Do you have a convincing power ?
By mobhomeir
@mobhomeir (7558)
Philippines
March 14, 2010 7:35am CST
Hello guys for me, CONVINCING power would be the best and the greatest gift of any living individual. I guess we normal people has already that one. The only difference is how we gonna use it effectively. How do we gonna find a good timing of using it to achieve success. I admire those people really gifted on this ability in fact I envy on them. What I felt unfair on my side is I could be easily convinced from those people having this ability on the other way when I would convince anyone seriously mostly I failed to win their "yes"...
If I am going to rate myself where 10 would be perfect, I think I am just at 5..for me am not good in convincing someone...
How about you guys, how will you rate yourselves on this matter?
Let's share it my friends...
Mobhomeir here...
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11 responses
@cloud31 (5809)
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14 Mar 10
I would rate myself 8 on this,Convincing power should go along with Conversational power,without a conversational power its hard to materialize the Convincing effect to everyone you wish to win their "Yes" or agreement.
Your verbal persuasion technique,you'll wield an almost magical power over anyone, and win the respect, support and friendship of everyone.
Your Convincing power must develop a golden touch in human relationship.Make a better testimony of yourself to have a better Convincing power.
Happy myLotting!
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
14 Mar 10
I believed that a women like yourself should always have this natural ability that would really convince other people. for me, that is hard as hell now when it was a lot easier because i get around with other students as i was an irregular student.
@cloud31 (5809)
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14 Mar 10
Don't lose your hope for that friend, you can do it I believe no person come to this world with ability doing that,,You can slowly learn how to do it friend!Be confident you have 5 in your own rating i believe you can make it 10 the best of it.Keep up the good work..and More power!
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
Hello cloud my friend I believe in what you rate yourself. I can see it in your picture...I guess to a girl who has beautiful face like yours need not to talk more to convince everyone with just your smile and a little talk it's already "sold"..
Thanks for responding cloud...
Mobhomeir here...
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
hello daddy,
just like what i've said to you, i also think about this topic but i just forget to post it...hehe for some reason it don't come to my mind whenever i am in front of the computer! hehe
anyway, i think to have this convincing power, one needs to have a good communication skill, you know, knowing the right words to say for a particular situation for a particular person... sincerity and knowledge on what he/she is saying and of course some charisma... and i think credibility & integrity also counts...
it also amaze me and i also admire people who can convince people easily on what they are saying...
as to myself, hmmm i don't really know how to rate myself...haha coz there are times that i feel like i can easily convince someone but there are times that its difficult for me to make people believe on what i am saying...haha they feel like i am always joking! huh!
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
I understand that iloemi..I think each of us as convincing power. It would just be effective if we could have really sure of what we would be talking about. But there are really people who could talk on anything to convince everyone for a certain topic. Thanks for responding my dear iloemi..
Mobhomeir here....
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
I must read it first before submitting..." I think each of us "has" convincing power...sorry
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
Hi! I never thought that I have a convincing power throughout my life, as even for simple things, I cannot find myself convincing, until the day came, that I fell in love with a very special girl. She is so beautiful, sexy, intelligent, very nice, everything that a guy is looking in a girl is possesses by her. I'm just a very simple guy, I never expected that I will be able to convinced her that I really love her. Right now, I already have her heart fully convinced. And I am sharing the happiest days of my life with her. I can say that from the rate of 1 my convincing power flew high to 10, when I got her. Have a nice day! Happy myLotting!
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
I believe in you my friend as what you had stated. We have different field on our convincing power. In your case I guess you could convince well to the most beautiful and sexiest lady in the world because maybe you have confident on that field...
Thanks and congratulations for owning the most beautiful lady you never thought you could win her heart....
Thanks for responding...
Mobhomeir here..
