UNFORGIVEN?? Bottom line of chances and forgiveness!!!

I really wonder if you're taking all these topics from your own life----if yes then its pretty fine may be you get an expert advice from some mylotters else why dont you think positively .Coming to your main discussion---i'm very strict to those who betray me so i wouldn't reconsider if someone has cheated on me---it depends on the the kinda betrayal they have done---if it is really a small thing then i would love to forgive them a million times(after all i love them the most).

Well, i give chances to my enemies and forgiveness to my friends and dear ones. I may not accept certain mistakes, so if it is with my enemies, i give them chances to change. If it is my friends or love, i will forgive and forget easily.

Hi cloud! The only thing that comes to my mind is betrayal during our relationship. If that's the case, then that is the hardest mistake to forgive. I believe that we should really be faithful to our partners. No third party should be involved. As long as there's no betrayal happens, then I believe there's no reason for unforgiven. Have a nice day! Always take care! Happy myLotting!

Betray me and you can go take a flight to the moon. Play around with others and i will roast you. But most important, make an a$$ out of me and there will be trouble. I will never forgive anyone when any of these things happen.

Lying and Cheating. i don't think i could ever forgive a person who's a total lier and cheater. i came from a broken family and my father lied and cheated to my mom God knows how many times when they were together. i don't think i would want another person in my life doing this to me. one is enough. i'm the kind of person who easily forgives but never FORGETS. though the people in my life hurt me so badly i intend to forgive them but just remind them that we can only be civil and never be close again. respect begets respect as what they say. a lier and a cheater doesn't earn one in my vocabulary so they don't earn my forgiveness as well. though love moves in mysterious ways, time can never heal all wounds inflicted.

hello cloud. all these time i've been telling myself that if my partner cheated on me, that would be the last. she can squander the money, that i can earn. break the car, that i can fix. go to casino, for that we will have a fight. but cheating on me is a lot different. i've been in a lot of places and, believe it or not, resisted the temptation. for that very reason, i expect the same from her. these is only in principle, should the time come, which i hope it wont, i'm not really sure if i'll be able to do so when love intervenes. but, if ever it happens again, she can kiss the world goodbye. and thats for sure. same mistake done twice is not unintentional. it is own will. good day. :)

Hello my cloud.. i guess you're becoming so serious with this relationship situation.Well, it was really a nice topic. For me, it all depends on the nature of offense committed with my partner. Though every one of us committed mistakes and faults, I guess every one also deserve a second chance. But there are people that would not give and believe in second chance..but as what I had said it depends on both parties and the nature of offense committed on both sides....I hope I made myself understood my friend...Very nice topic... Mobhomeir here...

hello cloud! once in my life, i said to myself that when my partner cheats on me, that will be unforgivable, without a second though i will leave him...and no explanation needed no second chance! haha but, when such things comes in my relationship with my bf then, i just don't know what happen, coz what i do is very much different from what i think. huh! its painful knowing the truth and i really feel bad about it...i am angry but i am still there listening to him, trying to understand why, and just find myself giving him a second chance! haha i do forgive him but forgetting is kinda difficult, everytime i remember what happens the anger arise...but as time pass by, love wins over hatred until i finally find myself forgetting the pain brought by his mistake... i think, when love works, nothing will be impossible and we can't win over it specially if you are really meant to be together or destined to be... haha well, i am happy with the decision that i made and he proves that he deserved the chance that i have given him...afterall all of us are making mistakes and all of us deserves a chance, i guess...

I've never made a mistake in my relationship with my husband that has been something that is unforgivable and likewise he has never made a mistake in our relationship that I consider to be unforgivable. You see, we both know that we are human and that we make mistakes. It is because of this knowledge that we are able to forgive almost anything. The only mistake that he could make that I would not be able to forgive would be to cheat on me. Anything else, I am able to forgive at least once.

Hey friend, I'm a very patient person. Unintentional mistakes are always forgivable to me. I always try to correct others' faults. And the best thing is: If I forgive someone the forgiveness is spiritual. Because I think the best help I can do is spiritually. Have a nice day.

hi, well for me in the past my girlfriend and I broke up and she initiated the breakup well for me that's unforgivable because I worked so hard to remain faithful to her and to make our relationship that strong but after 5 years of doing that she broke up with me for reasons which I don't know up to now, I don't wanna blame anybody for this but her act is unforgivable only time can heal wounds of a relationship as for now I slowly and trying to forgive what she did many years ago and besides as a Christian I must forgive and forget because that's the essence of Christianity.

Personally it depends on the situation for me. Some things I can let go and others I can't some I find very forgiviable and other times not as easily. But, eventually I end up forgiving because I don't want to be one of those people who spends their entire lives holding grudges.

Well i think i can say when my partner will betray me at that point i can say that i will not forgiver her. But I am not sure i may forgive her it really depends on the situation or sometimes we need to experienced it before saying if you can or if you can not. Giving chances? i can say that i usually do but it always take time for that person to regain my trust. And that person must earn it back as well. God bless

We forgive, thats what we do..we want to be forgiven when we make mistakes so we must forgive.

Hi cloud! I think no one of us is perfect and we keep committing mistakes in our lives. I think, we should not hang our partner or take her/him to task if s/he commits and unintentional mistake(s). We should try to accomodate and adjust with her/him keeping in view all his/her positive and negative traits.

They said that it is hard to accept when a man cheated by his wife, I can say that that is true, but when it comes to love it means different because it's true that love conquers all. a true love forgive 77 times for the seven mistakes and double the number of forgiveness when mistakes is doubled. Do me wrong, do cheat, do as you please but just let me love you and I will be fine. But the only bottom line is when the hurts more than my heart and my pride, when the hurts turns to physical, because she is not the only one I love, I also love my parents, my brothers and sister and they will gonna hurt badly if I die by the arms of someone I give my whole heart into

Hello Miss Cloud.. There are some cases, even if unforgiven mistakes or fault what they did, still they can forgive because of love.. For me, betray is the hardest mistake that i cannot accept or this is unforgiven on my side. Have a nice day!!! God Bless you...

If you love that person nothing is Unforgiven.I can say that mostly man will make mistake but I know theres always a way of forgiveness. Nice topic cloud,keep smiling! Your smile mean so much to me.

Hi beautiful cloud! When ur inlove its easy to forget and to forgive!Love conquers all,just open up ur mind,forget about his mistake and start a new beginning! All the best!PJ

I think a very important thing is to remember (and trust me it has happened to me...just ask I will tell you) is if you choose to forgive him/her make sure you really do in your heart. Because if not it will eat you up for a very long time and put so much strain on your relationship to the point it will not be healthy for either of you. If you choose to forgive them. Make sure you find closure in your heart.