Do you have friends which have a competition with you

@1anurag1 (3576)
India
March 12, 2010 2:46am CST
I have some friends who shows them selves to be sweet with me at out side but inside they have some kind of competition with me. what are your experiences. how to tackle these realities.
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@freeboy90 (456)
• Italy
12 Mar 10
I think I know what you mean, I have a friend with whom I can have really a lot of fun, I like challenges but actually he makes anything become a challenge, I think it is because he's pretty insecure and has to prove to himself that he's better than others, this behaviour really annoys me, also because he tends to be really arrogant, or just to give an example if we are playing a videogame I just play for fun but he always wants to be the best but for that reason he cheats a lot, and when he wins he screams out loud but when he losed he gets all cranky . I don't care being always the best because I rationally know that I will be better in some things and in others there will be someone who is better than me, we all have different skills.
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
I love competing with my friends.. grades, girls and other stuff. I love to show my dominants over them. I love the feeling that I'm better than them in the things I love
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
12 Mar 10
Want or not want, we all have people like this near to us, everywhere, at work, family, our circle of friends, even here. But they are not our friends, I think the best thing is to be in competition with yourself, you are exceeding the limits, maybe in sports is good to come in in the competition, or if you want to win a prize in a field . "Friends" who are always competing with you, clearly are not friends, are just frustrated, do not have its scale of values, living just to show that they are better ... good on you? fighting continues, the hatred and envy?
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
Yes, that cannot be eliminated. I don't know why there are people like that. They satisfy themselves through competition even if you don't want to compete with them.
@Lata_45 (217)
• India
12 Mar 10
yess there are manu such kind of people around me but i dont believe such people are my friends..... and people those who are my friends, they dont compete with me, they are happy when i succeed and vice versa... talking about others then i really dont care what they do and think