Will you have the courage to live on if you lost sight?
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
China
March 14, 2010 8:44pm CST
Hi, friends. Today i'd like to share this discussion with all of you. As we are living in this world, we have a rather acute sense of the importance of sight. Whatever we do and wherever we go, we need to use our eyes. It's hard for us to realise how difficult it was for people who lost sight to continue living on. When i see blind people in the street, i can't helping thinking whether i'll have the courage to live on if i lost sight. I dare not imagine the tough times i'll have to struggle to do everything in a dark world. They maybe things as simple as eating and drinking, or as hard as walking and working. I may probably be easily defeated by the hardship of life as i'm a person who has not much courage to face difficulties, especially health problems. What will you do on such an occasion? Will you have the courage to live on if you lost sight? Or you just let it defeat you? Any responses will be appreciated.
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@bystander (2292)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
why not, my friend. a lot of people who are blind continue to do normal things, even more than their normal counterparts. there are even some blind people who achieved more than normal human beings... one is helen keller... another is jose feliciano... and i think, the internet is full of these individuals. so, why be different, there's always an opportunity, even for the blind...
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
18 Mar 10
Helen Keller is a good example. I came to know about her since my childhood and have read a lot of her stories about her helping other blind people studying. We normal people should be more strong-minded and always have faith in ourselves, and remember whatever happens, there should be a way out.
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
18 Mar 10
Yes. Nothing can compensate for the loss of our sight or other senses. We should always take care of all our faculties consciously.
@bystander (2292)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
that's my friend, never giving up. but, of course, we have to take very good care of our eyes. nothing can really compare with having those wonderful faculties that allow us to see and appreciate beauty...
@princessem (86)
• United States
15 Mar 10
I went to school with a blind boy, but I have never known anyone personally that was blind. I have always heard that when someone is blind or deaf or mute or anything like that, their other senses are very, very keen. I suppose that would make living a little easier, but it would still be extremely difficult. I imagine that it would be much worse being born with sight, and then going blind, because you would have been able to use your eyes up until then. I honestly couldn't tell you what I would do I lost my sight. You know it would have to be miserable! But I don't think I would completely give up. I guess I would just try to make the best out of it.
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
15 Mar 10
Yes, i heard of that too. If a person is blind or something, his other senses are quite keen. As you said, it may make life a little bit easier but not as easy as normal people's life. I totally understand that this is a difficult question for everyone to give an answer. Only when we are under that kind of situation can we really know whether we'll have the courage to live on or go to despair.
@Tootles1023 (7)
• United States
15 Mar 10
I know a person that is blind. He does almost everything that people do that has sight. When he would come over to our house he actually play nintendo with us. We would tell him if he needed to move to the right or left. He won quite a lot. We didn't even let him win he just practiced a lot and used the other senses to help him. I admire people that are blind. I don't know if that is something I could handle. I guess I wouldn't know unless it happened to me.
@silverjapan (233)
• Romania
15 Mar 10
Blind people can be unbelievable for me sometimes, I cannot imagine how hard it is for them, and then to see them smile, being happy and doings amazing things, I have total respect for such people.
@animegirl334 (3263)
• United States
23 Mar 10
I think I would learn to live on. Seeing is important. I can use my other senses and still live a productive life. It is unfortunate to think about people who have to live life without the experience of sight but it could be made up with other senses. A person don't have to see a flower but can smell it. A person does not have to see their spouse but maybe touch his/her hand to feel their presence. A lot of courage is probably needed to live life knowing something would always be missing but I believe a good could be had.
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
23 Mar 10
That's it, my friend. What we gonna need is an optimistic attitude toward life. It is miserable and hard to live without sight. But we should try to make the best of it by using other senses. That's why lots of blind people are still living a colorful and meaningful life. Some of them even make great achievements that are not easy for normal people to gain.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
28 Mar 10
My great-grandfather became blind when he was an adult. He was able to cope with the situation, and he even lived on his own for several years, but I know that many things were difficult for him. He loved reading and he was very sad that he was no longer able to read books. He listened to audio books instead, but there were few audio books to choose from compared to ordinary books, and it was hard for him to find audio books that he was interested in. I sometimes wondered what it would be like to be blind and I wondered if I would be able to cope with the situation the way that he did.
I am an artist and I love art, so I would be really sad if I were no longer able to paint, draw or see the different colours. I know that it would be hard to adjust to a life where I was blind, but I think that I would be able to learn to live without my eyesight if I had to.
I believe that everything happens for a reason and if I become blind I would try to adjust to the situation and try to get the best out of it. There would be many things that I would no longer be able to do, but there would also be a lot of thing that I could still do for instanse play and listen to music which I love. I would also be able to listen to audiobooks like my great-grandfather did. That would be important to me, because I love reading.
