are you a fan of fight and make up scenario with your boyfriends???
By caloyie
@caloyie (40)
March 11, 2010 9:11am CST
Everytime I'm hanging out with my boyfriend I'd always want to make up a fight 'bout anything under the sun. I don't do this to end up the relationship but I do so to bring back the spark over and over again... I love when he says " It's you I love the most and you're beyond comparison" ^_^
how about you? share your thoughts ^_^
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5 responses
@cecillecarmela (3818)
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
Hello caloyie :)
I have experienced doing so on my ex-lover and first love. He's not my boyfriend but he courted me for a year and a half so our relationship was much like "lovers". Usually, I'll start a fight about almost anything just to bring back the spark. Hehe. But I realized it's not healthy in a relationship because there's no honesty in it. I'd like to have a partner whom I can perfectly go well with whether it's consistently good or bad times. I stopped doing so because it didn't help anyway. I think in my own opinion it's a sign of immaturity in the relationship so I prefer to be my old natural self and won't do my own move to make the relationship stronger. I mean, of course you should make your effort but it just comes out all natural and you don't force yourself to do it.
Just an opinion though. Take care and God bless ;)
@jvsl10 (9)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
I used to have the fight and make up with my ex-boyfriend (now my husband) it was fun at times but sometimes I have to be honest it ends up into a real fight. That is so because not all the time they are in the mood for fake fights. He also have moods and moments where he just wants to be serious and all. Besides, I have heard this from most of guy friends that I know that constant fighting whether petty or serious could lead to a guy or a girl getting tired of the relationship. so it is not always beneficial to a relationship.
@soulist (2985)
• United States
15 Mar 10
I do not like to fight with my bofriend. There are other ways we spark things up over and over again. Sometimes its easier to do that since we are farther away from each other. We live in different states so we find different ways to show we care about each other and bring that spark back.
@divineathena (1746)
• United States
13 Mar 10
My boyfriend is so innocent and adorable that I cant argue with him at all. He has this "awww" face that melts me like crazy. Thats why I love him so much. He is the source of happiness for me. Even when I am alone just thinking about him makes me smile. When we see each other we kiss each other more than 100 times in 2 hours.
But if a situation occurs where an argument is needed I just say it all calmly so I don't hurt him. This is how we usually communicate about issues. During tough time we just keep the conversation going so we reach a happy conclusion. But there is no way we leave anything unresolved.
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
My boyfriend and I don't usually hang out with each other. We also didn't talk that much. That is why every time we see each other we always fight. At first we are very good and very sweet but when its time to say goodbye and see you till the next time. That's the time i make scenario and fight with him. Well, he just ignored my childish act and just hug me tightly. AT time its not always like that, he also losses his patience in me. So we really fight and if i already see him blazing because of anger, its me who will stop and take it slowly and easy.