Would you see someone again from your past?

Philippines
March 11, 2010 9:12am CST
I am just wondering if it would be right to meet up again with someone who belongs to your past? The relationship was happy and good but it just didn't turn out the way it was expected but you both have managed to be good friends. Now, the other person is committed and you are not but you got kids and this person wants to see you again. Would you meet up with the person or not?
7 responses
@dbeast (1495)
• India
12 Mar 10
Well there is no problem in meeting up and being friends all over again but I think taking it any further would not be such a good idea.The person can be a moral support and a shoulder to cry on .There is nothing wrong in meeting up.
• Philippines
11 Mar 10
Hello kayebee! I think there's nothing wrong with meeting your former lover as long as you reunite as good friends. When I got married 2 years ago, I & my ex-boyfriend bumped into each other unexpectedly. We enjoyed each other's company at that time while talking about the good old days. From then on, we communicated again through texts, phonecalls, emails and became close friends.
@snowy22315 (182380)
• United States
11 Mar 10
I think that it is sometimes that you find people who you are compatible with but that you met at the wrong place and time. I think that it is nice that you found someone and if there is something there why not reconnect?
@Bethany1202 (3431)
• United States
11 Mar 10
Meeting up with someone from your past is fine, but not if they are in a committed relationship and plan on cheating on their significant other. However, just to get together for lunch or something innocent shouldn't be a problem.
@krisnel (498)
• Philippines
11 Mar 10
if you become good friends there is nothing wrong that the two of you shall meet again. as long as that you know the limitation that the ex is committed and you had a kids. if you had not any feelings with your ex and purely friendship is in your heart then go and meet him.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
11 Mar 10
Probably i would since we would be just meeting up for old time sake as that someone has been part of my life. Since we have ended up being friends, then i guess we could just continue being real friends, sharing family life, experience and advices as i think i can relate easier to someone whom i had a relationship before.
• Philippines
11 Mar 10
Nothing is wrong with meeting again. You can be friends and hope not to destroy any relationships.