When do you feel jealous?
By intelpink
@intelpink (163)
Philippines
March 18, 2010 10:59pm CST
Jealousy is one of the unavoidable feeling that a person can meet in the relationship. It is often times the root of quarrels and disagreements that lead to separation. It is also connected to unfaithfulness especially when it comes to married couples. For you, when do you feel jealous and why?
7 responses
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
19 Mar 10
i rarely feel jealous. People feel jealous when they start comparing wit others and stop thinking about their own growth and achievements. We must never compare.What we forget when we feel jealous is that the other person has worked just as hard as we to reach that level. It just didnt come to him by chance, So the best way to over come jealousy is by trying to achieve what we aim for rather than trying to pull someone down
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@autumndreamer (3185)
• Philippines
21 Mar 10
Well, I can only feel jealousy if I see him kissing other girls. That's the time I will really get mad and turn into a dinosaur. LOL. but I rarely get jealous in my past relationships.
@churchill1980 (764)
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
i seldom feel jealous, but when i do, i make sure i have the reason why i felt jealous. i think there's nothing wrong to feel this way if it will make the relationship stronger and will not destroy the relationship that you have.
@jd107nette (1454)
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
i really don't get jealous in a form of love. i only get jealous when others can make him laugh when all i can do is make him smile. and when he play his games more than chatting with me at night. but aside that, He shows me his loyalty and he never did anything that would make me lose trust. :)
But sometimes when we're together with her big sister and then she would keep his hands full. _
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
I usually dont feel jealous about other people but I feel jealous when it comes to things. lol! I feel bad when something is prioritized other than me. I dont like it if people have to do something else first than do things for me. I dont like it actually because I find myself easy to do others a favor and I also want people to do the same thing for me.
@eloveriz2004 (499)
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
I am not a jealous type of person since my husband has been so faithful to me and it shows with the way he treats me. I trust him a lot but if I'd see him flirting with other women, maybe I would feel jealous then.
@RobinJ (2501)
• Canada
19 Mar 10
I try to avoid feeling jealous because it is very negative.I do not envy anyone because each and every one of us have a life to lead, and while I may not have all the money, stuff, friends, in the world, I am content with who and what I am.
I believe that jealousy comes from our perceptions of others and very likely we do not have all the information about them. A person can be very Rich and still lead a desperate life. No like I said I know who I am and exactly what I have. no envy included.