How long does it takes you to win your partners heart?

I can do that in couple of seconds in offline-----its really easy to flirt with girls but i never do that just for the sake of it----i just back off when be i do not like their behaviour or some thing else which drives me away but they try to stick to me.It would be more of a mess when all the girls hangout at the same time.

Hi cloud ..good day. On my partner, I was the one courting her...it took several months yet for me to observed her first if I would had a chance though I can already feel that there was already..but, still I just wanted to make it sure (99.99%) that I wouldn't be turned down if I would already propose to her...Well, that's it. I really won her heart that right time I courted her... By the way, are you making a survey because there were already guys in line waiting your sweet "YES"? Ohhh com'on..I can feel it... Well, that is it...you must select the best of them all... Good luck cloud..may the best man win your heart.. Thanks... Mobhomeir here...

hello cloud, hmmm, well i am someone who's not difficult to court! haha with my husband, he courts me for just a month and we're okay. haha actually we have know each other for a year that time before he finally courted me formally in our house! haha its just i think twice a week visiting in our house for a week and just one date outside...haha and after a month i feel like giving my yes to him already since i really like him even before he courted me, i wonder why i let it take that long...haha but its ood that before we become officially on, he talks to my mom first..and after that...the rest is history! we just ended up marrying each other after 5 years of being bf/gf!

Well, this is not really easy to answer, as i was really bowled out a few days ago. I still have to get use to it and adjust my whole attitude towards it. But it feels great TATA.

here is my story..i met my wife for just 5 minutes when i bought some material at her work (it was june 2009), and 2 days after that i called her by phone, we talked for hours before asked her to get married. she said "YES"..and then i marry her in september 2009...now she sleeps in front of me, she's very beautiful. i love her...how about you? happy myLotting

hi cloud! hmm... cant relate.lol.well, winning her heart is a lot different form having her sweet yes. she may say yes in one minute just for the fun of it, and later on develop the love in months later.or she can say yes in a minute, marry you the same day and file divorce the following day. or she will say yes in one year, only to find out later that she wanted you only as a friend and nothing more. failed relationships are double in figure than successful one's. all because of the difference between the "YES" and the "love in heart". complicated is a womans heart (so they say), so is love. maybe thats why until now there is not a better answer to what it is.

Dear friend, I hope it also take the other side to accept me. Moreover we both would be having our own taste and interests. I feel those taste and interest if I know of my partner I would give that for my partner to win her heart. May be it might take a second or may be years. How about you please.

You can win someone's heart in one minutes, or you can not conquer his heart in one life, no matter how much you try , nobody loves you because you want this , he loves you because he feels so.Life is strange, about love people will talk 1000 years from now on, and all will receive no answers.

2 weeks. she wanted a bouquet of roses and chocolates. she wanted a romantic dinner so i set up my garage with candles and dim lights and i surprised her. this took up the last 2 days from the 2week wooing. the remaining 12 days i spent finding out what she wanted. i even got her brother to spy on her in exchange for my skateboard. he got me her diary and bam! the set-up started.

hi cloud31, well i think my partner try to court me for a year and a half before i finally say the word. I never said YES but there is a mutual understanding between us. I know I am not the best but i guess he must have seen something in me. I like to hear him whisper slowly i love you in my ear...

Hi Miss Cloud.. I was courted my partner about two weeks before i got her sweet "YES". I was so happy that time because i am so inlove with hera and until now, i cannot express my feelings, i want to jump, i want to shout saying YES YES YES hehe.. As long you are inlove, doesnt matter how long it is. Nice topic. Have a nice day and Happy lotting..God Bless You..

This depends on the girl,its not hard for me to win a girl's heart,but its hard for me to get your attention.lol

Hi miss cloud, I don't have experiences about love story :) - you share with me i read it :) i wait and follow this interesting discussion to know others love story. I hope i can take benefit as learning in love :D

I meet first time in college with my partner. I spent some time with her. And propose him after one month. I think we should know our partner completely before living with him.

Mine is a funny story. The day before my high school graduation, I ask my girlfriend-to-be if I could court her and that I needed to know her decision before I graduate. The next day, graduation day, she became my girlfriend, but since she is extremely shy, she asked her best friend to inform it to me.

i remember courting my wife only in the second day that we first met. maybe, we were both "hot" at that time since we both came from a relationship, we were both separated from our previous partners. that it never took so long to get her nod. i can say that it was the shortest courtship that i ever had. in just less than a week, we were already sweethearts.

with me, my husband persuade me to be with him almost four years and when i gave my yes to him we get married after 3 months,hehehe i think that says it all. when we met, he was already working as a seaman and is away 10 months per year and when he is already on vacation from work, he would always find way to see me and give his pasalubong and express his feelings. but because i was in a relationship that time, i tried not to give him attention nor even entertain him. but still he was so diligent and continue in courting me. this last for four years. i even laugh at him because he would always talk about marriage even on the time when we are not officially with each other yet. he said that it's not important to still undergo a long term relationship when he knows and very sure of his feelings for me. i am so flattered and blessed to have known him. he never to fail to call me on special occasions even if it takes a hundred of dollars just to talk to me over phone. because most of the time, they don't have a signal, and calling via satellite is really expensive. he would also send me flowers and cards. i feel really loved by him. so that when i fall out of love with my last boyfriend, i gave him the chance and gave my yes, then we proceed on getting married after 3 months. until now that we are already married, he still is the sweet and thoughtful person i've ever known. i a m so in love with him and i know that he also do. we are both very happy with our marriage life especially that we are going to have a baby, even though once again we are away with each other because of his work. i really thank God for giving me a husband like him. i am so bless..

Me and my husband hit it off quickly. The courtship only lasted for a week, it doesn't matter to me whether the courtship is short or long, what actually matter is what you both feel for each other. We got married after a year and our relationship gets better and better as days pass, and hopefully we will last forever.

that's a situation where you exhibit some filipino traits. make the guy earn your yes and you don't give it easy. indeed, falling truly in love takes more than a day, even a week and could even pass years. it is a process of knowing, in full, the person who will have your love and trust, including your heart. and you don't want to give it so easily. but for me, i always pray that the one i love would love me the instant i profess my love. the knowing process will just follow. and it would be easier.

Hello cloud! It took several months for my husband to wait before I said yes to him...We were lovers for 10 years...he was my only boyfriend. We started too soon, I was 14yr old when I had him as my boyfriend, and he was 15 then, that's why it took us long to settle down in marriage. I was 24 when we get married, had our 1st baby at 25, and now I am 31 turning 32 soon and still happily married...:)