What type of partner you have???

Hello i was married in 1965, my wife is cool in mind, we have quarreled 2 or 3 times only, we have great love and regard for each other.. most indian couples are like that.. Thank you so much for this nice discussion,I am late in respondig, cheers God bless you. Prof

Well, I don't think my partner is short-tempered. He's the exact opposite of me. He's determined, focused and responsible in everything he does. He prioritize his studies and he inspires me. He makes me a better person. He's sweet and caring too.

I think the boys are generally short tempered. This is good. But I don't think there are different types of partner. However, I am single now. So I haven't any partner yet.......

My partner is also very short tempered it has caused us alot of problems over the years and now as we have been together over 20 years we are growing apart because of it. In the beginnning yes mine was very loving too but now I dont prefer him to be loving and try to avoid him. Mine has very very controling and jealous too which i know hasnt helped our relationship either. Im not saying your partner and you will end up like us people do live in good healthy relationships even if someone has a short temper but it does tend to make it little more challenging. The only part of it that i regret is that it seems to have had a negative impact on our children. I see the children now as they are growing into adults to be having some of the same issues my husband has. Ive tried very hard to teach the children to have patience with people and not try to control their partners. Its the classic do as i say not as your father has done but they have learned by example of how he has treated me over years so i feel bad for them.

My husband is a very clever man. He doesn't really realise it though. I think when he was young, his parents constantly found fault with him and he doesn't really believe in his capabilities. I am very lucky that he is a patient person too mostly. Of course he has a temper sometimes and can be unpleasant if he is complaining about me but then nobody likes criticism and so that is nothing new.