Fixing a broken heart..,do you know what to do?

For me, there's no one who could heal a broken heart. it is only time that could heal the wounds cut deeply into the heart. I've had a couple of times heart broken and i just let time go by so i can get over the past heart breaks.

You are a very strong lady and I'm sure you will be able to go through this hurdle in life. Or obstacle.. our hearts must have been broken at one point or another, and to emerge strong from the experience is the most important thing of all. It definitely takes time to realize everything for sure..

Hello my dear bonita mia...you become poetic now after hibernating for four days...he he he .. Yes, I guess everyone of us experienced broken-hearted. We have different stories to tell. For me, I had my own but it would be a long story if I will tell right here...but I must had to move on to survive..life is full of trials because in this way we could be stronger and part of this is our love life.... Nice topic kristine...keep it up and cheer up...remember the saying that goes " Smiles and the world will smiles at you Cry and you cry alone... Nice topic... Mobhomeir here...

I think a heartbreak is unfortunate and a lesson in itself. One maybe able to avoid or maybe is one of those things about life we just have to go through. How do you heal? well just embrace your life and appreciate who you are. Don't forget you are worthy and precious. People have differences in maturity and choose poorly or right and move on.

Hi Jaiho! Glad your back! :) I was also gone for almost three days. I was very busy with work and family (hubby and baby). I have been broken hearted a lot of times. However, I only have one way of moving on. Usually, it would be with the help of my friends. I spend more time with them when I'm broken hearted as they could make me laugh and they would be willing to listen to my rants. If you're still in the situation of fixing your broken heart it is really hard and even seems impossible to move on. However, once everything is over and you have totally moved on you can go back to that moment without even feeling the pain.

oh my dear..i know how it feels like, it's like struggling to get each one of the torns in you heart. it feels like having a ,long year of depression. I have experience that also. that being a heart broken is not easy as that way. we have to face it with all of our best as we can. Reflect as what life could bring if we just nod to the things that might spunk our face. Ask some blessings from God. share it with him and he will heal ur wounded heart, maybe not romance but spiritually touched by Him. If you are guilty for what you have made, just pray and accept the things you've committed,, i know it's hard but then, we have to be strong no matter what happens. Life must go on, there's a lot of people still waiting for you, waiting to open up things with you. share problems. As soon as you make deals with other people the sooner you will feel embraced by thier thoughts and love. We cannot stay long here in this world and we must face this challenging adventure of our life, take good care of yourself as you care for everybody. Do what is good and dont forget to thank everything you have now. Have a blessed heart!

I've not really experienced being brokenhearted. I married my first boyfriend and we've been having a blissful marriage for almost 25 years now. By God's grace, I've not experienced any heartbreaking experience with regard to my love life. At any rate I think the best way to fix a broken heart is to let go. If the person broke your heart then don't dwell on the pain, do something to soothe the pain. Find other people that will make you feel life is still beautiful. Most of all pray that God will give you the strength to overcome!

Aww. dear Sis, you have touched a very sensitive chord of mine. I had been through a very sad relationship once. What did I do to forgo that? Well, I made myself strong. I thank God that I am blessed with a couple of close freinds who were there to see me through. And yes time is a very good healer. The most important thing although, that helped me was, Faith. Faith surely heals your deep wounds. I am so sorry to learn about your heartache. God bless you, Bodhi

It is good to know that things are goin well with you and that you are not letting a broken heart get you down, which is good. Because you shouldn't. Before I got married, I used to take it pretty hard when I had a broken heart. But like you said it is better to have loved then to not love at all. Plus it is his lost not yours. So don't worry things will be better for you. Now this is what I tell my friends, since I no longer get broken hearts, since I am now married. Don't worry about him and now it is time to worry about you and in due time, you will meet someone else and he will be better for you then the one that broke your heart.

We all know the feelings. Every body will experience this. To be heart by love is tough, and perhaps the most bad feelings on earth, especially for girls. As time goes on, as we grow older, things will be different. For young girls, that's the thing you must go through. You know, we have to pay for our youth.

Do not be so hard on yourself. Maybe the 2 of you are not destined to be together. A better person will come. Just pray.

if really you meet who loves you unconditionally,its then possible to heal the heart by paste of true love!

We have the same point of view about fixing a broken heart. I would say that a heart heals by its own but it will take time for sure. For me i would focus on myself and think of other things that i can do to love myself more because i have this way of thinking that I might be the reason behind it so better improve myself before loving someone again. God bless

I dont think you can ever completely get over or cover a broken heart. It just takes time and another love to move on. I heard this saying once, these aren the exact words but it goes somethig like this: your heartis like a beach, when someone enters they leave their footprints forever, but as time goes by and the ide comes in those footprints fade - but the marks still remain. Its true and I think it explains everything perfectly.

Hi dear, When I read the topic I think that you already told about the broken heart and now again somebody broke your heart. Now it is time to act us, you please tell us the information about the person who broke your heart, we have to find out the person and punish it. We can’t simply sit by allowing somebody to break your heart again and again. First time I heard about fixing a broken heart.

When something is broken, it really needs to be fixed or else it may not function properly, so as the heart. When it is broken, fixing it would be difficult and painful, but once fixed, it would function far better than it used to be [believe me on that!]. Fixing, i would say, comes basically within yourself, setting your mind to eradicate all the negativity {easier said than done}, but i think one should really try hard enough to do so. Go out, a breathe of fresh air would sometime do clean your thoughts, be thankful to be alive and be thankful to someone up there who knows what you're going through and you would be surprised that there is really someone that is meant for you who is God-sent..Happy MyLotting my dear... Keep on living, keep on hoping, keep on loving, and keep on enjoying life!

Fixing a broken heart?It's pretty easy if you have good friends and a stable family. Life is a fight!You can live once,so you should be prepared for anything,anytime. Only the strong people can say "So what?No matter what's going on,I'll move on!" As you said "Time heals wounds". What do I do in that case? Going out with friends,listening to music,trying to think of nice things. The recovering is slowly but sure! Every time you've been fallen down,you actually become stronger. Kind of regards, Sylqqmedin