what do you do after you end a relationship?

i always want to keep my relationship but somehow, my relationship always end up with me getting dump. i dont know if i ever done anything wrong. i have never cheat, that is for sure. everytime i got dump, my heart do broken to pieces and i am really lost. maybe i should share things i done when my these things happen. hope it can mend your heart too. Start by accepting that your relationship has ended and is now in the past. Perhaps your trust or confidence took a hit and you might feel hurt, but better days are ahead. If you're still talking to your ex and it brings back feelings or emotions while you two can/should no longer be together, then stop the communication. In many situations, it's okay to be friends but if talking to them keeps you from moving on with your life and finding someone new, then you have to bite the bullet. Remember to never call when you're intoxicated and don't answer their phone calls. Focus on yourself. When in a relationship, you usually have another person to take into consideration. Take this time to find out more about what you like to do and what makes you happy. It's important to be emotionally available when trying to move on to perhaps someone new. Give yourself time to make sure you're ready to date, but the sooner you get out there, the quicker you might find yourself ready to move on.Don't hold onto the past because you no longer have control over it and don't be afraid of the future because you never know what might happen.Try to avoid bringing up a bad break-up when talking to new people. Hope this should help. Be strong. Life must go on!

I just fixed my broken heart too. Well,there is still pain,feel sorry for the lost love,but i never regretted loving and leaving him. Love will always find it's way back to me if we are meant for each other,if not,i am sure...there's more deserving someone for me to love me and to be loved. As of now,the healing process is still on the process. Friends and mylot is a great help for me to express what i feel,and,mylotters are gladly sharing their emotions with me. Smile and think of all the good times you had in your life. Never look back with the lost love,look straight ahead,and make your day to day life worth living(don't sit and waste time thinking about him)

I do not have nothing todo with my ex husband even though we have two children as the children are old enough now to see him when they want and if they want to see him.All my ex boyfriends i do not bump into and even in the past if i did i would only say hello and that would be it.I think that when you break up then i think the only way to make it final is try not to see them.

this is a natural state what you have after ending your relation. and i think there is a time needed to overcome from the state you have. so there is a need to give yourself a time and for this i think you must only do those things what you like to do or what ever your hobbies. i think they can be from computer games to listening music and watching movies. any thing with which you can enjoy. goodluck for your future

hi redkey65. i'm so sorry to hear what you have just gone through. i think it is just normal to be sad, lost and confused. but would you rather end a relationship that does not work out now than to go through hell for another day, month or even years. think of all the good things that you love to do, things that you can achieve on your own. its no use complaining over spilt milk. just let it go. just get up and move on. when you decide to have a positive change, your world, your universe changes with you. so, go on girl. take your place out there. and take care!!!