what is the most painful words your parents has said to you?

My mother doesn't tell anything wrong to me..but sometimes when she got angry...few words comes from her mouth..yeah! i remember one thing my mom said few years ago...that u can't do anything in your life...this word penetrate my heart..I know she said in angry mood..but i feel lousy after listening this.....

i don't. my mother loves me so much. i was so lucky. i don't know my father, he left me when i was just a little kids. But i hope you can heal it and try to say nice words to other people so they don't hurt just like the way you do.

hi friend.i am a very sensitive guy. i am very thin and have tried to gain a little muscle but its too hard to me. if someone question me or say anything about by attitude or body, then i cant tolerate at all. once my mom told these which hurt me very much. thanks.

well i can`t think of anything really right now!!!

My mom loses temper too easily and she has not only verbally abused me, but also hit me physically which actually once gave me fever. Anyways, there are numerous things she said to me which I haven't forgotten because she actually never stops. She will just abuse me everytime she is angry. It basically has to do nothing with me. But one thing that really hurt me bad and pulled me away from her was that she does not love me much and she cares for my older sister. The funniest thing is that my mom is a big liar also. If I tell her that something she said hurt me a lot she denies that she ever said like that to me ever.

I have heard a lot of painful and hurtful things that I heard from my parents. Mostly it was my fault and my doing why they say that. I do get hurt about what they say especially when it's not true, I don't put grudges and I know it's for my own good.

I don't live with my father anymore.. i think the most painful he has said to me/us when i was younger is that" i am choosing this woman over you and your mom". It kind of stick in my head, and is still echoed to this very day. I have not seen him for ages now.. maybe like 10 years or more and i don't think i will like to see him anymore. He has clearly told us how he don't value and wants nothing to do with us anymore! I have forgiven him, and his crooked choice.. but for all the things we went through because of his choice, i think i shall forever have in my heart this feeling of not wanting to do with him anymore...

My father physically, sexually and verbally abused me when I was a child, so much so that I actually tried to kill myself by taking an overdose of medication for my epilepsy. This guy was supposed to be one of the few I looked up to, to learn from and all he did was abuse me, and he constantly told me I was a freak, an idiot and I would never be able to do anything with my life. I may not be doing much in my life right now, but I don't care what he says anymore, and never will now.

I was very shy when I was a child, and sometimes my parents often critized me for that, they also made fun of me and they shouted at me. One day while I was a child some of my parents friends were coming over for dinner, and my parents asked me to open the door when they arrived. I didn't want to, because I was so shy, and my parents became very, very angry at me and said a lot of nasty things to me. That hurt me a lot, I didn't say no because I didn't want to help them, I said no because I was scared, and I felt that they were unfair and that they didn't understand me.They kept on telling me how ridiculous my shyness was that I had to "grow up". Today I am an adult and I am not shy like I used to be, but I still remember how much those words hurt me back then, because I really wanted to get rid of my shyness, I just wasn't able to change it at that time.

Sometimes silence is worse than harsh words.My mother often shouts at me for doing things she doesnt like., But once my father,who usualy doesnt scold me for anything, stopped talking to me.This continued for two long years and trust me it was much more painful than being rebuked.I used to feel so bad and ignored.I felt as if I was a speck of dirt.But thankfully everything is alright now.

Verbal abuse i guess. when i did wrong things, they used to tell me hurtful words.