did you ever feel tha you want to cry even if theres no reason to cry for

Philippines
March 11, 2010 8:57am CST
i dont know what happened to me now, i just got home after meeting with my friends, we talk a lot and have fun with them, actually we just go to one of our friend's house and we stay there, we do a lot of cooking and eating. its supposed to be a funny day to me but when i got home i wanted to cry but i dont know why as thres no reason for me to cry, i just feel that my mood is so down. maybe because im jealous of my friends as they are all happily married and with kids unlike me im not married and yet im pregnant and the guy left us. even if my previous ex come back and become my bf right now i just feel so insecure though i already told myself many times that i already accept the fact but why im still sad. i feel like theres still emptiness in me.
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@jimeny (640)
• Israel
11 Mar 10
Yes, I have... It's called "Depression", and it's a problem that many people suffer from. I'm taking pills that help me to pass these 'down' moments in my daily life because otherwise I just stay in bed the whole day, and cry/neglect myself. (without a reason)
@jimeny (640)
• Israel
11 Mar 10
You mentioned being pregnant... perhaps it's your hormones changing your mood? There is also the 'after birth depression'... I suggest you talk to a doctor about this so you wont get even more depressed later. Good luck with the baby!
• Philippines
11 Mar 10
yes i guess its just due to my pregnancy thats why, its like i really can explain why i want to cry without any reason, im thinking of possibility why as maybe i was just being jealous nor insecure but i already admit that fact a long time ago but theres still times that i want to cry like today.
@optomyst (47)
• Denmark
12 Mar 10
I get that feeling about three times a week so I know how you feel. Part of the reason you felt so sad after you came home is because you 'did' just have a good time with your friends. I was a single parent for my first child, the father left nine days before she was born, and the minute she arrived all thoughts of him flew out the window. I did just fine as a single mother and as fate would have it, I met my Prince Charming shortly after. We have been married for years.
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
thank you, its so nice to hear that from someone who used to be in my position also. i know other people might not think the same feelings that we had and its not really easy. but im glad to know that you already found that person at least it means in life theres still hope. so ill just wait for that moment too. thanks you.
@rajaiv0810 (1012)
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
Well yes. There are times I'm driving and there would be like some music which is not even sad music but something I can relate, i'll just find my tears falling. Duh! Maybe I'm just a little crazy girl sometimes. :)
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
12 Mar 10
Sometimes we are faced with the undeniable feeling that we have to cry. it can be overwhekming. There is nothing wrong with crying without a specific purpose, It is an emotional release our psche needs.
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
yes,oftentimes i want to cry for no reason i just fell better if i will cry hehe
@netcoder (275)
• Philippines
8 Apr 10
yes sometimes it also happened to me though its what they called the time of self pity coz we become so busy with our life thats why we also need to rest and sit back sometimes trying to relax with friends nor go out to have fun.
• India
11 Mar 10
Well i dont know whether that has happened to me in my life or not, but i think taht i do feel sad sometimes without reason. For crying there has to be a reason well if you really want to such an incident i have just one. I was wathcing the movie "flashbacks of a fool" , a really dull movie with a slow moving story and nothing much to cheer about . But as the story started to reach its end i started feeling real sad and if i remember well some tears did fall down. I guess it was the background score and the stuff happening but i never really figured out why.
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
i do feel that way sometimes. crying for no reason at all. then i start to feel this self-pity thing. and i hate it. coz it makes me really feel so down, feeling like i'm at the lowest point of my life.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
12 Mar 10
sometimes, humans are just like this. they want to cry for no reason. sometimes, i feel they are getting crazy. but no, i have never done that. what i feel is that sometimes, i want to cry but no tears come out.
@redhotpogo (4401)
• United States
11 Mar 10
When you're feeling down, sad, feel like crying, but you can't think of why...its depression. I felt that way alot when I was younger. Its something that's bothering you, that you just can't figure out. Usually its many things, you just can't put it into words. You feel trapped, hopeless, your life has no meaning, lots of different things.
@Ladyslipper (1327)
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
Hi Homeshoppers! I sometimes feel the same way (wanted to cry even if there is no reason at all. As I can remember it usually happens when I become nostalgic or when I miss someone and feel lonely and alone. The last time I felt that way was like 5 years ago. It usually happens when I am alone. When I had my own family and surrounded by people I care and makes me feel important and loved it does not happen to me. Maybe you are just feeling alone. Try to stay for a while with your family or people important and close to you. Don't be sad because with your condition right now you always have to be happy. Stay strong for your self and most importantly for your baby. Once your baby is out and you've hold him in your arms everything will feel just right even without his father. Take care always. :)
• India
11 Mar 10
I don`t how are we programmed....why crying is always considered with being sad???....Seriously think about...we feel sad on many ocassions but we dont cry....but whenever we cry...why everybody thinks that we are sad...i somtimes feel so sad that i feel like crying...but tears dont roll-out my eyes....does that mean I am not crying but i feel my heart is crying and it is so very in pain....
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
11 Mar 10
My dear,lotter,dont be low everything will be alright,never mind take it a test from GOD for some time after you willfeel alright?
• India
12 Mar 10
no ,beacuse i cry whenevre some couse.
11 Mar 10
I have days when everything is great. The weather is sunny and bright, my arthritis isn't quite so bad, I'm in a happy and cheerful state of mind and the next moment the tears fall for no reason. Depression can hit in a second, no reason for it, I just cry. Sometimes it best to just let those tears fall and cry it out of your system.
@coffeegurl (1467)
• United States
11 Mar 10
I am sorry you're sad. Many times I feel sad and like I will cry with no reason. That really sux that he left. Do you have family nearby you to help with the baby when it is born? I think you are thinking about what you will do when the baby is born. It's probably been weighing on your mind and you have been hiding those feelings until now.
• United States
11 Mar 10
that happens to me alot everything in my life can be going great but yet I feel down I can be surrounded by a thousand people and still feel completely and utterly ALONE I have Bipolar Disorder though and thats why I am that way have you tried talking to a therapist?
@phoenix8606 (4942)
11 Mar 10
hi! No, i haven't felt that way, but sometimes when I think about some happy moments in my life, I just want to cry from happiness, because I remember how happy and carefree I was then, how my life was, and how ran on the street with my friends(i am talking about my childhood) I also feel like I am going to cry in moments when I am with all my family members- my parents, my sis, my grandmother, my cousins, my aunt! Then I feel that tears from happiness are coming into my eyes!