What hurts the most in life?

Losing my beloved Father the other year. It still hurts me every day, I can't just pick up the phone and hear his voice, I can't go to see him, he's not there anymore. It hurts a lot, and even with the passage of time, the hurt doesn't lessen

for me... it's losing something beloved ... i've always valued everything i have since i can only have a few ... i value others but i dont value myself ... i've got a lot of pains that i've never showed and i think they're all filling me up and making it more painful to bear ... i'm not used to losing something valuable ... or rather i've never lost one ... but the thought of losing that special one ... ... ...

Yes, we cannot deny the truths of life. It is wonderful to stand up and be strong and do all we can in life to be happy and fulfill our dreams. But, for me I seem to be a down mood that will not let go. Here are the things that hurt me so bad: 1.) When there are more days in the month than I have money 2.) When I realize I have so little to look forward to. 3.) When I think there is no reason to get up from bed in the morning 4.) When i feel sick and down day after day and nothing changes. 5.) When I come to the realization that my life has no happiness or adventure left in it.

The things that hurt most: You thought he was the one but he wasn't Not being appreciated by your work Nasty things said about me that arent true. Ignoring the things that IV'e done. That is one long list, unfortunately it's not going to work for me..hihihi

Hurts most in life is when my love is hurted coz of me. Well thats the most paining part for me. I always want my lovable wife to be happy. When she gets hurt by me and if i know i was the reason, that hurts me so bad. For me she is the world so pain is more!

the most painful happening in life is that when you see your loved one suffers and you do not have anything to do to ease his/her sufferings.

The most worst kind of betrayal that I can think of is betrayal. It really hurts real time when someone whom you have trusted for too long suddenly betrays you. Hence losing your trust and especially when they don't think that they have done anything wrong to you at all.

I have always been a person that loves and loves deeply. Of course, this also means that there are a lot of things that deeply injure me. That said, these are just a few of the things that I have a hard time dealing with: 1) The loss of someone that I love 2) Betrayal by someone that I care about 3) Not being able to help a person that is in need 4) Having to tell my children that we can't afford something that they want

I feel the life is hard for me recent days, most of time i don't know why and do nothing.I just sit there, facing the window, look at the outside and don't know why i am here. I have a warm family, my parents love me, and my husband treat me well and take good care of me , and i have a steady work... It seems that i should satisfied, but i don't ,i still feel painful about the life, just like you mentioned, when i think about the future, the price of the house is very high in China now, for common person,maybe 3 generation are busy for one small flat....There are many poor people in the society,while the rich people never take on the responsibility to the whole society,the law is not integrity, it is easier for the rich. If we are naturally hit by illness, the high cost of medical will raise this painful.All i want to say is how hard the life is, while we should not to be so painful in fact.Sigh.

What makes me hurt so bad is: 1. You have good intentions, such as helping people and being taken maliciously by others. 2. When you did your utmost best but it seems that it is not enough. 3. Pleasing people but you're aware that you can't please them all 4. Being honest when everyone doubts your motives.

In this journey called life, the roads we travel are often rocky. But, when times are really tough, Someone carries us on His shoulder to make our trip bearable. But, being human, we still feel the pain and sometimes lose faith. Being human, we are also resilient and we get back on track. What hurts me most is losing a loved one. After a while, though, I realize that we don't really lose anyone because someday when the time comes, we will be together again. I console myself by saying, "God needed my son to be with Him anywhere and everywhere so that both of them can help his loved ones and everyone who need help." For now, I pray that I will be the next one to go. Such is life, so let's focus on the brighter side and hope for the best. Have a lovely day, uniqueorn

It's loosing someone you love! Some die and some go away. I just don't want to be left alone for the matter that i always need someone. Parents, friends and all.

hi uniqueorn. i can only think of two types of pain. physical and emotional. unfortunately, the latter is one which does not heal easily long after all the physical wounds have cleared up. to me, what hurts the most in life has got to do with something emotional in nature. when my grandmother passed away i thought that god was unfair to have taken her away. she was the best grandma i ever knew. i was so depressed for several months and wasn't my usual self then. my studies, my entire life was beginning to feel the pinch as well. that must have hurt me the most. i have since got up and moved on...

...When my dad passed away, It's been five years ago but still, I wish, I hope...he still alive.

Hi, uniqueorn. When someone lies on me. When I failed at something that I have been waiting on all of my life to achieve. When someone that I love tell me that they no longer love me. When I am very sick and have a bad illness. When my kids don't listen to me and are disrespectful. When my friend does not want anything to do with me because I may not have something that they do have. When the man that I have been married to for many years, is cheating on me. When my own family that I grew up with forsake and reject me. When people at school don't want me to be in the same group with them. When my own parents don't love and care for me. When people treat me unkind for nothing. These things will crush my heart if they are done to me. This is what causes me pain.

when someone hurts me deeply with their words. Their words will repeat in my mind again and again just like music turning on without a break. That hurts me so.

I'm a believer on Allah. I remember Him in my worries and happiness. He is the Master of illness and peace. Therefore, when I think that I'll get nothing what I want from him hurts me most. But after a while I recover by His grace and feel very happy, comfortable and peaceful. Have a nice day.

when i get betrayed... but as much as it hurts so bad i never dwell on the pain or the act done against me..they are people just as i am and i know that we always end up hurting the people we love. it's just a matter of looking things at a different perspective. you hang on to negative feelings...you'll miss out on more essential things in life.

As we go through life there will always be pain along the way and as I look back to those years that had passed I realized that those things that hurt me the most are those pain caused by people who had betrayed my trust and confidence, the one's who made me doubt my worth as a person; who had broken your faith in the goodness of the human heart. The people who are dear and close to my heart. When you've held them and carried them in your heart, nurture the bond that ties between, grew and cultivated it only to be torn by betrayal and distrust; my heart bleeds...aren't yours?

yeah pain is like a twin of happiness. Im only 23 right now but Im diagnosed to have sickness that seems to be impossible to be cured. During my university years people often tell they are so envious with me. I am on the top of the class,am very active with the extra-curricular activities competing to different parts of the country, I got good family, found a good job and everything was good. Right now, Im into a very good and stable relationship with plans to marry and have my own child. But recently, all these dreams turn into a nightmare when I found out I cannot bear a child and the worst, I have this sickness.The painful part is, I was just starting to dream then all of a sudden, Ill wake up in the morning as if Id never dreamed.