Am I right to end it?
By redkey65
@redkey65 (221)
China
March 16, 2010 8:47am CST
I phoned him first, but he did not answer it. i am a little angry, and i made my decision to break up again at that time. then i send a message to him to tell him that i want to end it. this time he answered:"all right". i am a little lost now. we never met before, just use phone to communicate. someone we do not familiar advice us to try to start a relationship. he is 8 older than me, a worker. and i am a student, who even never get invovled in a relationship before. at the beginning, he phoned me very often, but later,when the time goes on, the times he phoned me decrease, just some messages for a day on a week. the most important is that he did not invited me to have a date with him when both of us are free during the holiday, and we stayed not far away at that time. while when we first start the relationship he promised we will have a meet during that holiday...
so i guess he maybe not that love me now, maybe he is attract by others. for we worked in two differnt cities, and between a long way. he never asked to see me, which i thought is necessary for both of us. i am a little dissportant. while, he send me a message on the daynight of 3.14 to ask me to marry him. i am totally confused. we even not met. so i decided to have a talk with him, and i phoned, and he did not answer, so i send that message. now, i am a little relieved for get out of that puzzle, while, i am still a little sad, a little comfused,( i am even not sure if he ever loved me)...what should i do now?
it is a little long. but i really do not know what to do now, i am comfused, sad, lost, hopeless...
4 responses
@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
20 Mar 10
I do not know if this can be found in relationship books but I think: "Never question the love of a bad boy." He is certainly a bad boy and yet he's willing to be a loving man. Proof of that was his sincere request to marry you. I'm not saying he can do anything for you but the way he proposed he sounds like willing to go for it however hard it may be for him. Well it can change and my motto would turn out false if he have some personal issues. The only thing I can think that prevents a man from having relations was lack of energy. If you are the one who can energize him then thats good. Every sail needs the wind. To explain it easy you have two choices: 1) Forget him and avoid a possible confusing life 2) Serve him as a dog serves his master.. the only difference is that the master serves the dog not viewing as a dog but as a woman.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
16 Mar 10
your story make me confuse my friend.i dont understand your commitment and his comitment too..i think maybe you can think twice before decide one important decision. you should not to use your emotions and anger when say something and it can affect for your relation to other especially to someone who very special for you
@basqui (3888)
• Philippines
16 Mar 10
Do you mean you have a relationship in the mobile only? you haven't met each other? then maybe for you it's serious but for him it only works on the mobile communication. right?