We've been together for just 3 weeks

If you cannot reach him via text or chat or email or calls then start moving on now, how can you confront him why he is taking you for granted when you cannot even get a response to the message you sent him? to think you are only lovers for 3 weeks but he is acting like already falling out of love...You only give considerations that perhaps he is just so busy that is why he can't send you a message but how can you explain the fact that he cannot reply to you yet he can managed reply to other people? That's absurd to wait for that person when you know in the beginning there is something wrong in your relationship. When loving someone you need to have eyes wide open to see the flaws in your relationship.

If he can't give you much attention as what you like, just leave him...who knows? you might be just a fling for him. What I understand is, if you love a person and you care for her, you should let her know that you love her by showing your love and care, paying attention to her or by just making a call or sending texts that you missed her. If your taken for granted, then there's nothing you can do but let him go. He doesn't deserve your love. Look for someone you will love and will love you back in return and someone who will give importance to your relationship.

before you make rash decisions you should consider first whether it s really the right choice. know the reason why he s being a jerk. maybe you did something or didn t do something and it made him a little cold. or maybe it s just that you re seeing things in a little twist. sometimes when people are in a negative state of mind they see stuff that s not really there. take the time to breathe and thoroughly think this over before you make a decision you d regret in the future.

yes you must move on. I agree with you moving on. he doesn't care about you. do not marry him since he will only hurt you. men are not always good mannered. you can find someone else better than he is. you deserve better.

If you want something so badly, I think you should hold on to it and try first doing everything for the sake of what you feel for that person. Then when you came to the point that he is not responding to what you want him to atleast deep inside you know you have done your part. For me it is better to show what i feel than receiving it from the person I like or love. Do not lose hope and fight for it. God bless

moving on after 3 weeks is still doable, you'll be able to forget him pretty fast. i don't reply at text messages quick myself, but this is after a year and more. replying slowly just at 3 weeks isn't a good sign indeed

ayebelle, The both of you have just gotten barely past 3 weeks and you are already exhibiting every known signs that this relationship is straining. I do not want to be judgmental but you may want to reflect a bit here. You must understand that your belief is exclusive only to you and vice versa. To change a belief, a personality or a character might be just a little difficult if not, a really mammoth task. Thus, the easier option is always to compromise on something that is workable in your relationship to keep it functioning. It's not so much about the work, the stress or everything else that got implicated into your relationship - it's about knowing that despite the individual differences, how is it that you are going to live harmoniously with him while understanding that you two are but separate being. This my friend, is of the essence here. Find a good time and communicate to him about your thoughts (not problems) about this issue and allow him the chance to share with you his. Perception are bound to clash, but at least when you keep this open as a known problem, you pave a opening for possible solution or compromising when the occasion calls for it. Have a nice day.

Your right. If someone dosent want to take out the time for you. Then you should waste your time on them. There are always other fishies in the sea.

I think that what he's doing is weird. He's doing something you don't know of. You just have been three weeks and he didn't even text or call after that. Some guys just like to play around. I hope that you could solve this. Don't worry you deserve someone much better.

Well, your feelings are hurted, so your decisions are right. But before making a move, why dont you both talk. Find out why he is behaving different. Make him remember of those pleasant memories. If he has found something wrong on you, let him know you. Any relations, cant stay the same way.. may be some days good and some days bad..but never give away! my personal suggestion!

some persons are very practical in the life,these persons,are very clear in the concepts of life,and it happens that they take you for granted,and are sweet in front of others,and can behave with you in avery rude way that you are totally shocked!act same with them then they will realize!take them for granted and behave with them the same way!