Do you think the "Women's Movement" screwed up America?
By BethTN81
@BethTN81 (564)
United States
March 16, 2010 9:29am CST
Do you all think that this country would be a better place with or without the women of the 60s burning their bras trying to prove that girls can to anything boys can do? I mean I have really thought about this topic for quite a long time and came to the conclusion that a bunch of bitter, psychotic women of the 60s completely lost their nut! There is nothing wrong with women in the workplace or women of a certain authority, but at the same time there is no reason for certain women to try to outdo men in the world justto prove they are important and have worth. Weather a woman is a homemaker or the CEO of a company it will not change that she is still a female and has worth. Women are NOT second class citizens and are equal to men in many ways. There was absolulty no need for a movement to happen other than a bunch of crazy females wanting attention. I personally think that the women's movement messed America up BIG TIME. And I am female! What do you all think?
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@irisheyes (4370)
• United States
18 Mar 10
How would this world be a better place if woman were not now able to contribute according to their ability? How can a major nation succeed on half of the brain power available? There are still situations where women make less for the same work (ask John McCain about it) but it would be much worse if the movement of the sixties had not taken place and we as a nation would be poorer for it. Women were second class citizens for a long time. Deprived of the vote and the protection ofthe law, we had to fight for everything twe got and it didn't come easy. Still doesn't. It took 82 years for a woman to be named Best Director by the Academy of motion picture arts and sciences. It took longer to have a woman make a serious run for the president. Neither of those things would have been possible if woman had not fought hard like the ladies of the 1960's and 70's and thsoe things will be lost if we do not continue the fight until every piece of that glass ceiling crumbles....I just hope most of your generation doesn't feel the way you do because it does not bode well for future generations of American women if they do.
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@II2aTee (2559)
• United States
16 Mar 10
At first I was shocked that someone would actually feel this way. Even moreso when I read responses agreeing with this archaic veiw.
Then I calmed down and remembered that this is America and you are allowed to think, and say whatever you wish.
Just be glad you didnt have these veiws BEFORE the womans movement. Your husband would have been perfectly within his rights to beat you senseless for speaking your opinion.
You have the womans movement to thank for the rights and protections you have now... but somehow I doubt you will.
I could never force you to feel how I feel, but you have my full sympathy. I hope you find what you seek in life but I for one am glad that this one opinion of yours is a relic of the past.
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@II2aTee (2559)
• United States
16 Mar 10
I am glad that I was not the only one who was outraged. I'm not even a woman and I found this totaly disgracful.
It can be equated to burning the American flag. You have every right to do it - but its only because you LIVE in America and have all those freedoms that you are allowed to do it.
She has every right to look down her nose at womans right activists, but only because woman who came before her suffered unthinkable injustice to win her the right to do so.
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@BethTN81 (564)
• United States
23 Mar 10
Yet again someone who distorts what point I was trying to make. If you are going to comment on my post then make sure you understand what I was really saying. America is a free country(well, it used to be but that is for another discussion). I was referring to extremists. I know many women who use their gender to get what they want.
Some women(and men) take things to extremes. But I guess that is expected what about everything in life. Whether it be the womens movement, religon and so on.
No, I am NOT an idiot. Just someone who gets disgusted when people take a situation like the women's movement and take advantage of their rights because THEY are ignorant. Calling names, insulting people who disagree with you and stooping to a level where you cannot even have a mature debate about it makes you look bad. Not me.
I understand everyones view on this topic and there was a reason why I posted it choosing the words I chose.
BTW, the women's movement did not give me a right to an opinion. We all have opinions. Just some people have more courage to speak it rather than to sit in a corner and shut up and forever be silent.
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
16 Mar 10
Where the he11 are you getting your information from? Before the 1960's women were prohibited or discouraged from entering many fields based solely on their gender. When I was a child in the late 50's girls were supposed to grow up to be either homemakers, teachers, nurses or secretaries. The women's movement in the 60's was not about outdoing men...but about equality and being able to follow your dreams, whatever they were. As the mother of 3 adult daughters I'm very thankful that each one of them have had wonderful female role models to look up to and grew up knowing that they could be whoever they wanted to be.
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@lilwonders456 (8214)
• United States
16 Mar 10
Like most things some good and bad things came from the women's movement. The good was women got the right to be equal citizens of this country. We get to vote. Equal pay. No jobs are "closed" to women. Which is wonderful.
The bad thing...it pited women against each other. The womens movement was suppost to be about "choice". The choice to have the kind of life you wanted. But there is a lot of hostility between career women and house wifes.