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
28 Mar 10
Hi, friend. Thanks for sharing your great-grandpa's story. What he's been doing is really impressive, especially during such a long period of time. Many people may be struck down at the beginning and no longer has the courage to cope with all the difficulties ahead. But as you said, everything happens for a reason, in which I firmly believe, we lose sight because God wants us to make the best of our other faculties, so we have to do the utmost to adjust to the future life, however tough it may be.
@shello (964)
• United Arab Emirates
15 Mar 10
For me, it would be very difficult to live without my sight. In my 25 years on earth, I have been so dependent with my eyes. Surely, everything would never be the same. Although, many said that when you are blind the other senses would be very keen in its functions but still it would be very different. You will have to undergo such adjustment and I'm sure that it wouldn't be that easy. It would be a mental and emtional struggle to anyone.
But in the end, if I have to choose if I would have the courage to live without a sight, then it must be a yes for me. I would still chose to live. I know it would be very difficult but I still have to live my life with the purpose.
Only God can decide on when is He going to take back the life that He gave to me. I would choose to lay everything unto Him for He has the reason why he took that gift from me. He knows so well and everything is only temporary. God bless!
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
15 Mar 10
It is true that living in a total darkness will be very very difficult even if other senses are keen. A keen sense of smell or hearing can never replace sight. Nothing can compensate for the loss of one's sight.
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
16 Mar 10
Yes, for people who believe in god, nothing is worse than being given up by the almighty god. Without his guidance in life, people feel kind of losing their way. But fortunately, that kind of misfortune will never happen to us. God will always be with us. God bless!
@shello (964)
• United Arab Emirates
16 Mar 10
You are absolutely right! Nothing can compesate for the loss of one's sight because all of us have been so dependent on that all our lives.
I know that we could never talk ahead of those who are in that situation, on how they really feel and how difficult it is for them. Even on my personal reflection regarding this discussion, the message brought fear and worry but at the end of the day I still came to realized that our god is a God of comfort. We should not forget that He will never leave us no matter what happens and no matter what situation we are unto. That idea somehow ceases all the worries and the fears of living a life without an eyesight.
@pinklady227 (285)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
Ya i have also thought about this situation wherein what if i will my sight will be lost. When i was still single, i said to myself come what may. Now that i have a family of my own, i guess i will still struggle to survive even if i'm blind all for the sake of my family.
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
15 Mar 10
It's great of you to think that way. You show care for your loved ones and also your responsibility of supporting your family. Not all the people are able to live on bravely if that happened. Many of them just choose to end their lives or are overcome by despair.
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
15 Mar 10
I learned about japanese culture and i totally respect that way of life. When s person is on the verge of despair, he sees no meaning in his continual existence and he just chooses what is right for him. This should not be regarded as weakness.
@recycledgoth (9894)
•
15 Mar 10
We have the most amazing ways to compensate for the loss of one of our senses. An old friend of mine went blind at the age of 25, and after a few months of learning to adjust to her situation she has continued to live her life her way and loving every moment of it. I was proud to be a guest at her wedding two years ago and she has a lovely little baby girl now too. Her blindness has not stopped her doing anything she puts her mind to.
I believe that I, too, would be able to adjust to the loss of my sight, and when it comes then I will manage just as well as she has
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
15 Mar 10
Thanks for sharing. Your friend's story left a deep impression on me. She has achieved whatever it is within her power with her courage and optimism, which are what many people lack of.
@pastorkayte (2255)
• United States
15 Mar 10
I would, my dad is legally blind but as close to blind as possible, he cant see anything real just the outline of things, however he goes on and I think I can to, he has learned special tricks to help him survive and he lives comfortably. While he has lost one of his senses it seems that all the other ones have increased ten fold. He has an outstanding memory now, he can hear even the smallest thing and he can feel as his hands are his means for sight. He can also read braille and still gets to enjoy his favorite books, I dont see that as a failure but an awakening of the rest of your abilities.
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
15 Mar 10
That's really very impressive. Anyway, your dad sets a good example for all those who lost sight. At least there are special tricks helping the blind to do things more easily. With the help of other senses, it is definitely possible to lead a happy life.
@AndrewFreyne (6281)
• United Kingdom
15 Mar 10
I think that this would be a very difficult challenge for anyone! I don't know if I would be able to handle this having experienced site for all of my life. I do look at blind people with admiration and I consider them to be very courageous! This must be a very tough experience although I'm thinking that they have become used to things now and it probably becomes easier to handle over time. It's a wonderful thing to be able to see the world around us and I would be very upset and devastated if I lost this ability but I know that there are some good agencies that help blind people now and there is a good amount of support available! God forbid I lose my sight and have to cope like this! Andrew
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
16 Mar 10
Hi, Andrew. I really appreciate what you said. When I see blind people doing all those things that maybe hard for normal people, I can't help admiring them with all my heart. It can never be an easy thing for me to cope with all the difficult things if I lost sight and I'm grateful that I'm endowed with this ability and will try to make the best of it.
