how much do you love and trust your spouse?

Philippines
March 11, 2010 9:59pm CST
When you love a person, trust must come along. As such emotion become stronger when you take a vow with the one you chose to grow old with, your trust also goes deeper. In the presence or absence of his/her spouse, one should sustain trustful confidence and reliance on the promise of fidelity and loyalty. What if something bothers your mind and create some suspicions or doubts? Would you mind to entertain such persuading thoughts? In my part, I trust my husband as much as I love him.
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14 responses
• India
12 Mar 10
Hi, I love her very much It is actually love affair and we came together during the college days. We had quite a platonic love affair till I joined a company as medical representative and then we got married. It is quite pleasant thing to be with her and she too loves me very much!
• India
3 Apr 10
Thank you very much, the life is always wonderful with a wonderful wife!
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
You're such a sweet husband...I remember my hubby who's away from us now, he kept telling me how wonderful I am as a wife. God bless you & your family shekhartv!
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
Nice love story huh? I wish your love & trust for each other will keep growing till the end.
@junrapmian (2169)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
We've been married fro 26 years, we have not encounter any problem on infidelity. Maybe we love each other so much that we were not able to look away or stray away with each other. I guess, when you love your partner so much, you are secured and you trust him as well as he trust me.
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
Wow! 26 years of strong marriage is a success. My husband & I will be celebrating our 2nd year anniversary this year but we can't do it together since he's working in other country. I'm inspired by your post...Have a good time! God bless you & your husband, your children & grandkids!
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
12 Mar 10
I love and trust my boyfriend more than anything. We are in a long distance relationship and trust is highly important fo us. We trust that the other person isn't cheating or anything else. i dont even entertain the idea because I know my man loves me and is faithful to me just as I am to him.
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
Long distance love affair is quite risky, it's more prone to temptations & tests but if both of you love & trust each other so much, nothing can keep you apart.
@shello (964)
• United Arab Emirates
12 Mar 10
Love and trust should go hand in hand in a relationship. When there is love, trust should be there too. You cannot sustain a relationship without trust and yet you cannot say that you do love the person when you can't even trust him. I trust my husband as much as I love him. For the two years that we have been married, we have established a relationship bound with love and trust for each other. Lastly, love and trust can easily be attained and maintained when you put God as the center of your relationship. For with His presence and guidance in your lives suspicions, doubts and infidelity has no room in ruining a relationship wherein God is the heart of it. God bless!
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
With God, everything is at its right place! He should be at the center of a relatioship.. Thanks for your nice words shello!
• Singapore
13 Mar 10
relationship is based on truth between two people, both people do not trust each other will not last long or will not be happy to be together ,i am totally trust my spouse and even something he try to keep it from me it is just because he has his own reason so i try to share things with him .
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
Without trust, there can never be love I guess. The two must be present to keep the relationship work and succeed. Hi mary! Thanks for sharing your thoughts here..
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
12 Mar 10
well,true eloveriz,when you love somebody,the other needs to love you if the other loves you sincierly,you are in heaven,earth becomes heaven.
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
Exactly! With that, we can say actually sing this line "heaven by your side" he he... Have a great time my friend, thanks...
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
trust is something you earn over a period of time, once doubt comes along, the trust you gain becomes questionable. it's true that once you love a person trsut coexist with it. however there is always an exemption to the rule. you can always doubt a person you love if he/she gives you the reason to doubt him/her.
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
Doubts will rise when we see the reasons clearly, but it's best to give someone a chance to explain and express his/her side for our suspicions might be wrong.
• Italy
12 Mar 10
I trust more then myself. I love her and she the most trustworthy person in my life.
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
Good for you, rocky. Keep loving and trusting her and let her feel the same way for you.
@abhi_bangal (5534)
• Ahmednagar, India
12 Mar 10
The words love and trust are relative terms. It depends on how you look at them. If you have had a love marriage then first you love then marry your partner. There is bound to be trust in such relationships if everything goes right. That is one thing. If you have had an arranged marriage, then first you marry and then you love. Generally, love automatically springs up in your mind and body for your partner. However, trust is a game of mind and it is difficult to say if there is enough trust for your partner in your mind. Who knows even your partner may think on the same lines as you are thinking. Will you like someone to question you as far as your emotions are concerned? Emotion is a thing that is personally very close to oneself and each of us wants to have it secured in the corner of our minds without anyone interfering it. Therefore, it is better to say that there is love and trust for your spouse in your mind.
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
Thanks my friend, I like your words so much. You've stated the difference of love marriage & arranged marriage, very well said! A good day to you...
@krisnel (498)
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
if you dont trust your partner it means that you dont love your partner. love and trust is some of the secret formula in making a longtime relationship. i trust and love my partner so much. if i was bothered about my partner, i will count 1 to as long as the thing that bothering me had totally gone. i dont want to make some doubts on him because he always told me that he loves me so much.
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
Yes, Love & trust as the secret formula is the right term you use for having a happy & doubt-free relationsip. Thanks krisnel!
@Andyvil (793)
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
Although I am not yet married I've experienced totally trusting someone in my previous relationship. Even though there were a lot of signs of infidelity I didn't entertain them cause I thought then that she would never cheat on me. I always brushed aside any suspicions of her then. Well it turned out all of those suspicions I had then were real. After we broke up she confessed to me that all my suspicions were true. It really didn't matter anymore but at least I learned my lesson from that experience. Its ok to trust someone but it is never ok to trust someone blindly.
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
Sometimes when we love a person, we do not see his/her imperfections as well as mistakes and that's what make us so blind. I'm glad you've learned a lesson out of trusting too much.
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
That is a tough question "for me" The question requires a simple answer. It's either it's YES or a NO. I can never measure or weigh it. I do trust my wife. Sometimes, she just have to understand that I'm also human. I am a very paranoid man. When baseless paranoia creeps in to me, it's like I'm already seeing the things happen right before my eyes. Sometimes too much of imagination and creativity will get put me to danger. =) But yes I do trust her. But then again, I am only human. I have fears and all.
• Philippines
30 Mar 10
Ha ha! Better avoid too much imaginations for it might lead you to something you never expect you can do. I'm sure your wife loves you the way you love her, or even more.
@mybabe (33)
12 Mar 10
when you love a person like your spouse it is really accompanied by trust. you cantlove him if you dont trust him.if something bothers on my mind that can create suspicions and doubts i dont really mind it but if the doubts and suspicions is really bothers me i really check my husbands cellphone,,, do check his calls and txt messages and one time i really smell his t-shirt.. i trust my husband but to just get away my doubt i did that... i can say they will comes a time you will experience doubts or suspicions but it doesnt matter that the trust fade away. as long as you trust or have have trust love will grows more deeper.
• Philippines
30 Mar 10
Distractions are everywhere but it's up to us if we allow these things to block ourselves from trusting fully. Hello there! thanks for your most valued response.
@scja16 (322)
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
I also trust my wife and i know that my wife trust me as well. Before we have doubts with each other, maybe because we are still immature before but now after years gone by. My relationship with her got stronger ever. We know that until the end regardless what problems will fall to our path... we will still hold on to each other forever. We are happy as well to know that you have a strong relationship with your husband. Wishing you both the best for your relationship and God bless
• Philippines
13 Mar 10
Hi there! Thanks for posting your response. I am also happy to read that the love between you and your wife has grown deeper as years passed by. Stay happy & sincere with each other....God bless you both and your kids!