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New Zealand
March 14, 2010 3:33pm CST
I'd always been hidden behind a "High Wall." I was a very shy, very quiet person. I couldn't trust noone! However, the one person I trusted hurt me and I lost trust in anyone altogether. However,years later I went through tremendous chaos and it wasn't good at all. But it was through this chaos I found peace with myself and my friends and family. They all gave me a blessing! And now I'm a new person. I'm more open-minded and can relate more to different situations! But I am still "ME." The side I kept well-hidden is now out in the open and I feel I can finally be myself without Judgement!
4 responses
pcserver
@pcserver (392)
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14 Mar 10
Well done. The most important thing is to be yourself. be more open - that is a good thing. Don't bother what others say or do - just be yourself all the time. Try to say whatever you want and do whatever you need to do, of course without offending or annoying others, because you won't like it either. Don't even care if someone judges you, because you can judge them, too. The best thing is that you realized that you've became a new person and feel better...so go on that way. I wish you the best from now on :P
starlitn
@starlitn (67)
• New Zealand
14 Mar 10
Thanks for that. Yes what you say is very true. Although I can be annoying at times. lol. But sometimes I just do it out of boredem. People who know me, know this too. And I think I've gained alot more friends than enemies now!
BenBrent
@BenBrent (2)
• United States
14 Oct 10
the best thing you can do for yourself is to just be comfortable in your own skin, it sounds like you've come a long way and that's good.
lilyalone
@lilyalone (73)
• China
8 Apr 10
You are your own hero! Unhappy experience will pass, love is always there! Don't forget, life is good!
lilyalone
@lilyalone (73)
• China
8 Apr 10
You are your own hero. Everybody need to change, to adapt to the environment.Our friends and family are angels for us. Maybe your unhappy experience did harm to your heart,but hope is always there, love is always there, so, whatever! Just face it and take a lesson from it. Don't forget, life is good, tomorrow is another day. Happy Mylot!
lilyalone
@lilyalone (73)
• China
8 Apr 10
You are your own hero. Everybody need to change, to adapt to the environment.Our friends and family are angels for us. Maybe your unhappy experience did harm to your heart,but hope is always there, love is always there, so, whatever! Just face it and take a lesson from it. Don't forget, life is good, tomorrow is another day. Happy Mylot!