what do you do when you feel rejected?

hi abitcurious. I can only try to lift you up. It's up to you whether to take my advise or ignore me...so here goes. If you believe in yourself and you know you can write well and about so many things, then don't give up. Life is filled with rejections and its up to you really how you shove those rejections aside and move on. The important thing is you tried. And you learned something out of it. Treat each rejection as a blessing in disguise. For you will be a stronger person after you accept that rejection and realize how much potential you have that those people overlooked. So get moving and write, write write :) Happy mylotting.

Getting banned for a grammer error seems very harsh, no one can write perfectly all the time, we all make mistakes from time to time. There are plenty of websites looking for good writers, while rejection can be hard, just take it in your stride and look for somewhere else. Have you tried www.textbroker.com ? They are one of the leading sites for writers and publishers. What sort of articles do you write? Could you post a link to a sample of your writing?

Never pay heed to these rejections because if you do, you will be more weakened. Just think of it as a mere block you could not overcome, try hard next time. Whats the fun in success if you have never failed, you cannot understand the meaning of success unless you taste fail. Do not take it negatively, instead try to improve your skills and someday you will see how much you have improved, and that day when you compare yourself as of today you will really feel very proud of yourself. Giving a practical example of myself, one and a half year back I was a noob in Adobe Photoshop, I always was mesmerized by awesome photos created by Photoshop. One day I told myself if someone can do it, why can't that someone be me...and then I started reading online articles, started browsing for tutorials and learned several techniques, and trying out by myself I found out some really awesome photo effects. And about you to get out of this rejection phase try to involve in something productive, the things that enjoy doing, go and watch some good movies, that is what I do, or play some cool games. Best of luck! ~cheerio~

Aww, don't take it personally. It's actually funny how members being banned just because of that reason. Sounds like a snobbish site to me. What's the name, if you don't mind telling us, LOL. Everyone's get rejected at first times, so, don't let that discourage you. Another thing is (people may not agree with me, anyway), you don't have to write a masterpiece The New York Times kind of article, because it that's what the site requires, I think they should pay you with The New York Times payment rate as well.

I know just how you feel. I was in a physically and mentally abusive marriage for 11 years before I finally escaped. The experience left scars on my self esteem that I might never overcome. I have found a few good sites that I write for that encourages me to write and is grateful for my sharp wit. In turn I am becoming more self confident every day. Hang in there! What is a good fit for one person might not fit another.

I would feel very disappointed and depressed as well. Rejection is the saddest part of my life but I don't let it lead my life though.

When I am rejected I always say it's Ok just not to let myself very bad but after I always make sure that I learn from that rejection and try to strive again until I prove that I am not a loser. For you, when I had read your discussion I already feel that you were better than I am in English grammar and still rejected.Then when the time comes that somebody rejected my article then I will not feel very bad..I need to learn more thats the only thing I know not to be rejected again.

Hello abitcurious, Try Triond.com to write articles and Bukisa.com and Redgage.com. These places are more lient on grammar and the have spell checker on there system to check for errors and they pay per view (how many people view your article) I think all 3 take international people too. I hope this helps. One rejection should make you feel bad there are places to write just do not give up till you tried everywhere online etc... Look Monet artisit, or Van Gogh did they give up on there art when rejected repeadly? No... determination is what get where you want to be!!! Thanks and have a great day (smile you are special person) Good Luck Sincerely Unique16

Sorry to hear that..well its always very hurting and disappointing when we are rejected for some reason or other. When some one feel we are not accepted for them or to their work, it hurts our ego and makes us depressed for sometime. But we need to prove them, thats the spirit. So dont give up and your interest just for these things.

feel rejected means to work more hard,instead being feeling crest fallen,should work more hard.but for the time period feel very bad!

its very hard to make money!really nothing is worht on writing online!i wisj i could have some property si that i can make good amount of miney!

Don't give up on this situation, remember there's no failure to those who did not surrender.If you are rejected try to find other option on this, then if this option is still rejected try to find other sites that cater your articles will and gives also a good pay.Frustration is a synonym of surrender...:)

I will walk around to see people,trees,animals and any other things which will make me happy when I feel rejected.You can relax when you breath fresh air.If I don't wanna go outside ,I will eat spicy food.Your mind will not confused and depressed when you eat up these.It's an effective way for me.Maybe you can try it.

woah!as for me I don't really like to be rejected, guess I'm afraid, but even if I don't doesn't mean it won't happen to me,right, well we just have to move on, and maybe this ain't for us, don't be discouraged, there's still lot of opportunities to come.

Move on! They probably are not qualified for people of your caliber!

Dont get discoraged when I started I was not a great writer, it took six years to become a good writer a really good writer, but before you send in your work, you should edit really good because if you have too many typos and grammatical errors they think this is all they can expect from you. Try Bukisa or Triond to see if they work in your country, I am not sure if they do but it doesnt hurt to try.

Sorry to hear that! But if you think you have some talent or have something that can be useful and helpful to others then just keep on trying. Everybody gets some rejection but they continue until they get the results they want. If you search 'Colonel Saunders rejection' you'll see that he was rejected over 1000 times before someone finally bought his chicken recipe and the look what happened. So don't give up, alright!

Don't give up abitcurious : grammar alone does not make a good article. If they banned you for your grammar telling you that their service is not available in your country, they are hypocrites and you are loosing nothing. Persevere.

The biggest fear people have about is the fear of being rejected. Rejection is an undeniable fact in the mechanics of dating for example. But again, keep this in mind: it's better to have tried than never to have tried at all. And the good thing is this: most people don't reject right away. While we have hope and pray that rejection never happens, it can be a reality that we may simply have to face.

as far as i am concerned,noting is impossible.giving up the fist try for a little accident is no worth.so come on .don't be frustrated.we would like to share the happiness of your mind! your friend