losing three friends

LOL, you Lakota are a good example of a new friend and what a friend is all about !! YOu and I have been friends for only a few months and you probably know me better than anybody. These three friends are great and I will never forget them and some of the crap we went thru together. It really was an amazing life in MT and you too have traveled over hell's half acres so you should know what it's like to leave behind friends. But, thanks for being a friend and I have thanked our other friend for getting together, She :) hugggggggggggggggssssssssssssssssssss

oh yes have to thanks She for that . and I know I think I say here that you jopined 9 months ago so it must be about a year ago we met! And we talk alot lolol . thats what friends are for. hugssssssssssssssssssssss

WE IS good ain't we LOL later andthanks

Money is factor we have to have to go and visit isn't it?? The allergy problem is sad but if you and she were or are friends do you still talk on the phone and email each other? I talk to one of my friends via email and one on the phone about once a week but I am sure that will stop when I move away for good. thanks for respoding, quita 88

we talk on the cell regularly. Haven't heard from here in a bit though.

Hi Gerty ! Yes, there has always been some thoughts that we will not remain in OK. However, you know the condition my hubby is in and with each day that passes we both find it easier to live here. I agree I will more than likely lose contact with those in MT but I've also lost contact with old friends here in OK that I have known all my life. I had some amazing adventures in MT and could write a book but the people there are good, some are bad of course but these three friends are just special , each in their own way. I have to tell the whole truth. I wanted to stay here in OK when we did come back and thought it wouldn't happen cuz hubby was so gung ho on MT but his illness is worse than ever and we're just better off here close to the VA and I've established DRs and hospitals too. Gerty, it's been an amazing life and you for one know OK living ain't all that bad LOL Thanks for responding and letting me air it all out ! hugs, quita88

I guess as I read all these posts that we all have lost friends from time to time and it's nothing new. I hate to leave my freinds behind but I'll make new ones as you say and I do cherish the ones in Montana. they are very special people and with God's help we will remain great freinds. Priceless is a great word ! thanks !

I am so sorry that frindship did not work out for you. It 's good that you found out that this man was verbally and emotionally abusive too. I can understand why you really do not miss this one friend! Aww, sweet ! married for 2 1/2 years. Still on your honeymoon:) Thanks for your input and for posting:) I hope you continue to have a happy life ! quita88

Yeah, it's hard on me but I've lived in Oklahoma before and for over 50 years so I do have friends here but we too have lost track of each other and after almost 8 years away we tend to have changed. The new/old friends in MT are great and super people who gave me great support and friendship. I think I might just be feeling a bit lonely for the friends in MT but honestly want to live in Oklahoma. You are right, I do email and telephone these people but it's different cuz we don't actually see each other. But, it has to be ok. I like it back here in OKlahoma and will spend the rest of my life here. You have been a great source of encouragement ! Thanks , quita88

Malta is a very small island in the Mediterranean sea very close to Sicily and Italy.

I didn't realize you were from Malta. I really do not know where that is tho--- I have decided , thanks to mylotters help that I can do just fine now without having those friends around me . I agree I can talk to them on the phone and email. But thanks for your post.

I miss a lot of the friends that I made at David Lipscomb, which is where I went to college in Nashville, and I did keep in touch with them by mail years ago. However, we've all lost contact since. I think I told you that I have been in Oklahoma City. I have also been to Helena, Billings, and Butte, Montana. It's beautiful country up in there! Kathy.

I consider you a good friend, too. You seem to like horses as much as I do for one thing. I also think Lakota is funny! She seems like a real sweetheart, too. I get tickled at Jo, too. I really do enjoy her discussions. Kathy.

Right now I too live where I was born and raised in Oklahoma. We moved to Montana in search of dream and didn't quite find it. My hubby got sick and we had to give up our life as farmers/ranchers. Coming back to Oklahoma was due to my mama passing away last Jan and now we are in her house, mine now but it's best for us here. I do try to keep up with friends in Montana and they do the same but it's just different to talk on the phone rather than see them ever so often. No,no Montana or Oklahoma friends on mylot. I have a great freind and you know her too , Lakota :) but she doesn't live close to me but we are great freinds thanks to a mutual friend who lives in England :) I joined mylot cuz of Lakota. She's a riot ! But, thanks for posting and now being a good freind to me yourself. hugga. quita88

Thanks for your nice input and I will do just that. I'm still a fan of writing real letters too. Most of my friends do not do facebook or any such thing but they are good with the phone and writing. I'll be sending cards and letters and that will help . thanks and take care quita88

I haven't lost these friends so to speak but I'm afraid we'll just wander on our different paths and we will all end up with new friends. I am sorry you have lost freinds too and do understand that there is only one of a kind type of friend and I will do my best to keep up with them if I can and I know they will do the same. Thanks for you wonderful thoughts and for posting. YOu sure did cheer me up. I like to make new and wonderful friends :) Thanks !!! quita88

thanks I hope I can find him too. quita88

I haven't really lost these friens as yet but the worry of losing them hurts. I hope your friendship is found is a good one.