@jilshi (271)
• Malaysia
15 Mar 10
i don't think so i had convincing power at work place. i look younger than my age and therefore i guess my colleages thought i am young and not mature. the place i work at promote staff based on seniority.
i think i have to wait for long time before get promoted
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
Hello friend I think physical features of ourselves has nothing to do with our convincing as long we know where would we put the right time to talk and sincerity on it...thanks for responding..
Mobhomeir here..
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
14 Mar 10
hello mobhomeir,
How are you? unfrotunately, i haven't really been talking for a long time. and i just realized that after that long time i have actually lost my convincing power most specially when it comes to persuading others to change they're perspective in voting for a chosen candidate. It's really sad that i no longer have this power, something went wrong along the way.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
You know letran my friend, cloud is right. Besides convincing ability not limited only on campaigning candidates, explore everything in your world, I mean talk normally to your friends, don't hibernate, in this way you could get back your confidence...Cheers!!! and Good luck...
Mobhomeir here..
@cloud31 (5809)
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14 Mar 10
Because you lost some of your confidence..You lose some sense of personal power and mastery over others..Since you left the arena for the time being..Here's some useful tips fr you to revive your convincing power..
1)Gain much power over others.
2)Able your self to guide,direct, and control your convincing for your own benefit.
3)Become a brand new person with an exciting and powerful personality.
Friend, the desire to win,the need to be first, to excel, to be the best.
Hope it can help you a bit..Happy myLotting!
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@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
15 Mar 10
I would probably rate myself a 5 also. You have to have good communication skills to convince someone of something. I am pretty shy and I don't talk much, so I am not good at convincing anyone. I guess I am better at writing than talking, but still not real good at convincing anyone.
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
At least we have one thing in common he he ...thanks for responding..
Mobhomeir here..
@apocalypsereturns (368)
• India
14 Mar 10
Well i think that i will have to say tha t i have a vary bad opinion bout myself over here .
I dont have a good convincing power at all maybe its different for me while with my friends but to some stranger it happens rarely and with a lot of effort.
But still i dont htink that convincing power is inherent and one can improve it over time too,
Some one could be great at convincing someone to buy a gadget but be be agreat failiure when it comes to groccery it all depends on the situation ..
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
Hello apocalyps you said it right...we have an effective convincing power in different field of our daily lives...That was cool..thanks for resp0nding..
Mobhomeir here..
@bjcyrix (6901)
• Philippines
21 Mar 10
I like to think that I do.^_^ Im just pretty determined at getting what I want to achieve and if it means a "Yes" from a certain person then I would try my hardest to get it out of them.LOL Of course, I also have a knack for understanding people. I mean I seem to have an idea if they would say "Yes" or "No". There are just those people that "No" means "No" to the very end. There are also those people that "No" means "No" but could become a "Yes" if you play your cards right. As in you know how to convince the person to make that "No" a "Yes".
I cannot really rate myself with a number because it would have a conflict of interest. In rating things, I like to be objective and so I would just let my work speak for itself.^_^
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
14 Mar 10
Best way to convince is to give away the ego and show them the love. I rate my self 7. I have several arguments with friends, relatives and my love. But i will be the first to convince myself, as i feel convincing ourselves is great power. Then i convince my friends. And to my love, i accept the mistakes, so he gets convinced easily. Since i go easy, my love he always gets convinced and give a yes.
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
Hello besthope that was cool friend. Thanks for responding..
Mobhomeir here...
@artsyfartsygypsy (755)
• Canada
14 Mar 10
I do for the most part. I usually get what I want (without meaning to come off as a brat or spoiled or anything) and I guess, l;ike everything else in life, it depends on the popel and situation involved. I give myself a 8 and for falling for that sort of thing Ill give myself a 7.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
Oh that was good..I appreciate it...sort of self confidence...thanks for responding my friend..
Mobhomeir here..
@fantabulus (4000)
• India
27 Aug 12
Yes I have convincing power but only for my husband and my husband convince from me for anything. But in case other family members then difficult to convince them. But I not leave the hope and try it