4)

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18 Mar 10

yes, the hurting part was the hardest. it was too painful to let go of something you were made to believe was real. furthermore, it wasn't just being too sensitive though, there are times in our lives that people become too insensitive that they would not know they've already caused too much pain.

tomitomi

@tomitomi (5429)

• Singapore

18 Mar 10

hello guaifenesin, i also like the way you think and act. regardless of what has happened you have made a choice. and that's a positive choice. it must have been difficult but there's no use whining over spilt milk. so just move on!!!

move on

beutfulmama6701

@beutfulmama6701 (1718)

• United States

11 Mar 10

Life is all about obstales how are we going to feel accomplishment if we dont fail? How are we going to feel love if we dont know rejection? Its not the end until we give up and say its over. If we dont make mistakes how are we going to know we are doing it right? If we dont feel hurt how do we know compassion? not understanding helps us learn. And the fact is everyone has a choice its up to them decide to use it! I like the way you think! =)

@lifeafterdeath09 (2043)

• United States

12 Mar 10

i see you are new to mylot. welcome to mylot.

this is a very good discussion. it is hard to know all of the answers to these questions.