Is there one person in your family that you wish was not!
By overwith
@overwith (101)
United States
March 18, 2010 4:13pm CST
Hi everyone before I get started on the discussin I just want to say that everyone I have had discussions with have been great so let me say thanks for giving me a warm welcome to myLot.
Now is there one person in your family that you wish were not in the family. I know I have one and it is like the spawn from he!!. Not once have I talked to this person and not heard that someone hasen't done something to them. It's drama central always and always fighting with someone. I don't get it. Why would anyone want to be that way? At least if they were not a close family member I wouldn't have to act like I'm even the least bit interested if this person even exist. I wish they were not in my family at all. I was ask by a friend of mine that knows this family member personaly if I would be sad if this person vanished off the face of the earth. This may sound harsh but I wouldn't shed a tear. They are always trying to break up a marriage in some way and I don't mean sleeping with someones spouse either. Just by telling lies and what ever to cause problems. If you have someone like that I would love to hear about it.
2 responses
@quita88 (3715)
• United States
19 Mar 10
This is a sad thing to have family member being so bad that
you'd rather they not existed.
but I too have had family members I just stayed away from cuz
they were genuine pains !
The best you can do is stay as far away as possible and if asked
why tell them just what you've told us.
The truth.
hugs, quita
@overwith (101)
• United States
19 Mar 10
Thanks quita that is the only advice that makes any sence. I have tried in the past to help this person and show kindness but I can't take anymore. I have washed my hands of this situatin. If they want to know why I'll do just what you said, tell the truth. Maybe that will get this person to take a hard look at their life and decide if they want to continue this way or want to be a better person. I don't know if at 27 a person can change but there is always hope. If the whole family will stay away then their attention will be brought forth lots quicker. I would have to see a BIG diference to ever go around this person ever again. The last time I did they swung fist at me and I have no idea why. I got great big appology but that isn't the first time and won't be the last if I don't stop it in its tracks. I promise I will not let that happen again. I will be on guard if this person comes around me (as I won't be going around them) and I will turn all loose. No questions asked I will be ready.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
21 Mar 10
Well, i would always wished..its is my champ!! Well he is so naughty i always tell him that you are odd man out of my family. Well its my puppy. I am really running after him always. He is so naughty , so far he has broken 4 bottles, cut 2 wires, tore 3 files..uff. My family members are so decent, this is the naughty one in mine..yet we love him still!
