What to do when a friend always shows you the wrong way?

Hi getbiswa, I haven't had this sort of issue since I was a kid. Even then if a friend of mine came up with an idea to do something that I knew was wrong and I went along with it, it was never the fault of my friends. On some level I really wanted to do whatever it was also. If your friend comes up with a plan and you don't want to go along with it because in your heart you know it's wrong then just say no. You don't have to give up the friendship over it. Just don't go along when he's doing dumb stuff.

They can mislead you, if you can afford the time and your energy on them, you can lead them to a right path as well. If you think you are right, and if you think they worth your time, you should tell them what you think is right, let them choose what they want, make your stand very clear to them. My husband has a friend who has a very negative thinking, but my husband is not affected by him, even they always have very different set of thinkings, they are really close friend to each other, his friend would never ask my husband to act like him, but he would tell how sad when he faced his problems (the problems caused by his wrong acts). But in reality we should always pay attention, we should not be used/get involved in any criminal acts, even they are our friends.

I have never been lead anywhere! Even as a child I would say no and mean it and I was and I still am stubborn enough to stand my ground.If this friend is pressuring you to do bad things , he/ she isn't a True friend.A true friend supports Your decisions ,not tries to get you to do what They want you to do.

to deal with this problem do it your way.you don,t need your friends approval to deal with problems thats why god gave you a brain.listen what they have to say but use your on standred on how you want to deal with problems.good luck

The ONLY ignorance I'm seeing here is somebody feigning to be a victim!!! You seem to be intelligent enough to know right from wrong!!! You can ONLY be a victim if you ALLOW yourself to be. Your friend can only walk you to the gate of the abyss, he CANNOT make you enter!!! I think you want to do some of the things your friends are provoking you to do, but you NEED to blame them so it won't be YOUR fault!!! You have CHOICES in your life. You can choose to do what is right or you can choose to jump into hell behind your friends. If you choose the latter, do NOT blame your friends as it was YOUR choice!!! Your friends CANNOT bury you alive in hell. However, you can FOLLOW them there!!! You sound strong enough to NOT be provoked by your friends. . Choose the path that you are going to take & STOP blaming your friends!!!

hello dear, If you think your friends are leading you into wrong way,(path way to hell),then,why you were still with them? Friends are people whom we can call our best buddy,next to our family. Some friends were even closer to us more than our family. But,if you think those people whom you call your friend were leading you into damnation,you better have to think twice wether to continue having relationship with them. Friends are those who we asks advices when we are in trouble,but we should not rely our life to our friends. And,never let bad company(friends) direct your life. I won't stay with people doing bad/wrong things,even if they are my friends. I had my life to lead on,to direct and follow the right path which i think will lead me to a good life. My friends can direct their lives to where they want to lead to. They can give me advice,and i can give them advices too...i will listen to them,but it doesn't mean i will follow every direction they'll show me. There are two kinds of friends...good and bad. Make your choice,as how you want your life would be like.

If someone who is your friend is misleading you then they are not really your friend are they? A friend is someone who wants the best for you. One that you can trust. It doesn't seem to be the case with the one you mention. Maybe it's time to make wiser choice when it comes to who will be your friend. Here is some wise old advice: Proverbs 13:20 (New International Version) He who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm.

well if i have one like that, i would slowly abandon him/ her. it is obvious that this friend just make me worst than before, i need a friend that can tell me whether if i am wrong or right, and stood beside me if there was somebody against me. just find another one, this one give you a lesson to make a wise choose which one that deserve to take as a friend and which one who does not.

friends are supposed to be bringing you on the right path not the wrong one. If you feel like it is the opposite, there is no doubt that you have to leave them. It is better to be alone than to be with the ones who will put you on trouble. Afterall, they are not real.

First, I think we must have a clear divide of who we should consider as acquaintances and friends. We should also have a checklist of qualities that we should look for in a person before we consider them as a friend. It's not as if we are being picky. We just want to make sure that whoever we invest our trust on should deserve it. If the people who you consider as friends lead you to sin then think twice about what they really are to you. Remember it is your own call whether you'll fall to sin irregardless of who influenced you.

Friends, friends,friends...... yes to get a friend is nice. We make friends with several people - but we filter, filter and filter,wherein the residue of friendship is left over and being with these friends of a good period of time gives us an estimation about their nature. Friends are the people who are of great help to us in our life. But friends who trouble us or try to lead us in a wrong path should be eliminated without hesitation. This act gives you lot of relief and will not be a friend of stress.

when your friend provoked you to do wrong things, don't be afraid to let him/her know your feelings about doing it. let your friend know that it is wrong. he/she might not know that it is not an appropriate thing to do. so better open it up to him/her first before doing anything else. if your friend still thinks it is right, then use your judgment call...

Tell your friend right away. The decisions are all yours. No matter how bad or good your friend is, you are still the one who decides whats good for you. You can tell yourself if you are with a good or bad friend. If you think you are with a bad friend, then better change your friend. Have a great choice in making friends.

for me i will tell him the truth,that i dont like her...........i can have many of frnds them why i spent my time for him.

Hi, getbiswa2000. If I was you, I would cut off all communication with this friend until they get their act together. You should not have to be forced to do something that is against your own willpower. Talk to this friend and tell him that you refuse to be his subjected to his cruelty. I do hope that your point will get cross him the right way.

its very true provokation leads to mess and one loose ones patience and do all kind of wrong things!and the other is happy at this!and take the advantage of your weakness!