best friends quarrel?
By VIOLETdie
@VIOLETdie (51)
Philippines
March 12, 2010 11:55pm CST
me and my friend was already been
best friends for 5 years but
we still haven't encountered any quarrels
or misunderstanding. . .is it just okay?
or Is it much better if you sometimes quarrel
just like other people say for your
friendship to have a strong
relationship. . .?
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8 responses
@recycledgoth (9894)
•
13 Mar 10
My best friend and I have been friends for the best part of 20 years and we have never yet had a quarrel, disagreements maybe over the years byut never quarreled.
@VIOLETdie (51)
• Philippines
14 Mar 10
AMAZING!!!hope were gonna be the same
with the relationship you have with your best friend
'til we reach that year,,,
@autumndreamer (3185)
• Philippines
29 Mar 10
Well, I think it's just okay if you don't quarrel. But I also think quarreling means that me and my friends are true to each other, that we are showing our true colors to each other, and that we aren't afraid that our bad traits are showing. That's just my opinion.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
3 Jan 11
Hi VIOLETdie,
We friends usually quarrel and misunderstand, but it doesnot long for more time. Just few hours and we feel after fights that friendship is stronger and build up more lovable.
Happy Mylotting
@marmar75 (168)
• Australia
16 Mar 10
I've read somewhere that a simple friend thinks the friendship is over when you have a fight, but a real friend knows it's not real friendship until you've had a quarrel. Don't aim to quarrel though, it will come naturally. However, when it's over, you'll know the depth of your relationship with each other because of it.
@mille_0419 (45)
• Philippines
21 May 10
well i don't really think quarreling daily is that necessary..don't you just love it when you and your best friend enjoy each other's company so much that you don't quarrel :) just love each other's company and love your friendship.. :)
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
13 Mar 10
actually, today I also have a quarrel with my friend. I did something wrong to her and she really got upset about it. I have tried to ask her apologize, but it seemed that it's hard for her to forgive me. so I will take it as my bad fortune losing a friend. so if you ask me how to make a strong relation with a friend, I think I don't have good answer, cos my own relationship is also in a danger. LOL.
@EldaFreya (37)
• United States
13 Mar 10
I don't think quarreling is necessarily a sign of a healthy friendship/relationship. If you genuinely get along with someone and have no reason to argue, it doesn't mean your relationship is bad.
The problem is when someone is in a relationship, a friendship or as a lover, and you never disagree or quarrel because you are not honest and open with that person. If you get upset and never let that person know then your relationship will deteriorate. If that is the case, then the relationship is unhealthy, it means you don't trust one another.
But if you genuinely get along then there is no problem and you are lucky to have found someone that you can open up to so easily. Don't ever lose that friend!