RELATIONSHIPS: Is he/she worth the stress?

@sether7 (183)
Philippines
March 18, 2010 9:47am CST
What would you do if your other half is so handsome/beautiful that he/she attracts like honey for bees and other man/woman lingers at him or her. What would you do? Will you get jealous or will you just ignore the situation?
7 responses
mr_pearl
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
18 Mar 10
The three stooges... - They are Larry, Curly and Moe; from left to right...
Well... As long as my partner is true to me, I would always feel proud of her beauty. I mean, being with a girl who is the center of attraction everywhere is a wonderful feeling. My fiancee is the most heavenly beautiful girl upon earth and wherever she goes, she makes heads turn... I know she loves me passionately, never feel jealous! Happy myLotting!
mr_pearl
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
18 Mar 10
I am sorry the pic here was meant to be somewhere else.. I got it mixed up!!!
mr_pearl
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
18 Mar 10
OH yes, she is the most wonderful lady and we love each other, madly... Thanks for your warm wishes... Have a nice time!
sether7
@sether7 (183)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
lols! its ok :) i think you have a very awesome relationship because you are very proud of having here. goodluck with it! =D
krisnel
@krisnel (498)
• Philippines
20 Mar 10
i will be proud because he is my boyfriend, i just let the other girls to get envied on me. hahaha.
sether7
@sether7 (183)
• Philippines
22 Mar 10
That's the spirit Krisnel! hahaha! ^_^
tessah
@tessah (6617)
• United States
18 Mar 10
my other half is quite attractive. tall.. dark.. with the most hypnotic crystal blue eyes ive ever seen. does it bother me when other women pant after his sexy behind? nahh.. the others can eat their hearts out.. those eyes only hold me in them
sether7
@sether7 (183)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
oh that's awesome! its like "look at it on whichever way you want but you can't have it!" hahaha...good thing you're not jealous at all because they said jealousy ony shows that you dont trust your partner. thanks for participating :)
melloncollie
@melloncollie (661)
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
This is a very big problem with me. I do trust my partner. And I usually don't get jealous when people are showing signs of attraction towards her. As long as I see that she's not acting on it. As long as it's visible that I'm still the apple of her eye. But sometimes I get so lost when my paranoia starts to take a notch higher. I tend to be really creative. And believe you me, that sometimes creativity can really ruin a person. I'm still on the process of battling it. I told my wife about it. To please understand if I'm having one of those episodes. I made her aware of my paranoia/reckless-destructive-creativeness. LOLZ. And I thinks I'll be turning around from it. I just need a little hand from my wife.
sether7
@sether7 (183)
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
Really?! Oh well I think your wife will try her best to understand you as long as you talk it over. Just try to relax whenever this happens too so that efforts and hardwork for a change comes from both sides. I'm sure you two are gonna work it out unfortunately for me it seems that I was the only one listening XD and all I could do is accept the situation.
scja16
@scja16 (322)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
To be honest I will surelly get jealous but I know that is so wrong to do. I know I am doing the wrong thing and I can say that I always get jealous most of the time. I think I need to be more positive and not to think negatively so I will not create bad images in my head. I need to trust my partner more and talk to her personally to tell her my feelings about he actions. It is easy to say this words but I admit it is hard to do it in reality. God bless everyone
sether7
@sether7 (183)
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
That's a nice reaction you've got there. We should really be on control of our feelings when jealousy strikes and its really a good decision to talk some problems with your partner enable to solve it. Have a nice day and thanks for participating.
arreolabryan
@arreolabryan (856)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
It is hard but u should try to ignore it. He or she should try to keep distance if he/she really loves you too
sether7
@sether7 (183)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
Yeah I think that the best way to do. Thanks for participating :)
jewels49
@jewels49 (1776)
• United States
18 Mar 10
I would imagine this persons looks were what attracted their partner to them in the beginning? I think jealousy is a waste of time and energy, this person can't control how they look or other peoples behavior. What matters is the way we react to the behavior. If that person made the choice to be in the relationship, I would trust that and ignore the green-eyed monster.
sether7
@sether7 (183)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
yeah i think so too. just what others say, jealousy shows no trust to your other half. Its ok to make friends with the others but just know the limitations :) thanks for posting.