Are you jealous?

Philippines
March 11, 2010 9:27am CST
I am a woman who always feel jealous only to a man which i love. I don't want him to look to another girl because i want him just for me only. But it is not good. It shows of being selfish. I feel the pain if i know that my partner is looking to another woman. But i know, looking to other woman is just normal to all boys. How about you? Do you feel the same? Thank you friends! Have a nice day.
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6 responses
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
11 Mar 10
No, i am not the jealous type. It is such a waste of good energy. I want my hubby to look at other girls. I don't have a problem with it at all, as i do exactly the same. It is so much more fun that way. TATA.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
11 Mar 10
Yes sweetie, i agree. People need to trust themselves and try to relax. It is more fun that way. TATA.
11 Mar 10
hell0 saphrina! yes, the jealousy is really a great waste of energy and time too, but it is also the worst "disease" from which many people suffer. jealousy can't give us anything good, it just make us worse partners and it is the most frequent reason about broke-ups in relationships!
• Chile
11 Mar 10
I'm a man who is incredible jealous ye know but i'm happy this way =) because when she is talking with someone else like another boy.. i feel bad, but that feeling confirms me that i am in love and i like to feel that =D ..the thing is not to start a fight for it, everything negative will just ruin the moment and a romantic relationship is based on good quality moments.
@mjcookie (2271)
• Philippines
11 Mar 10
I don't have a guy, but I know it is just normal to feel jealous. But being TOO jealous resulting in unpleasant circumstances is what is bad. And don't forget that it is a sin. Actually one of the deadly sins. Good luck. I hope your relationship gets better and stronger.
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
Thanks to your reply my friend. I wish I could be like you not getting jealous. Our relationship still in good standing anyway coz i can handle my jealousy. have a nice day!
@mjcookie (2271)
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
I am not jealous because I told you I have no boyfriend, so I don't have anyone to be jealous of. Have a nice day, too!
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
hello mjcookie, being too much jealous can be bad in the relationship, that's why i don't have a relationship right now because i know that if the person is pretty there's no doubt other guys will approach him.
@dloveli (4366)
• United States
12 Mar 10
I am jealous in a way. I dont get hateful and tell woman to back off my man. I do get a twinge when I see him run into someone he USED to know. He on the other hand is terribly jealous. I love it! Happy MyLotting dl
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
Thanks to your reply my friends and that is good. Have a nice day.
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
hello mods, I am single and yet to have a relationship but i could determine myself to be one if ever i get to have a girl friend. although, i know it won't be healthy if i do it too often but it's part of being in a relationship. but i would that my future girl wouldn't do it to me since i have nothing else but her.
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
Others says that jealousy is showing of more love to her partner. Thanks to your response my friend and have a a nice day!
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
Yes I feel the same way. Whenever jealousy sets in, I tend to become very selfish and it even came to a point that even with his friends I become insecure. But I have a basis for that. I don't get jealous easily if there are no grounds. Before he also can't resist looking at other women and that makes me feel very unpretty. I just want all of him.LOL!
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
Yes. I really hate this feelings but it automatically happens and i feel insecure too. Thanks to your response friend. Have a nice day!
• Philippines
13 Mar 10
yes me too, y just happens automatically. it's hard to control because if I don;t express how I feel, I would totally wreck things! LOL!
@scja16 (322)
• Philippines
13 Mar 10
I feel the same. I am jealous type of a person and I also do the same. But I always explain why am i like this to her. And I make sure to listen to what she want to say about it. But so far it is okay with her and she's doing everything so that I will note get jeolous of something and someone. Just have more faith, jealousy is okay but not too much.
• Philippines
14 Mar 10
I agree with you that too much jealousy is not good and have faith to our partners. Or trust them. Thanks for the response and have a nice day!