BYE & ILOVEYOU ..Should it always be together?
By cloud31
@cloud31 (5809)
March 21, 2010 1:15pm CST
Is it necessary to say "ILOVEYOU"everytime you ended a conversation with your loveone?
How vital the word ILOVEYOU to your loveone everytime you ended a conversation ? And how about you are considering this is a must? I can always hear this word to somebody whenever they have to end up a conversation,whether in phone/voice chat/etc.
How do you feel, to hear this word from your loveone always and everytime?Will you be mad if he/you forget to say this word to you/ to him?
Is this word has something to do with relationship.? Myself seldom utter this word maybe thats the reason why I'm being tailed 
and might be the reason why I cannot convince someone about my feelings towards him..
Anyhow, now myLotters, is it important to have this word from time to time,when closing a conversation,with your love one?
Your thoughts and views are welcome.. Thank you and Happy myLotting!
and might be the reason why I cannot convince someone about my feelings towards him..
Anyhow, now myLotters, is it important to have this word from time to time,when closing a conversation,with your love one?
Your thoughts and views are welcome.. Thank you and Happy myLotting!1 person likes this
27 responses
@phoenix8606 (4942)
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21 Mar 10
hell0 Cloud! guess they really should be together, because it is already something like a trend, but I think it should be spoken only if you really love the person you say goodbye and not just so, because the others do it. When I still had a girlfriends, we always said it, because I loved her and she loved me, but recently i haven't tell it to nobody, maybe because there is nobody by my side 
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@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
21 Mar 10
If you know how you feel about this person, it is not always necessary to say ''i love you'', when ending a call or conversation. It is the deeper inner feelings that makes those words unwelcome at times. But some like to say it. I think it makes them feel better and want to reassure their loved one that they do really love him or her.
@cloud31 (5809)
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22 Mar 10
I'm doing good saph! How you doing ? I just want to send you a message but I'm aware you're still feel unwell till this hour ..I hope you're ok now..I missed you more..
Don't bother yourself a lot, I know you can move out from that..Stay firm..I will always be right here! IJ
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
22 Mar 10
"BYE & I LOVE YOU" yes my friend this is applicable to everyone you really love..in your case maybe you are not just expressive. Maybe you are adapting a phrase that goes like "It is easier said than done"..am I right?Convince anyone? I think you don't have to need all the time this phrase (bye & i love you) to convince..as long as you sincerely uttered this words and honestly express this to whom it may concern I think you can expect not just a mere convincing but a happiness to that person concern.
In my opinion cloud, this three words "I love you" are most abused (combination)words I ever known...
It depends on how we gonna use it...whether it would be said sincerely and honestly or just said it casually and complimentary...
Hope I make myself understood...
Mobhomeir here..."bye & I Love You"...he he he
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
Oh thanks for the BR my friend..have a nice day ahead..enjoy your long days vacation....
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
21 Mar 10
I am not used to using the word GOODBYE or Bye.
And the last time i said " i love you goodbye" is about a week ago,when i decided to end up a relationship.
that's the ultimate word for me to end a relationship.
yeah,saying goodbye means end for me...and i love you,becoz,love is not to end,only the relationship with the particular person is to end.
But love will always be there...and i hope that true love comes along my way...soon.
@cloud31 (5809)
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22 Mar 10
Hello jaiho!
Love is just roaming aroundsoon you will find in just the corner of your eyes.When time will come it will be a word of "HELLO" is it me you're looking for?? and wish for eternal and no more space for goodbye..
Thank you for sharing and Happy myLotting!
soon you will find in just the corner of your eyes.When time will come it will be a word of "HELLO" is it me you're looking for?? and wish for eternal and no more space for goodbye..
Thank you for sharing and Happy myLotting! @yresh12 (3212)
• Philippines
21 Mar 10
I think that I love you is a word of affection. It is really nice to hear from your love one words from these and they also feel the same way. They also need to feel love and security. This is in terms of lovers and in relationships. In friends and family it's okay to say it once in awhile. They already know how much you treasure them...
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
21 Mar 10
well, i only say bye in a phone conversation. although i ve never really said it to her, it melted me everytime my ex said iloveyou to me. it s true that action speaks louder than words but words also speaks. do not restrain yourself from saying iloveyou. people love to hear it. lol.
