Do you let people walk all over you?

Hi Saphrina. It is better to speak your mind then hold it in cause that can make you just plain sick. I am a tomboy and had many brothers and they taught me at an early age to stand up for myself. I was always the one in school that had to stand up for my sister. She was burnt as a small child and this always bothered her so some people in school would make fun of her. It was an almost daily event me having to beat someone up for being just plain mean to her. Thank God the school days are over and she is over her embarrassment of being burnt.

I would have done exactly the same if were in your shoes. Children are mean, unfortunately. But at least all that is over now. TATA.

Hi Saphrina. I thank God I was there for her and am also thankful that I no longer have to fight for her any more. I would if needed. She abused it sometimes though she would start something she thought it was cool to have a big sister stand up for her. I told her after a couple of times that she started it that if she started it again I wouldn't step in. She stopped starting the fights. I was very lucky I had an understanding principle she had a sister like mine not burnt but a sissy and she said she had to do the same thing when in school. Hope you have a great day Saphrina.

& bluntness have been misunderstood for pride

Hi Shy. We should be just plain blunt to some people. And bluntness may be misunderstood for pride but we should be proud of who we are.

Hi Mzz. So sorry for the delay in my response but read the one above you and you will see why. Our children will or should make us stronger. Some people don't know how to accept the fact that others don't take this kinds of treatment. To some they think it is normal. All you can do is stand up for yourself and if someone don't like that you stand up for them then tell them to get a backbone and realize that it isn't right for others to walk all over them. I won't stand up for someone more then once if they don't appreciate it the first time. Don't take anything and don't let anyone ever have control over you or your family. Give all the credit to God and God will take care of you with your help.

Hi EnslinPorter. I am sorry it took me so long to respond but read the response above and you will see why it took me so long. There is no need for anyone to walk on others God created all of us the same. There is no one better then anyone else in this world. Don't think you are bad cause you started standing up for yourself. God don't want any of us to take any BS from anyone. You want to learn to fight go to a self defense classes and you will learn how to put these A holes in their place. Learn to shout NO real loud and believe me it works really good. Don't take anything from anyone you are a good person no matter what others say to you.

Hi Professor my friend. It is good that you can be totally free with your wife and children. I see you are reserved and I bet your a good person. I can sense these sort of things in your responses. Hope you have a great day!

Hi Bestylish. Sorry for not responding to you sooner but read the response that I gave the others and hopefully you will understand. I think twice before saying things so I don't say something that will hurt peoples feelings. But I won't take any BS from anyone. I like that word cheeky.

Hi Thoroughrob. It sometimes comes in handy to have that backbone when it comes to bullies. I hate bullies and won't take anything from anyone. I let things slide if it isn't important but if it is something I feel very strongly about I will stand up and speak my peace. Even use a 2x4 when necessary. God didn't make any one of us HE isn't proud of. It must be hard raising a disabled child I will keep you in my prayers. Hope you have a great day my friend Thoroughrob.

Hi LadyBoss so sorry I haven't responded sooner to your response but really I didn't get your response in my email. I got the Professors response today and see others that needed to be responded too. I was brought up a good Christian lady too but I had brothers that taught me that the only way to stop violence was to beat the mess out of whom ever was giving me a hard time. The preacher we listen too tells us that as Christians God don't want us to let people walk all over us. And you know I believe this man. He says take a 2x4 and give them an attitude adjustment if need be. I can't stand these bleeding heart christians that think God don't hate God does hate injustice. Don't believe me listen to this man and hear the truth about Gods word. http://www.shepherdschapel.com/index.htm . Again I am so sorry it took me so long to respond. Have a good day.

Hi Kiran and welcome to my lot. There are just some people that you have to give an attitude adjustment too. Some you can handle with gloves but some you just plain have to use a 2x4 on. No sense in taking any BS from anyone. Don't be a bully but don't take anything either. Have a geat day.

Hi Cloud. I won't take any BS either. I always speak what is on my mind. I don't walk on people but I won't let them walk on me either. Thanks happy mylotting too you too!

Hi Linds and welcome to my lot. Don't take his BS. There are laws against that kind of stuff. I don't know what situation your in but your free time is yours and you can tell him if he wants to pay you for your free time you will do as he ask and if not then it is your free time. Stand up on those two legs that God gave you and take a stand NOW before it gets any worse. Your a good person and don't have to take what ever is dealt. You have rights!

Hi Dimitarivanov and welcome to my lot. I don't take anything from anyone. I have seen a lot of people that do and it makes me so pissed off becuase I can't teach them to stand up for themselves. I think learning to stand up for ones self is something they are brought up with. Self learned sort of thing. But I had many brothers that taught me not to take any BS from anyone. I won't take anything! Thanks.