How to get rid of annoying friend?
By wongchoiyee
@wongchoiyee (7413)
Malaysia
March 12, 2010 12:39pm CST
I have known this friend since 14. We lost touch when we were 18 till 26 we are connected till now 29 again. However, something has changed my friend. She are so annoying now. She would call me everyday to ask me to go out. I have a car. She will ask me to pick her up with my car everytime we go outing. When I ask her to come to my house everytime by bus, she will said she is scared to do so and asked me to pick her up. She wants me to treat her like a princess.
And she do not pay for petrol. She grab my sweater when I'm cold. She doesn't care if I am listening to her talks. She just talks none stop till the end of the day. THis makes my ear tired of listening.
My problem is I regret contacting her at first. So I will not be treated like this. How to get rid of this annoying friend?
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13 responses
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
12 Mar 10
Straigtforward and honest. Tell her how you feel and what you think of this whole situation. There is no other alternative. It will be better to do it now as it sounds like things will get out of hand very soon. Good Luck. TATA.@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
12 Mar 10
Actually I just want to tell her that we are not compatible as in the past or young.
@phoenix8606 (4942)
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12 Mar 10
well saphrina as I see we are on the same mind with you 
only being straight with her will help you!
only being straight with her will help you!
@indocorner (546)
• Indonesia
12 Mar 10
i do agree with saphrina that u should be straightforward n tell her honestly what u feel on her. She would never know what u feel, hence u should tell her.
@jugsjugs (12967)
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12 Mar 10
Tell your friend how you feel aswell as how things have changed between you and that there are lots of things that seem to be one sided in your friendship with them.If you do not tell them how you feel about them and the way they are then you will still have the same problems with this person as they will not know how you are feeling.
@indocorner (546)
• Indonesia
12 Mar 10
yup... . resolve the problem early unless the problem will never end.
. resolve the problem early unless the problem will never end.
@muncungmaneh (36)
• Malaysia
13 Mar 10
it is esy. you just need to shout "I HATE U VERY MUCH!! U ARE ALWAYS ANNOYING ME! PLEASE GET OUT FROM MY LIFE!" loudly in front of public. then u can say whatever wrong things that she has done to you.
i'm sure she will not come back to you anymore...
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
13 Mar 10
Get rid of annoying friend yoy also start behavin in the same way!then its ok an and one will realize!
@guitarz_john (10)
• Philippines
13 Mar 10
all i can advise to you my friend is that just talk to your friend clearly dont be angry just be calm all problems will be fixed by talking with each other tell him/her whats bad about his doings and tell him/her to change his attitude....i think thats the way to handle your situation dear.:)
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
13 Mar 10
Hi, friend. I can fully understand your dilemma. The best way to deal with it, so at least it seems to me, is to refuse her directly in a mild tone. When she asks you to pick her up, you need to tell her that you are not available at that moment and you firmly appreciate her coming by her own. If she takes you as a true friend, she'll be sure to understand and does things all by herself. If she still insists on your helping her, I think you need to reflect on it. Obviously, she does not think you deserve her care. If it's really that, why not break up with her? She is not worth cherishing. Hope you'll soon get rid of her. Good luck!
@zzyw87 (1254)
• Philippines
13 Mar 10
I also have friends like these. Sometimes I feel they just use me. What I did when I had some annoying friends like yours was to be more distant towards them. I did not talk to them regularly anymore. I just tell them I am busy when they want to go out, etc. So months pass by that I don't see them.
@raisur (423)
• Bangladesh
12 Mar 10
hi wongchoiye... i can feel your agonies... it's really difficult to get rid of a friend, especially when he or she is not understanding... i also feel, you should express yourself honestly... whenever she asks you to pick her up, you may say it won't be possible for you to do, and say sorry for that... whatever, you don't like about her, let her know gradually... see, whether she understands or not, and whether she changes or not... give her a chance before doing the tough thing... if she changes her, i'm sure you won't like to lose a friend... remember, friends are always precious...
@RevampSkunk (107)
• United States
13 Mar 10
Sometimes just telling them bluntly will get rid of them. I think that you should be at least honest with that annoying friend ya know?
@phoenix8606 (4942)
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12 Mar 10
hello! well, maybe you must be straight with that girl, if you really think she is annoying, but as I see it is so :0
just try to say it to her discreet and if doesn't work then you should act straight.just tell her that you couldn't take her every time with the car, because the gasoline is not for free or that you have some problems with the car. try to be nice so that you don't insult her!
@kiel_d_01 (136)
• Philippines
13 Mar 10
i think you really do not have to get rid of that friend... for a guy like me who only has a few ... every friend i make is the greatest achievement i could make in some time ... if that person is really annoying you try to talk and tell her how you feel ask her your questions before making decisions ... sometimes we take friends for granted because we always think that we could make more or say "i have a lot better friends than that one" or something like that... try to understand... being a friend doesn't really have to come with something in return ... the point is you should always be there for each other ... i'm in a very sensitive situation and my friend is the one that's been there for me ... try to be optimistic with her approach ... -^^-
@cnn0831 (27)
• Philippines
13 Mar 10
Talk to her, tell her what you feel, what you like and dislike about her. If she's really a friend, she'll accept it w/o heavy heart.
You can try to refuse if she's inviting you to go out, tell her that you're busy. Not all of the time you'll be there for her. you have your own life.
