She test my patient...
By hanah87
@hanah87 (1835)
Malaysia
March 20, 2010 1:46am CST
This fourth semester, i took for entrepreneurship course or subject where aia need to form group and make a business. We can select or choose any business we want do except wrong business if we take this subject. My group have five member where come along among my friend in my batch and also include one member girl from other batch. The story is about unexpected relationship happened between the girl from other batch who also group with me. She make me very angry and try to test my patient.
We make a handbag and other product business to be sell. I also contribute by money and energy and also my time. She try to be a leader even we are not choose her as the leader. Maybe she think we are do not have an experience(she is the senior only a few month from us) and no car(she has the car and we only have motorcycle) she thought she can guide and bring us to anywhere and ask us to do everything she want. We try to follow her order but sometimes we have other commitment too especially me because all group that I join always try to finish their assignment faster while my other member in this business course do not same like me even they take 7 subject same with me. I feel stress because she cannot understand my situation even I have talk with her. I also give my commitment even it is not big like them as they thought. I use my motorcycle to sell the handbag and find the thing she want to buy. But there is something she do not satisfy with me and I know she is influence by her friend who do not like me(her friend is aggnorant and always choose a friend).
I also do't like her so much. Last day I have a small argue with her after I met my lecture to discuss about this. I afraid because in our other discussion group, she tried to influence my friends to said in our assignment that I do not give a commitment. So I meet her and tried to slow talk with her but she rise her voice and scold me in front my friend. What the crazy girl! If my friend accuse me do not do the work same like they do, I will hate all of them if they do this to me because I know that I do that job and they also see me do it but only they do not want to open their eyes to see what I have done and my contribute.They only want to see my false. What would you do if this thing happen to your life? What your suggestion to me solve my problem even the girl do not want to discuss and only want to scold me??
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2 responses
@hanah87 (1835)
• Malaysia
20 Mar 10
Of course what i need to do is to be patient. But this problem would involve my mark for my assignment which help my pointer increase. What i afraid is when she try to down my mark for my assignment. We need to judge and give mark for every member. What happen if she success to influence all my friends. I can't know my friends attitude because sometimes they always change their mind and attitude too where today they speak nice with me and the other day they can fight with me.
@voldrox (7191)
• India
20 Mar 10
hi hanah,
That is quite rude on behalf of her, i don't know friend but it does seem like some people like to play the role of a leader and want others to plainly follow it as if what ever they are saying are meant to be followed and yes it also annoys them if we find a fault in them, they just don't want to accept their fault, i guess this is what they 'ego'. It's not good on part her part to just ignore you and keep saying what you need to do.
I can say i am lucky enough not to have had such a member in any of my groups, i just can't stand them, and if i get angry i can yell at them, sometimes i get quite irritated and really angry at people 
.. well you need to talk to your other members about this, i guess even they might the feel the same about her. Like you say she is influenced by her friend, it could be she likes to listen to her friends and not others, i hope your other partner don't listen to her, i don't know what her motto might be, it could be that she wants you off of your group i can't say, you should know friend.
Raising voice in front of others! 
how dare.!
Friend you must find ways to replace her with someone who could actually do good for your group, don't you think? She only finds faults in you i guess because she doesn't want to see the bright side... have a nice day friend.
.. well you need to talk to your other members about this, i guess even they might the feel the same about her. Like you say she is influenced by her friend, it could be she likes to listen to her friends and not others, i hope your other partner don't listen to her, i don't know what her motto might be, it could be that she wants you off of your group i can't say, you should know friend.
Raising voice in front of others! how dare.!
Friend you must find ways to replace her with someone who could actually do good for your group, don't you think? She only finds faults in you i guess because she doesn't want to see the bright side... have a nice day friend.1 person likes this
@hanah87 (1835)
• Malaysia
20 Mar 10
Thanks a lot friend for understand my situation. I really don't know what she want and why she hate me so much. I can see from the attitude she show to me from first time we start our assignment. I thought maybe her friend that does not like me influence her too.
