Why is looks always important???

exactly, why are looks so important i do not know. but recently it seems it is better to hire for a job someone a goodlooking person rather than a qualified one. Goodlooking people sell something easier with a little charm and fawning and others buy it because of that sometimes not because it is the best product that is on the market, for example. Beauty controls the world, so it is not such a shock for everybody. everyone knows that pretty girls tend to find jobs easily and people pay more attention to them, actually they can be a centre of attention. As much as the others they struggle and compete to become the best in something, but I don't think they would or maybe there are a few exceptions maybe if you compare two people in that situatiun, for example.

Hi saphrina... This is an honest answer dear. When you are really inlove, you are not considering the looks at all. What matters is what you feel... it's from within... why is it you can still feel the love even if you have not seen the physical looks??? That only proves that true love never consider first the physical look... PAALAM.

Hi saphrina! You see now a days packaging matters and if the packaging is good, people love to buy the product. Same is true in case of human beings, if one has good looks, many get attracted towards him/ her. (BTW, I have good looks and I take advantage of my looks ........lol!) Deepak

Looks are for first impression. The attitude plays second since you will only see this once you get to know the other person more.

Its human nature SB---every one looks for the best and hence there is a demand for that---i do agree that Good looking ones are very much alert in their thoughts and they do not have a plain mind and heart for sure than others.But they can be good lovers tooo but a little harder to impress them than the others

saphrina, what comes to your mind when you look at a still-life painting and an abstract? there are people who enjoy looking at one, not the other. there are also those who enjoy looking at both and can spend hours gazing at them. a lot depends on the individual actually, especially a person one meets for the first time. there are people who judge and accept us by our looks. there are also people who look beyond our physical selves to see the inner beauty in us. whether it is just physical beauty or inner beauty it is all up to one's priorities and aims/goals you might say. i cannot deny the fact that physical look does play a part because it's the first thing you notice about a person. and that's only human.

Hi Saphrina... I am sure you'll get many answers for your question... Looks!!! Looks define the personality of a being. Looks attract/repel others. Looks are important because they're valued by all. At the same time, no one is ignoring the real person behind those looks, of course... But when one meets you for the first time, does he give you an entire idea about his innermost personality? Or for that matter, is that even possible? Tell us, what do you see first when you meet a stranger? Suppose you have a blind date tonight, he has told you that he has casanova or greek God kind of looks... And when he turns up, you find him to be entirely different from your expectations; would you proceed with your date? Looks are important because they define our personality...

..bcuz it is the truth. people base their assessment of someone from the looks. if someone comes up to you and says he doesn t base it upon looks dismiss it immediately as a lie. i, for instance, was mistaken for a gay. im a dude straight up. the thing is i have small asian eyes and a bright complexion so i guess that s gay for them. they were telling me things like i have to come out of the closet or something. i say im friggin out in the open. lol. they were so convinced that i was gay. that s how serious the basis of looks is. they see someone, they form this image of you inside their heads, and they start seeing things that s not really there. people nowadays just dont take the time and look at what s really there or whats really happening. they want to make it easy for themselves and just form their own reality. that s how conmen got their way around. conmen know this principle and always keep it in mind. they dress up accordingly, produce the familiar, and bam! next thing you know you re a couple of bucks short.

Hi saph, I never consider looks when friendships and relationship is concerned I always look behind that personality,I don't think I will have to prioritize the looks, i cannot remember anything I did at all. I just love people who act like humans and not just pretend for something good on them. Happy myLotting..

for younger ones, looks are that important. yet when one grow older, looks will not matter that much anymore. Communication then will be most important. That is why they say ' marry the one you are most comfortable talking to with, because when you grow older, look will no longer matter but communication will'. I think there is a biological explanation to it.

my friendship s important.. without understanding we cant continue friendship..but with other relations we can continue for name sake also.. than all other relationship, friendship s a step head.. hop u ll get wat am sayin...

According to me, Looks are temporary and will only help you in a beginning. It might be easy for you to start a relationship or to go for a job if you are a good looking. But your good looks are not going to help in long run. After a certain time what is inside you will matter the most. The people who give preferences to only looks are miserable people.

the look is so important because this is the first thing that you see in someone, before you talk to him or something else you see him first and sometimes it`s realy important for people to make that first impresion good.

It's all about first impressions. What is it that our brains 'meet' first; exactly, the appearance of someone. After a certain amount of time we try to dig deeper into the person, but at start it's all about the looks. The speed of the 'digging deeper' process also depends on the looks. We want to be friends with people that we find attractive and if possible even get a relationship with them. It's nothing to worry about though, it's human nature.

i think it depends on what you are into. if you are making friends and you look bad, people will not even dare look at you. most of them will ignore you. that's true. come to think of it, if you looked like a beggar, looks comes first before anything else. that's how people are. i've been to that because we made a research of it so we can put something in our article in the school publications. and people are ignoring us! if you have friends already and are very honest to you and you look bad, they will tell you that you don't look good at all. not that they make fun of you, they just peak their mind on how you look and they mind it because you mean to them. not that you need to look fabulous, but being clean will matter. now, if you are in a relationship, may it be you look good, you look bad, you smell foul or whatever, it will not matter as long as he or she loves you right? BUT! would you like to look ugly in front of the one you love? no right?

..bcuz it is the truth. people base their assessment of someone from the looks. if someone comes up to you and says he doesn t base it upon looks dismiss it immediately as a lie. i, for instance, was mistaken for a gay. im a dude straight up. the thing is i have small asian eyes and a bright complexion so i guess that s gay for them. they were telling me things like i have to come out of the closet or something. i say im friggin out in the open. lol. they were so convinced that i was gay. that s how serious the basis of looks is. they see someone, they form this image of you inside their heads, and they start seeing things that s not really there. people nowadays just dont take the time and look at what s really there or whats really happening. they want to make it easy for themselves and just form their own reality. that s how conmen got their way around. conmen know this principle and always keep it in mind. they dress up accordingly, produce the familiar, and bam! next thing you know you re a couple of bucks short.

..bcuz it is the truth. people base their assessment of someone from the looks. if someone comes up to you and says he doesn t base it upon looks dismiss it immediately as a lie. i, for instance, was mistaken for a gay. im a dude straight up. the thing is i have small asian eyes and a bright complexion so i guess that s gay for them. they were telling me things like i have to come out of the closet or something. i say im friggin out in the open. lol. they were so convinced that i was gay. that s how serious the basis of looks is. they see someone, they form this image of you inside their heads, and they start seeing things that s not really there. people nowadays just dont take the time and look at what s really there or whats really happening. they want to make it easy for themselves and just form their own reality. that s how conmen got their way around. conmen know this principle and always keep it in mind. they dress up accordingly, produce the familiar, and bam! next thing you know you re a couple of bucks short.

Well, when you see a person, you first see, then talk and then understand. So first goes to the eye. And so the looks. Though thats a sad part, we dont understand the real character, thats the fact. The present world gives importance to looks and personality. But friendships i dont agree looks comes first. My gang is a mixture of all, looks is least important in our friendship!

i think when i meet some stranger.i'm aways use my eyes to look at him first.who doesn't. this is the easier and faster way to konw people.so looks is very important.but we can't trust someone just because what his looks.we need more inside understanding.as chinese folk adage(i don't really know how to translate it):as day long ,you will know people's heart.