can you stand that your lovers has a boyfriend

I can't believe you were asking us that kind of question. I think it's very self-explanatory that it's a must to let her go. If she loves you, she'll always offer her heart to you and nothing else. But I guess you weren't really that strong enough to set her free because it's too obvious that you're so damn in love with that girl. It's just so sad. If you'll stay with her, you will be just prolonging more your agony. Find somebody else. Love and respect yourself so that others will also offer it to you.

Oh, man. After what she did to you, you still want her?! Don't you have self-respect? You should be treated right and there are more girls willing to do that to you, she's not deserving and you should forget her--NOW!! Or are you sure she has another man? Maybe you just mistaken.

You don not want to lose her? Don't you feel that she betrayed your trust? I suggest you talk to her. Besides, even if you love her but she has another boyfriend, would you still stick with her? You should ask her why she has another boyfriend ... is not having you in her life enough? I think you should think about these things before getting more hurt than you already are...

You should leave her because a girl like that can't be trusted. You should accept the fact that she's totally not in to you. If you choose to stay with her you will be hurt more. You should move on, enjoy with your friends or date with other girls, find ways to forget her. You deserve better than the one who cheats on you.

If you found out that your gf has a another lover, the best thing to do is to confront her and ask her. Everything will be fine if you are willing to open up with how you feel about her action.