@kaylachan (69897)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21 Mar 10
Saying those words once and a while are important. It is a kind of reassurance that you are serious about that person. When George and I get off the phone we usually end it with "love you". It lets the other person know they are loved. That's a feeling that people need to feel from loved ones. Lack of saying that can often make that person doubt the other person's feelings.
@cloud31 (5809)
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22 Mar 10
hello kayla! I agree with you it may not be as always but at least it has to be utter once in a while for an assurance of your partner..Its true it may sometimes brings insecurity to mind without those words being uttered.
Thank you for sharing and Happy myLotting!
@___SKY___ (541)
• Hong Kong
21 Mar 10
Hi miss Cloud!
Not really necessary to say this word every time their going to end up of conversations, it is a feelings that want to express to his/hes love one by saying this word. Like me, im always saying this word every time we end up our conversation either from telephone or chatting on internet. Well, i feel bad if she forgot to reply that word even i know she loves me too, i don't know why, toink.. Anyway nice topic..
Have a nice day!!! Happy mylotting... GBU..
@Mrln_Trrs (98)
• United States
21 Mar 10
I think it has to go together,it makes someone feel loved when he hear this words from their love ones.I can say I always want to listen that word from my gf too.
Nice topic,do you know how to say that word miss cloud? I guess not lol.
Keep smiling!
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
21 Mar 10
Well the conversation doesnot sounds meaning unless we end saying ILOVEYOU at the call. I does it to my wife, when am away on a clients place. Thats not just a word, for me thats the feeling i hide always in my busy works and when i get a chance cant resist myself saying this. And i know how much happiness it gives my wife by those words ILOVEYOU. It also tells her that conversation is not just to know how you are, but how i feel for you!
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
26 May 10
Hi cloud when i talk to my wife over phone, i normally say i love you at the end of the conversation, while chatting with some body in YM i say bye for now, i hope we talk soon, god bless.. lol i used to tell I LOVE YOU, but one reacted violently..hence stopped, many take the word love in bad sense..
Sorry for late response.. Thanks for sharing.
Welcome always.
Cheers.
Prof
Cheers.
Prof
@drshav (205)
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
Actually for me no. I dont usually say that word that often i only say it especially if were together. I want him to feel how much i love him and how i care for him. For me its much better if he hears it coming through my mouth. Its much sweeter to say i love you when you dont actually hear it much often. I dont want to say that word because i have to. I want to say it because its what my heart and mind want to say.
@TheIceman33 (347)
• Philippines
26 May 10
we might not like it, but the two would always be together.. there is always a beginning and there's always an ending.. there is no eternity or forever, it's just lyrics of a song..
@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
29 Mar 10
I believe when two person are madly inlove, it should and must be together. But during the past years of being together they forgotten to include that words to their every conversation anymore. Like my parents, my mother said that she and my father were sweet before. Like they are not ashame of telling on each other the word I love you. But when their relationship gets older, the word I love you seems to be erased on every conversation. I guess bye and I love you really depends on the conversation they had. it depends on them if the words needs to be together too.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
24 Mar 10
i know it is important for a relationship, though it is not always necessary to say these sweet words. but we also always say these between my siblings and parents. it is because we are apart from each other for quite a long time now. i live far from them. they are in the luzon area and i am here in the visayas with my own family. with my wife, we also say i love yous, but not always on conversation. because we always see each other and we can say these words, always.
@churchill1980 (764)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
me and my husband would always end our conversation that way, be it on text messages or phone calls. it's reassuring to know that despite the distance we have, he still feel that way for me. and for me, those words are very necessary in a relationship.
@bystander (2292)
• Philippines
31 Mar 10
no, it is better to say "welcome, i love you." don't you think that's more appropriate and the feeling is better, my dear. "i love you, good bye" is bitter and leaves an uneasy feeling, even frustration. welcome someone with love is surely a lot better.
@animated (28)
• Germany
22 Mar 10
hello cloud,
i personally think its not realy necessary to say "i love you" in ending a conversation. it just happens naturally. without even thinking of it you just blurt it out. perhaps it is the oveflowing of feelings that makes you do that. further to that, it gives the tickle in a relationship, a reassurance maybe. and for me, i would like hearing those words. even over and over again.
have a fine day.
@dangahol (71)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
For me the reason why they are always together is assurance in the sense that when you say goodbye to a person, you are at the same time assuring him or her that you love him/her and that you're not just saying goodbye and probably will be off talking to someone else or will not be talking again. It gives the other person a nice feeling even though goodbyes are lonely. Hope i helped :)
