LOVE MARRIAGE V/S ARRANGE MARRIAGE WAT U THINK IS THE BETTER OPTION ???
By mohit_getme
@mohit_getme (154)
India
November 15, 2006 10:43pm CST
HII ALL DEARS ... AM FINDING ABT UR VIEWS THAT LOVE MARRIAGE IS BETTER OR ARRANGE MARRIAGE .... ????
25 responses
@ranjeetkolarkar (1595)
• India
4 May 07
In my opinion, any kind of marriage, love or arranged, is good only if the love exists between the partners even after the marriage.
For a love marriage, if the love ceases to exist after marriage then it would be a disaster. And same would be the case for arranged marriage.
So i feel "LOVE EVEN AFTER MARRIAGE" is the best and longing marriage.
@JG1950 (27)
• India
11 May 07
LOVE is the success of marriage.If Love wears off due to passage of time and change in circumstances, then the marriage fails. Arranged marriage has the advantage of elders counselling the wife and husband. Nevertheless the single most reason for success is Love between the partners.
@askshivam (478)
• India
18 Nov 06
love marriage gives understanding among partners.....there will not be monitary problems..if elders are against their marriage,they don't get social security from society.........in arranged marriagew they get social security..support from elders,society in all aspects..
@tommy0099 (194)
• Indonesia
18 Nov 06
love marriage, we could share, understand each other until now
@imranak (345)
• India
18 Nov 06
I'd go for love marriage. I would want to marry a person who i love and who loves me so that i would be happy. But in the case of an arranged marriage its like ur marrying blindly and i wouldn't want to spend the rest of my like with someone who i don't even know.
@MysticalRunt (93)
• United States
18 Nov 06
I know that many cultures do arranged marriages but I was born and raised with American customs and here in the United States we don't have pre-arranged marriages. I couldn't imagine marrying for anything other than love.
My grandfather was from Hungary and his mother wanted him to have an arrainged marriage to a wealthy woman, my grandfather went against his mother's wishes and had chosen to marry my grandmother out of love, my grandparents were together until the day my grandfather passed away, and many many years later my grandmother was still faithful until to my grandfather's memory until she had passed away
@kamlesh_2065 (3)
• India
18 Nov 06
marriage are always good no matter what type of they are. as we have heard that marriages are made in heaven. problem is not of arrange marriage or love marriage. its a question of mutual understanding between a boy, a girl and parents. we have seen in love marriages that they are not able to adjust bcoz family members never care to spread mutual understandin g and so there is communication gap. and this communication gap is the mother of all problems. so according to me both marriages are good if u can have little mutual understanding
@scholastic (728)
• India
18 Nov 06
well it is always better to arrange ur love..i mean that if u can convince ur parents to agree to accept ur love,there is nothing better than that..and the second best condition is that u don't fall in love then the most preferable option u would have is to go for a arranged marriage...and in case there is a dissent may be sitting and talking to both the parties might help..
@RumDusk (299)
• United States
18 Nov 06
i feel that a marriage that is base on love and trust is the most important. a marriage that is base on getting something for it like a business deal or money or a green card will not last. unless you just grow to love the person.