Then look at society. Women are not almost exspect to have a career and a family. When people ask me what I do I tell them. I am a stay at home mom. Some look at me like I am nuts and say "is that it"? What is wrong with being a full time mom?
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@lilwonders456 (8214)
• United States
16 Mar 10
sorry for the typo...I meant women are NOW almost exspected to have a career and a family.
We are suppost to be "super women"..I guess. Be able to do it all.
If you choose not to or can't do both...then you are looked down upon.
@II2aTee (2559)
• United States
16 Mar 10
Lil I'm sure that some people would look down on stay at home moms, but I think a large part of that would actually be jealousy. It has become increasingly difficult for one person to shoulder the financial responsibilities of the average american household. I have many friends with young kids and only a few of them are able to stay at home with their kids and keep their heads above water. These days both parents almost have to be earning some kind of income. In the rare cases where only one parent needs to work I have seen first hand the jealousy in the eyes of couples who need both incomes just to make ends meet.
I'm not saying its right, just saying that its an element I have noticed in my own social circle.
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@YoungTay (83)
• United States
16 Mar 10
i`m gonna keep it plain and smiple, i think woman`s can do anything that a man can do and i also feel some of them can do it better then man. some men do take women as a joke think that they are weak and can`t do much but the women are and have became the dominant species of the world today cause the man are dieing off faster then we are coming about.do you think anything diffrent
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@MagicalBubbles (5103)
• Canada
24 Mar 10
I think it screwed up the economy eventually. Now we all need 2 salaries to make ends meet. I would have been happy staying home, baking cakes!!
Im a woman and I think they should have kept their bras on and downed a few valiums instead.
@BethTN81 (564)
• United States
25 Mar 10
MY ex boyfriend brought something to my attention back when we got along....he said that in many household where both spouses work and have children the 2nd income is usually to help support daycare expenses and stuff like that. I see noting wrong with a child going to preschool but if you can afford to stay at home and raise a kid then why not do it?
@6precious102 (4043)
• United States
17 Mar 10
I think there was both good and bad that came from the Women's Movement. A woman's brain can be as capable as a man's, but seldom is her brawn. A commentary I read years ago on the Biblical book of Genesis said that the word translated "form" describing the creation of the man is the Hebrew word "yatsar" which means "to mold like a potter or squeeze into shape." In describing the creation of woman, the word "banah" is used and means "skillfully formed." I see women as fine, delicate pieces of art who can be tough as nails. But one of the things that has bothered me the most about the Women's Movement is that women have behaved towards men in such a way that men no longer feel they need to behave gentlemanly toward women. I'm glad women have shown that they can achieve in many areas - business, sports, politics, the arts, entertainment, etc.; but I wish they'd quit acting "butch." If you're proud of being a woman, quit trying to act like a man. I also wish women would realize that being a mother is just as important a job as being a corporate executive.
@epicure35 (2814)
• United States
24 Mar 10
Feminism certainly was a force of destruction in this country. The strident and foolish women who ushered in the movement in the 70's not only hurt other women, but also themselves in the fray. The contributed to the destruction of the family unit and the intact two-parent family, contributed to a rising crime rate and harmed countless children for life. They lobbied for and "bought" no-fault divorce, an unconstitutional, ex-post facto law, into every state and removed
every right and protection for a spouse who wanted to keep her family intact. Before the feminist self destructive politicking, there were protections for families in case of divorce or desertion, but they removed these and caused the "weight of the state" to be with the deserter rather than to be, as it should, for the protection of the family. It is horrific to see the cost these blazing idiots have visited on generations of innocent, now turned angry and even criminal, children. It certainly was "the sound of fury signifying nothing", and has been one of the most destructive forces to society. Strong families make a strong country and we are no longer that country. I called one of these famous feminists, the only one who admitted what a mess they'd made, but she refused to help undo the mess in any way. And so millions of foolish women bought the lie and deserted their children, either physically, psychologically, or emotionally, believing they and their selfish desires were more important than raising their children. Add to that, those who wanted to stay at home and raise their children were now forced into the marketplace to work, since no-fault divorce robbed them of their finances and financial protection. Setting up the false dichotomy of "career vs children" ruined many a life. Raising good citizens and protecting and guiding the young which is the duty and responsibility of a parent was tossed in the garbage for the lying deception of a "self-fulfilling" career. Truth be known, creating good character is far more important than making widgets, and many women who bought the lie, soon found out the emptiness of those glamorous "careers". But what a price has been paid. Way to go, silly women.