Which will you choose, your best friend or the one you love?
By emzymemzy
@emzymemzy (89)
Philippines
March 16, 2010 10:50am CST
I once asked this same question to myself, and I've chosen my best friend. But when you are in a real situation it's different especially when you're given no other choice because you're best friend had already decided it for you by becoming estrange. So I lost them both.
4 responses
@autumndreamer (3185)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
It depends on the situation. I think I'm going to choose the one I love. I don't know why, it just feels better than choosing my best friend.
@emzymemzy (89)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
Next time I will choose love too. Friends should understand better especially best friends, right?
@ashutosh_15 (199)
• India
23 Mar 10
I'd choose love, because friends will understand but love will never understand some things, its too hard to explain :P its complicated, so you should've chosen your love
@jpso138 (7851)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
Well that is really sad. I wish it did not turn out that way considering that you could have them both. But sometimes thing do happen in a way that we do not want it to happen. Well, I really do not know what to choose. Perhaps in my case, if ever I have to choose, and there is no way that I will have both, then most probably I would end up choosing the one I love.
@scja16 (322)
• Philippines
16 Mar 10
You dont have to choose between them because either of them should understand you. If he/she is your bestfriend then that person should be happy for if you are happy. The about your love one, He/she be always there to understand that your bestfriend will always be your friend. It only matters on how you will handle it, It may lead you on letting go one of them but for me I would suggest that letting one of them understand your current situation will be a big help for the three of you. Open communication is a must for you not to choose between them.
God bless
@emzymemzy (89)
• Philippines
17 Mar 10
Thanks. But I think it's too late. Well, the situation with the one I love got complications. Because he got jealous with my closeness to his best friend. And my best friend and I are okay now. Our friendship has mended but it's not the same as before.