if we could only hold someone with us
By homeshoppers
@homeshoppers (6166)
Philippines
March 11, 2010 8:48am CST
i know that we cant control nor hold someone to stay with us forever as they might be here by now but sooner or later they will be gone, they might die nor go to other person that they can give them more happiness than us. if i could only hold someone with me then i want it to be my boyfriend. his so nice and our relationship is already tested by time, weve been into ups and down and even into so many break ups but were still end up together. how about you.
12 responses
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
11 Mar 10
what do you mean thoughtless .. everyone one time or another want another person to be there forever ... some want their mothers and some want their partners ... they just do not want to live one day without that person but somehow they gotta learn to as parting ways is a definate destination
@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
i guess his the kind of person who doesnt care if there someone with him even a friend or family that will last forever or for a lifetime. or perhaps he doesnt care any at all. another person who is selfish. sorry but only selfish person who doesnt want anyone to be with them. its just likehis taking people like "ok come here and get lost with all i care" or maybe someday if one of his love one is dying he will then realize that only if he can hold their breath to stay long for him. but then i respect every respond here so if its his though then fine.
@neildc (17238)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
12 Mar 10
of course it would be my honey, my wife. we have been together for almost 15 years now and we are both happy to have each other.
@mce0321 (88)
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
acceptance is the easier way to let go or make it work.. either way it goes, it will keep you less hurt if it doesnt work or last.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
11 Mar 10
Obviously its my love, i wish to have her always with me. She is so sweet and caring, i feel so pampered. And well we have fights, i will tell her i wont talk. But i can be for 5 mts, i will be first to confess and talk. So as she..so dear. And she even wishes the same as i always here this..stay with me forever da!
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
11 Mar 10
i know my husband as lover for 16 years and married him for the past 3 years ... even though the family was against our relationship, we stuck to each other so many years ... being with him is nice (but of course i enjoy some lone time) but knowing that i will never meet him again if something were too happen is what worries me ... Now no matter where he goes or with whom he hangs out, i know he will open the door and walk in ..
cheers
@coffeegurl (1467)
• United States
11 Mar 10
That sounds so similar to me and my bf. I just hope he gets some health care benefits soon.
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
11 Mar 10
That's the problem. We can't hold somebody and stay forever into our life. The same with mine also if I can hold the time back or hold him in me. There is always come and go into our life either family or friends. But let us accept the reality that the time will come or the end of time come sooner or later.
@getbiswa2000 (5544)
• India
11 Mar 10
Hi dear,
We meet once again. My personal experience says that in order to achieve something the first thing you have to do is to give up desiring for it. 
Sounds strange right?
Well, in my very small span of life so far I've realized one thing. Life is a circular race course. The things you are chasing are going further away from you. This is because they move faster. Ye, they are the most volatile and risky things to rely on. So the more you rush, the more you loose the sight of it. But there is one positive thing in it. As this is a circular path, once you give up chasing it and stand quite and then start waiting peacefully, the thing that was running from you will complete the entire circle and will come to you again from behind.
Did you get the point? 
Don't give up hope, give up the expectation, the chase instead. You will surely get what you want.
God bless you
My personal experience says that in order to achieve something the first thing you have to do is to give up desiring for it. Sounds strange right?
Well, in my very small span of life so far I've realized one thing. Life is a circular race course. The things you are chasing are going further away from you. This is because they move faster. Ye, they are the most volatile and risky things to rely on. So the more you rush, the more you loose the sight of it. But there is one positive thing in it. As this is a circular path, once you give up chasing it and stand quite and then start waiting peacefully, the thing that was running from you will complete the entire circle and will come to you again from behind.
Did you get the point?
Don't give up hope, give up the expectation, the chase instead. You will surely get what you want.
God bless you
@kyleuy (270)
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11 Mar 10
Hmm.. I want to be with my partner for the rest of my life.. we just had our 1st monthsarry together and looking forward to more months of course, even years! I Love my partner so much and there is nothing else that I could ask for more. I really hope that we will be spending the rest of our life together.. :)
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
11 Mar 10
These days holding some one for a long time is highly impossible - yes this worked nice about 30 years back when people were not fast with knowledge. But now - everything has become fast and also crooked.Evey one has become narrow minded and selfish .please excuse me for being transparent in this version.
Making friends or being with someone for a longtime has to be forgotten - yes this is possible if you go on spending money for the people whom you meet and as long as you spend money say for 10 years they will be with you. This is because of only money. But - will surely leave you once you stop spending on them.
We are living in a world of money.
