F u know a secret of ur friend would you tell even if it can destroy a family?
By sheenmadness
@sheenmadness (1286)
Philippines
March 11, 2010 10:10am CST
I grew up with few circle of friends because "me and my big mouth". They never share their secrets to me for they all know it will be publicized. LOL! Until I met this friend of mine. I don't know what she found in me that makes her comfortable of me. And Im really thankful to that. And still thankful that up to now we're still best of friends. But there's something she did that I really resented. I've been vocal to her that I will not tolerate her wrong deeds, she told me she already regretted the things she'd done and she wanted to changed and go straight. If I were you? Would you still tell the person she wronged and ruin their family or would u rather keep your mouth shut even if your conscience telling you otherwise?
3 responses
@islandrose (686)
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
Hello Shen,
Give your friend a chance to align herself. She is just weak to resist the temptation of doing some mess in her life. Be a good friend of hers by keeping an eye if she will repeat the act or really changed her ways. She will love and appreciate you if you will act as an angel to her....wow! Only until your conscience will permit you, but try not to create hammock on family affairs, let others do it. Just leave your friend behind if things get worst!
@rajaiv0810 (1012)
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
It's enough that you have told her that she is wrong. If she said she regretted it I think you have to trust her. The moment you speak up it might cause some problem and you might be the one to regret the consequence if it's not good and you would think that if only you shot your mouth. Sometimes there are things which are better left unsaid than to aggravate a situation. Remember the statement, "What he doesn't know, won't hurt him". So keep your cool and just remind your friend not to the same mistake again.