@srganesh (6340)
• India
15 Mar 10
That will be a real tough situation without eye sight.Life will be very hard to go without vision.Blind people by birth,will not have much difficulty as people who lose sight in the middle of their life.Yet,we can't give up under any circumstances.Though there will be more challenges,we have to lead our life without fail.Initial days will be a lot of struggle but man is known to adjust with anything.
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
16 Mar 10
Thanks for responding. We've talked a lot about people born blind. They have no opportunity to enjoy the colorful world ever since their birth, and they'll have no strong desire to really see things in the world however beautiful it is described by others. Compared with people who lost sight in mid-way, they are more lucky.
@LadyBoss (253)
• United States
15 Mar 10
To tell you the truth, I dont really know what I would do. If I could Still Talk and Hear. Then it means Im still here. But My whole life i have been able too see. If my sight ever got taken away I probably would be shocked. I really dont know what I would do
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
16 Mar 10
Hi, Lady. I understand your feeling. It is also a tough question for me. Only when we're really under that circumstance can we know what we'll do.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
15 Mar 10
I am certain that this would be a difficult issue to face. After much trial and hardsahip, i hope I would be able to overcome. I would like to think I had the courage to keep on going without my sight.
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
15 Mar 10
Although it is a difficult issue to face, we always need to be confident in our ability to overcome adversities.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
15 Mar 10
I would like to share something I heard on the radio today that I think is apt for this discussion. As you might not know, the Paralympics is currently on going. One of the events is downhill skiing. I guess some of the particpants are blind. What they do is that there is a person just in front of them giving instructions to a mike or speaker on the participants helmet so he would know when to make turns.
Now, downhill skiing is already a dangerous sport with eyesight, but this example is just a showcase of the human spirit, blind or not!
I don't think I could do it myself, but this is a good inspiration.
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
16 Mar 10
Thanks a lot for sharing. The blind participate in downhill skiing is something I've never thought of, though I do watch Paralympics. Skiing is a dangerous sport for people who are able to see, let alone blind people who can only depend on the instructions given through helmets. It is full of challenge and is also a test for courage. I'm proud these heros.
@shynepapin101 (1879)
• United Arab Emirates
23 Mar 10
Its very hard to choose but with life there's hope
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
23 Mar 10
Yes, friend. Life is very hard to all of us, but we should never give in to the difficulties and adversities. As long as we're confident in and have faith in ourselves, we'll be able to overcome any difficulties ahead. Thanks for responding.
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
To be born blind could probably be better than losing sight at a stage in life where you got so used to seeing, at least if you're born without the sense, your other senses could develop to your advantage over the years, whereas losing the sense of sight in the mid-age of your life, you'd have a hard time adjusting to everything. I think it will be extremely difficult but I won't give up. I'll just have to start learning to accept it first though.
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
15 Mar 10
Definitely. Losing one's sight on the midway is far worse. One will find it hard to cope with all the difficulties in front of him. Without an optimistic attitude toward life, it's easy for one to go to extremes.
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
11 Sep 10
Hi, chenxiaoyue_713. I will have the courage to live on. It will be very hard and stressful for me. I will have be scared because I don't know what will happen to me or where I will end up at. I will not let the idea of not having my sight defeat me. I will still press on no matter what may happen.
@lylisal (78)
• Mexico
15 Mar 10
I believe that the gift of life is priceless. I agree that would be very difficult to get ahead without seeing, but power also experience more worthwhile things. Yes I'll have the courage to move on.
@scja16 (322)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
For sure it will be hard to be on that position. Maybe I can say that there will be a stage within I will lose hope and will be discouraged on moving with my life. But in reality, things happen and only God knows what will happen to you. Then if God wants that to happen to us then be it, it may have a purpose or a reason behind it. What we need to do is to strengthen our faith with God and be happy that we are still alive serving God.
God bless
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
15 Mar 10
Though God does not exist in my religion, i wholly respect your way of thinking. Whatever falls on people, it is in the God's power to determine. He owes every reason for what happens to people and what should people do with everything. He's always guiding people on their way.
@silverjapan (233)
• Romania
15 Mar 10
This was always a hard subject for me to imagine, I have total respect for blind people who are still living happily, for me this would mean the end of my career, since I'm a graphic artist, but also the end of my life basically, I live to discover beauty in this world, to admire art, people, places and so on, if I cannot see, I don't wanna sound harsh, but yea, that would be the time for me to go...
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
15 Mar 10
Then you are a very strong-minded person as you answered so firmly without and hesitation. That's great. Wish you a nice day!