Friend requests!! Do you prefer accepting all of them??
By tuyakiki
@tuyakiki (3016)
India
March 21, 2010 8:00pm CST
If somebody sends me a friend request then I prefer accepting it. I like making friends over here and most of the time I don't deny the requests... So,what about you all?? Do you prefer accepting all the friend requests that you received??Do you ever denied any requests?? What may be the reasons behind that??
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Happy Mylotting!!
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24 responses
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
22 Mar 10
I always accept friend requests unless it's from someone I'm familiar with who is either particularly irritating or behaves badly. Otherwise, I'm open to anyone.
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
22 Mar 10
I accept almost all of the requests that I receive. I never deny any of them but some I leave pending. Those are usually the users who have no posts at all and are just friend collectors for some reason that only they know - and I am not willing to discover
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@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
22 Mar 10
hi tuyakiki,
I have tried for friends for some six months on the net,i have visited several sites and penfriend sites also,nothing is happened,but mylot presented me lot of good friends like you,till now i have never denied any friendship request,i have remember that initially i have rejected one or two,but now i accept every request of friendship,have a nice day
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@quita88 (3715)
• United States
22 Mar 10
I don't deny friend requests. I ask for friends too and they accept.
I check my friends list ever so often as I found that sometimes the notifiers have been turned off. I find this unusual and kinda gripes me but I turn them back on.
I like making new friends and getting new posts and discussions too.
I am a happy mylotter !!
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@nunoasl (166)
• Portugal
22 Mar 10
I am no problem at all, i accept all friends if they send me a quest, because this a social site and if we are selective guys, we don't have the same feedback by the others guys. We can post comments in their discussons quests and they do the same to us. I think in this case is a normal procedure in this socials sites.
@pilson (94)
• United States
22 Mar 10
Hi tuyakiki,
I usually accepted all the friend requests that i received. I did't know why i doing like that. however, at least, i didn't find any reasons to deny them, althoug i didn't find good reasons to accept them. May be potentially I expect that one day the friends can bring me some help and fun.
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@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
22 Mar 10
HI,
99% I accept their request... but I know some we have to be careful also... hope all friends are good friend to me
@May2k8 (18359)
• Indonesia
22 Mar 10
whatever it is, made many friends makes us more spirit because we are not alone and interact with each other. I always accept all people as it is, and make no distinction between their gender. But, if they try to send send something that makes me annoyed so I ignore it and if it continues I will probably remove them from the list.
@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
22 Mar 10
Hi tuyakiki,Yes,I always accept every friend request,I never denied,because,i want many friends here in mylot.Besides,Ive,experienced that before my friend request was denied,and I was so sad at that time.So,I promise to myself to accept every friend request.Have a nice day.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
22 Mar 10
Well the friend requests pop up, I just tend to just accept them one by one. It is much easier to just accept the friend requests. Granted, by doing that, they could pile up quite quickly but that is fine for me. I really have not kept track of the friends that I have had. Perhaps one day, I might be a bit more selective but that would require me to do a bit more more work than I want to.
Plus when these people request to be my friend, they have done nothing to offend me yet. So why should I not accept them? I do not know these people. Therefore, I have no reason not to accept their friend request. I think I have better things to do than be ultra nitpicky about who I accept as a friend on an online forum. At least that's just how I see things.
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
22 Mar 10
yes. all of them. it's nice to share. great ideas to share with.
@zsaedz143 (2)
• Philippines
22 Mar 10
hi there. before i reject people whom i don't know... but right now for game and connecting networks.. and also getting more info and knowledge.. i accept all..
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
22 Mar 10
Hi, friend. As to this question, my answer is yes. I accept all friend requests regarless of any other factors that many others take into account, the number of posts, and their purpose of adding me as friend, for example. For one thing, I'm here to earn and to make friends. I welcome anyone who wants to be friends with me. For another thing, I appreciate those who post the friend requests. That means they have something to share with me as friends, not just strangers. It helps to make our communication more lively and intimate.
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
22 Mar 10
I've never denied a single request here in my entire mylot life. I guess I don't have a reason to deny a request anyway, so I just accept them. So long as the person doesn't start sending me messages I do not like, I never delete them from my list. I just keep them there, although I don't actively send messages to them either. But I do post in their discussions from time to time, whenever I can, or whenever I see their posts appearing on the home page. And if I can related to what they're saying.
@shibham (16977)
• India
22 Mar 10
Hi tuya. Yes i always accept all friend requests and i have a habit to give a look on his/her profile.
I want to share an bitter experience here. We all are well known about orkut and i am a newbie there. Just three days ago, i send a friend request to a girl. In return she addressed me as shameless bcoz i have requested an unknown member who is a girl.
Anyway let them go. Here i am queit fine with my friends and i am enjoying it. Have u an orkut account?
Lol.
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
22 Mar 10
So far i have not refuse any friend request from any membes here. The more you hvae friends here the more your chance of earning. Besides, you only get to know a person after you making friends with him or her. So it's best to accept friendship first, if at all they just end up sending you spam messages then you can just delete them in your list. Cheers!
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
22 Mar 10
Like you, I used to accept every friend request I get. Then I got burned a few times. A few sent out friend requests so they could recruit me as referrals to whatever site they were promoting. So, after that, I've learned to let friend requests sit in the friend's tab for a while. I will only accept them after I've seen their usernames in a few discussions. Currently I have 27 sitting there.
I will be sending you a friend request after I send this response.