how can you keep on loving a man you don't trust anymore?

I guess i can say that it really depends on how our heart will react on certain situation. We all know that we really do not know which is right or wrong when we are in love. There are lots of saying or description about love such as love is blind. My point is, we really can't tell until that situation where we need to decide. Just follow your heart and for me I guess I do not care if i will be in pain at the end but at least I prove that I love the person with my whole heart. God bless

trust is a very important thing to have in a relationship. with what happen to her, it is better if she broke up with her boyfriend, because she will just live with the misery of that experience. when one is in love, she could always forgive, but to forget is another thing, and that' s very hard to do.

a boyfriend being caught red-handed is already a sign of an untrustworthy person. but being caught with the gf's step sister? any girl would be in the classification of stupid if she stays with this kind of man. this is a person without morals and people without morality do not just stay cheating. they can graduate to the worse levels.

It is a very complicated situation as well as feelings, you can forgive but not forget. Love fades but never disappear..as what I know if u don't trust someone its hard to feel love again...

Trust is one big factor to consider in any relationships. When trust fades, there is a possibility for love to vanish. In many instances, anyone can lose trust to a partner who do unfaithful acts out of infidelity. Definitely, there's no way loving the person whom you do not trust anymore.

Everybody deserves a second chance. If I were in their shoes, I will still accept the apology of my man provided he's really sorry of what he has done and promise not to do that again. It is truly hurtful to be betrayed by the person I deeply in love. but considering that I'm might also have lapses, I will give him one more chance. Just one chance to bring back the lost trust. And he must do everything to make me forget the pain he has given me.

Well i think that if a person has done this kind of thing once or if they have been suspected of doing it then i think that is when all the trust has gone aswell as the respect thaqt went with it.I think if it had been done to me which i have been told it has happened then i would do the same thing in spite more than for anyother reason.

No Way. I mean yes forgiveness is good. But only to a certain extent. When it comes to something like that. You should never be with someone who is a cheater. That means they dont really care about you. Then when you take them back . They are going to think that they can get away with it again.

when it comes to relationships, talking can really help heal the relationship. and here s a fact about us guys: we can really be such jerks.. that s true. for example, i get easily attracted to sexy women, even if she s not that pretty. and this was a serious problem for my ex-gf. sometimes we fought cuz i took a quick glimpse at this chic. but we talk afterwards and then everything would work out fine.

if i was on that situation i will broke him up too. of all the people why my step sister. he seems to hit two birds in one stone. i can forgive him but to stay in a relationship with him again, i cant take it anymore. if i stay with him it will always remind to me the cheating that he did to me. so broking up is the right thing to do than to be with him.

I think it would be very difficult to love the person if you dont trust him/her anymore. What you will have is nothing. Its just right for the girl in the story to do that to her ex-boyfriend. He doesnt deserve the girl at all. Its way better not having a relationship than have a relationship that you would have to lie all the time. Its a good feeling to be in love but its not the reason enough to just act stupid cause you love the person and you would just tolerate things like that.

Sorry to say, but there's no way I'll let this get past me. Forgiveness maybe will come after I've given this matter some thought, and probably after I get tired or thinking about it. And then after I've figured out why my guy would do something like this, then I'd forgive him. If he was so quick to throw away our relationship to attend to his itch, well, then he's going straight in the bin. That's that. I love the guy I'm with, but I also love myself.

A relation is a very delicate matter to begin with. 1st of all, things cant be judged looking from one persons point of view. Just like, to make a relation, there must be 2 people, in a similar way, the situation must be judged keeping in mind the mindset of both the people. To begin with, getting caught red handed just spoils the trust. i agree. But the matter is not to break off. Breaking off can be done anytime in life. But, if love is true, there must be some kind of an attempt made to find out why the guy was searching for someone else in the presence of his lover. Does it mean the girl was not giving him something that he wished for??? Here again, there are 2 possibilities. Either the guy has some complaints with his present lover and hence is searching for another option. the other possibility is, he is a born flirt. In the later case, the relationship must be broken without any doubt. But if the 1st case is true, the girl must see to it that she discusses the circumstances which forced the guy to act like this. finally, the couple must speak up before breaking up. Give each other a chance to know what has really happened and why it has happened. Thats the only way to find a solution. Breakup is not the ultimate solution. breakup must be only the Last Resort. -BDN.