Love Hurts...But why we are always coming back for Love?

love can always heal and hurt,and so my friends say that loving without being hurt is not loving at all,they say that being hurt is part of loving someone,the most common pain is in being jealous right?i mean you love that person so much that you hate it seeing them with someone even though you know that you're the one they love,maybe they say that loving without being hurt is not loving at all is because if it's just good things that happen to your relationships then what lesson will you learn?how can you get stronger if it's always happiness?you have to feel some pain too,i think it's to gain trust,it can make you love that person more,to grasp to him/her,i think we search for love because it is a part of happiness i mean you can't say that you're happy in doing some things if you don't love it right?loving can be painful and depressing but if you look on the brighter part there was happiness you were happy even if it was just a while,consider yourself to be lucky to be with the ones you truly love don't be pessimistic if you two ever have to be apart think about those happy times you shared together,open your heart and mind to understand fully the things that happened in your experience with love..somehow even if it's just a little it still made you happy :)

Love Hurts...But why we are always coming back for Love? Simply..becoz. our hearts can still feel LOVE... NOT UNLESS.... HEART GET TIRED OF LOVING.... which i think is impossible!!! love and be loved is one of the sweetest thing...

hi primeaque, love and career is the main things in the life,without love and without career,you may not fulfill your wishes,every body must have a love and must have a career,if fail in career and love,do not frightened it is written in the fate,you have bare your fate,so do not worry,have a nice day

It is never easy to make such a decision. To stay with a current love or to leave for another. That is part of life. Testing everyone and those who make it have the pleasure of the fairytale. But hurting others in the process, is very painfull. All things considered, you have to be sure before givng up, that what you already have. TATA.

Despite of having a lot of break up and heart aches. No matter how many times we have been deceived or put down, there is a place in our hearts that knows "We are destined to be someone special" Love takes risks... It takes a lot of patience and understanding.... That is why no matter how hurtful we had encountered we always see love as something,really special.

We all need love, that's just how we are made. I haven't got any experience on this yet, because I have just got some minor crushes, but nothing more serious... For women the thing called "love" is more important than for most men. Some men care just about the physical side (I am not like this, for my defense).

Many don't come back for more. I have my first true love . he is E everything I ever wanted . If he leaves , I wont look for another. I will done with love. But at least I had it once.If you are strong enough to try again , I think that is great. You still feel that your perfect love , I mean there is a person who is you perfect match , is still out there!

Well, I always come back for love because it's so happy to be in love! No matter what the ending might be, it is so happy to be in love. I just love the feeling. I've read somewhere in a book, "Love like you've never been hurt before." And I think that's right. No matter how many breakups in the past, it's still good to love.

Hi prime..good topic you have here. Love does hurt, but we are always coming back for love, yes.. that's because I think love is a natural feeling to have. Even the heaviest rock of hearts must have love some people in their lifetime. Love is a natural feeling to have and to feel and it's also to be shared. To get hurt in love, well.. it's perhaps part and parcel of life. And some people even say that to be hurt in love is better than not experiencing it at all.

Hi there Prime! Love is love is everything we need. Without love our life would be worthless. When one is in love, he feels it is the happiest time in his life. But somewhere along the way, there will be trials and pains. Did you missed someone but felt confused at the same time because a new love emerged? That will be a very hard thing to decide. I can say it's really important to weigh things carefully. Who do you think is the person you can't live without. Distance, time difference, and circumstances may hinder a love so sweet but if you really love that person you would do everything to surpass the situation. I don't think you would give up on someone if you really love her. It takes two to tango. So you need to meet halfway if you want your relationship to work out right. I still believe in happy endings. I wish yours will be like a fairy tale with happy ending too. Happy mylotting!

Hi Prime, Good day! I've been in this situation before. We were separated by someone I love by distance. Along the way someone else near came. He was so sweet, caring and charming. He seemed to fill the emptiness I feel. I got so confused so I decided to stay away from that someone. My boyfriend and I were no longer in good terms during that time. We always end up fighting over small things and I always end up frustrated after each phone call. I lost both of them. However, I found a new love along the way of moving on and forgetting that sad story of my life. My new love is now my husband and we already have a 5 month old son. Whenever, I go back to that part of my life it no longer brings pain but it makes me think of the what ifs. But everything ends there. Hope you can sort out what's best for all of you. Have a nice day!

hell0! well, i guess we always come back for it, no matter how hurt we were, because it is something greater than the hurt it causes, or maybe it isn't, but it definitely makes us feel better and it is the power that makes us feel alive, that thing which shows us that we are human beings and that there is a heart inside us, which beats every second, and it is thirsty for some love, for some caresses and it wants more and more. There are also some people, who never come back for it after they got hurt, because they feel too insulted, feel too much pain in their hearts and are afraid that it could happens again, and they think that they won't go through it once again!

well its true,sometimes there is adjustment and the other live with you as adjustment may the other deeply loves you!then it hurts as in the future the adjustment part comes on the surface and the heart is broken!then love dosent comes back but when there is equal from both then it comes back!

Because love is like a roller coaster... Have the high point and the low point. Sometimes it's in the top of our feelings and when we are in top, we're happy and calm. When we left that top and fall to the bottom, we have that impact that make us bad and feeling down. So I think that love hurts, but in same time love is incredible and make us happy and stronger.

Love is great. What makes it hurt is when people have high expectations of it lasting forever. It doesn't usually last that long. You have to enjoy it while it lasts and know when to call it quits. When one love ends then don't be so fearful and bitter that you stop looking all together because then you will never have love in your life. It is best to go into it with the hopes that it will last forever and yet knowing that it may not and just enjoy it while you can. Every once in a while someone gets lucky and it does last. If you give up just because you get hurt then you'll just never know. it's kind of like the lottery.

Because it makes us happy. I think no matter how hurtful the last relationship is, you would still try again and again because the feeling of happiness and the feeling of being loved is really more weight than being hurt and crushed and all those sad stuffs. And I think that we all believe that one of these days, we will eventually find that perfect person for us that won't hurt us. So try and try, and get hurt while trying, but in the end you'll be happy.

Love hurts yes but love can also make you head over heels. From time to time it's natural that we miss the people that we have shared love with. Whenever I feel so alone I pray and thank God that he gave me a chance to experience the beauty of that past love. We are humans and we are all destined to feel hurt from time to time and no matter how much we hurt we cannot deny the fact that loving or feeling loved is so wonderful a feeling

hi prime! if you don't hurt, it means you don't have love! love and hurts is partner. they are connected to each other. if you love, then you are ready to be hurt.. it's just like a spicy foods, the more its hot, the more delicious you taste. as their was a saying that "it's better to have love and to be hurt than nothing at all! if you hurt it means your are human being, your are normal my friend..ha..ha.. Good luck for your next steep of Love!

Yes!! Love truly HURTS.... it really sucks if when we feel the pain of a broken heart.. Maybe we are always coming back for love because maybe deep inside we are still searching true love that could give us true happiness... :P

primeaque86 I feel the same way like you. I have also lost the one i love. i thought God has given me another chance to love someone. I tried to courted her letting her feel the atmosphere of love. I want to tell her that i love her but i was afraid of rejection. i was afraid that she would deny me. everything was a test... I dont know how to tell her until such time that she gone to a far away place not even telling me she only informed me when she was there and that she failed a subject. i dont know what to say. time passed by. and im starting to feel that i miss her. i want to love her more.. i cant deny it. so i told her that i love her in the phone.. i was so stupid. she did not answer my question. she told me that she could only give me her friendship. and that the end for me. but she keeps comming back to my mind i don't know why. hehe i hope u understand my story.