I love you BECAUSE....
By ada8may21
@ada8may21 (2405)
Philippines
7 responses
@bananamen1 (442)
• Bulgaria
15 Mar 10
I think it's better to can't tell why. Because that will mean that you love him just because it's him. If you tell - I love him because of his honesty, goodness and blue eyes, I think that will mean that you love the qualities that he has, but not him. And many people can have these qualities, but you can't love all of them. There's is a chemistry too after all :)
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@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
I definitely agree with you bananamen, loving someone is not because of anything he has but because of he is. You also embraced and accepted all his flaws and mistakes. So I dont understand why people asking me why I loved my boyfriend? are they trying to trapped me or make believe that I am only after of something? So everytime people asked me this. I just shrugged my shoulder and tell them I dont know. And then they find it unusual or weird.
@bananamen1 (442)
• Bulgaria
15 Mar 10
And you people ask you that? If he treats you right and you both feel well I think it's not people business.
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
Yes people ask me that because they always want something to talk about. People here would like to make gossip. That's there business making gossips. Which I find it so irritating and annoying. If only I dont have manners I would already shout at them to shut up
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
22 Mar 10
I think that's it! I think its a good thing that you love him even though you dont know why. Its reason enough for me why you have that kind of emotion because love cant be understood. Its okay if you dont know why you are in love with him, its already a good thing to know that you love him and you should continue doing that. 
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@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
22 Mar 10
That's what I also thought loving a person without any reason. It just grow up inside our heart that we didn't know its growing. Sometimes we are going to love the person that we hated most and we couldn't find the reason why we love that person we hated.
@shibham (16977)
• India
23 Mar 10
yes, different persons diffrent views.
"i need u, i have a big space in my heart and for you, u have to fill up this space. just enter to my heart and then u will be too close to my heart. i need u bcoz i have emptyness in my life. u have the ability to make me full. if once u come to my life then u will believe how much i love you and i am damn sure u will begin to love me. so i need u first so that u can understand how much i love you"
these were my point of view. thanks.
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
Good morning shibham, thank you for sharing your view about that one. That really sounded very good to be true, not all person have that big space in their heart to fill in. Anyways, your such a very poetic person. Aside that you are a mentor you are also a poetic. That quote of yours is good to share for those guys who would like to court someone. Anyways good luck.. thank you much.. enjoy being poetic here in mylot....
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
21 Mar 10
Hi Friend, I've seen that line in a movie. The girl asked the guy "Does you love me because you need me? or "You need me because you love me".
Its not I am contradicting with your concept friend. But I believe that it should be "I need you because I love you" and if you believe the other way which is "I love you because I need you", it only signify that you only love me because you need me, you need my money, my name, and everything or anything. So you dont really love me because of who I am, but you love me because of what I have.
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
17 Mar 10
Hello love is a unique concept, it happens my friend, one need not do or ask for it, only when it happened we just wonder how it happened, it is true for 'true love' between souls only, not the lust that is limited to bodies
Thanks for this post.
Bhuwan
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@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
17 Mar 10
Hello Bhuwan good evening, Welcome to my discussion. I agree with you on that, that it only happened and we sometimes wonder why it happened. Thats the thing i considered true love. It just boost in heart and you didn't notice that its growing until you noticed that you are so much in love with this person.
@tigerlily1972 (502)
• Germany
25 Mar 10
I love him because of his disposition, of the way he thinks. We had been there for each other for 9 years and he has never changed. I love him because he accepts me when i am on my worst (when i am angry, not taken a bath, not combed my hair, too busy, am sick, not feeling well, i like to be lazy day, can not cook, etc. ). I have never heard him got angry on me. He makes me feel loved and important. At home, when in times my daughter & i disagree on something, he would come between us and say : my daughter is the lion (her zodiac sign), i am the tiger (born year of the tiger), and he .... he said, he is the poor fish(his zodiac sign). We always laugh on this...end of argument. lol
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
Nice hearing from you again. Are there really reasons why we gonna loved the person. For me I dont know and I dont have the reasons why I loved him. Nice hearing those qualities that you loved from your husband. It would be nice feeling why you loved him. Unlike me, while I am looking at his face while he is asleep I really could not figure out why I loved him, he is also the same. According to him I am totally opposite of everything he wants but he could not get away thinking of me (cheezzzzyyyy). Until later on he just felt it that he wants to spend much more time with me. Thank you for sharing it tigerlily... No wonder your username is tiger. you are tiger pala..
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
16 Mar 10
Wow... 7 years and counting many more years of togetherness. I wish you the best of luck and Wishing the two of you to celebrate your Golden wedding anniversary.
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
Hello good evening jvsl10, thank you so much for sharing your thought. It was nice to hear that you found reasons why you love your boyfriend who turned out to be your husband now. For how long that you've been married?
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
hello ada8,
i don't know because i am just single but i prefer a girl friend.lolz. but loving some one isn't just a feeling but also a commitment and mutual attraction and interest shared between two lovers. still it's something that is very hard to explain.but you know, love is good.@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
Hello Letranknight, I understand your emotions as I've been being a single as well for almost 8 years. I've never expected that there will be someone special will come into my life. So dont loose hope, one day it will come to you in a most unexpected way. Good luck
