when you love somebody you let it go or you make more efforts?

If you truly love someone you will make an effort to make the relationship to grow. If you want to keep the person you will do anything for that person to stay. But things will be better if both of you make the relationship to grow. As they say it takes two to tango for a relationship to grow. Let go of someone if the one you love doesnt love you back. Its better to see them happy that to keep them with you when you know they dont want you anymore. They said that when you love someone set them free but if they come back then you are meant to be.

i don't really make efforts, but i do make everything possible... though if i feel that the person is not into me.. i don't bother trying to make an effort already... i know where i should stand in a relationship enough to let go of a person.

Hi umit, its love which changes every thing and you need to care about your relations and always make effort to lead a life full of oneness and affection with the person you love the most in the world!

It depends on the situation that you are having. If your loved one already found someone else then you'll just have to let go cause there's no reason to continue a relationship if one isnt willing to work out. You can also work out for it if both are willing. If you give your way, it will turn out well in the end. There's a reason why its falling down. Its might devastate you at the moment but it will make you grateful it happened.

maybe its best if the two parties will do the same effort :)