Can friends be lover ?

yes i think that your friend can be your lover.In my case my best friend who i was sharing all my secrets with ,now he is my boyfriend and how you say lover and we live togather for seven years like a family,and my opinion is that we are happy even though in the past we were friends ,we are now friends joined in family...

it will depend on your friends but it is usually a lover if you are a boy and your friend is a girl, those private moments specially you feel something deep inside of you..

i agree with you as you said a friend can be a lover but not all of your friends a good friend closer in need who share with youall good and bad things that happenend in life

From experience, I noticed that best friends are best lovers. If you want a strong and lasting relationship choose your closest friend.

My lover is my best friend. She is my friend at the same time my lover. She fills the duty of a friend And a lover. It is better to have a friend lover. than a lover that is not really your friend. your friend will be there for you. your friend will never leave you. and most important you trust your friend.

yes,for me friends can be a lover., i want to share my story...before i had friend who always with me,we always share our thoughts every day.,we read scriptures and pray together as friends.,i always share all my problems and happiness to him and he did the same way too... For how many months i feel that i am fall in love with him..i was keeping it,without knowing that he felt the same.,then he courted me for only 1 week and we became lovers.,it happen last November 3,2007 until present were still lovers... so, i can say that friends can be a lovers too...

I think that your best-friend can be your lover, it has happened before. It has happened to many couples.

I think that in order to bee good lovers. You have to be friends first. Because things just get complicated. But yes a friend can be a lover and a lover can be a friend.

Yes,I think a friend can be a lover.If he/she is a true friend you can share with everything to him/her.It is a best thing that to become a lover with a friend.As far as I am concerned,friends know each other know your hobby and everything.It is perfect.

i think friends can be lovers but they both have to want it, one can't want it more than the other (speaking from experience) i saw a six year relationship from something like this and it was great just don't try to change the other person keep doing what made you like then in the first place, respect eachother space and don't be like a police in the relationship and you will be fine.

I know someone who has a best friend and at first they're not really lovers. They are just friends but then after sometime... they developed feeling towrds each other. So I guess friends can turn into lovers. This is what I think...

Each and everybody loves in the world. Love is very normal. but having a good friend is not normal. Whenever we leave a lover that pains a lot. The rememberences makes us to cry. But the rememberance of a friend make us happy. Those days I had a wonderful friend. But I had no connections with him. but I always remember him. That gives me happines. Though I have no connections with him I always pray to him.

Yes a friend can be a lover. These situations do occur. I think that you are overthinking this. It's simple, whatever you want to call that friend, call. Friend/lover whatever you feel. After all if you love that friend then he/she is already consider a lover.

yes,lover always comes from friends,but i don't think a friend can be a lover at the same time.it is a special relationship as a friend can be your lover at the same time, which we can call it "there is something going on between x and y"

This is a nice topic to discuss! According to me and my experience, one can't differentiate between a friend and a lover. My ex would always say that there is only one best friend to anyone and that is one's love! I am sure everyone has many good friends and they do care for each other. But a lover has the readiness and willingness to go out of the way while caring for his/her partner. Yes, a friend can become a lover; I mean, a friendship can later convert into love. It happens very commonly! But we can't say that that a lover can't be a good friend. That is injustice to the passionate attachment of the lover. A lover is first a friend, always- a good friend, the best friend! And that is why, one dares to accept him/her as a life partner and rely upon the same for undying, unconditional and life-long love, care and warmth. Thanks for starting this discussion! Have a nice time... Happy myLotting!

Yes. And ( if it works) it could work nice. Because both really know and care about each other. They are through new thnigs together, but they know with whom the other person is doing that.

A friend can be a lover,can happen!

yah it is possible that friend can be a lover but it depends on both of you......

A lots of situation like this is happening in reality, especially when you are down and need somebody to listen your problem, that's one of the beggining why their is development.some people says, much stronger the fundamental of love by develop only. you can do share also to your lover any private, if you really comfortable with him/her already!

Yes. It is actually great that you should be friends first and then become a couple later on. Like I am watching Friends right now, Monica and Chandler ended up marrying each other and they started out as friends.