What is love?

China
March 22, 2010 7:25am CST
Hi,MyLotter Today,my friend told me she broke up with her boyfriend but she still loved him.Then,I asked her why were you breaking up with him.She said he did not care about me ,selfish... I said he had so many shortcoming why were you loving him. It make me confused. Maybe,this question is a little funny.But,sometimes ,I really do not know how to make clear what is love. What is love? How do you understand it ?
3 responses
@phoenix8606 (4942)
22 Mar 10
hell0 there lassielee. thanks for adding me as a friend :) well, for me love is that someone can love you the way you are and not the way someone else want you to be. love is to share the problems and the pains with the person you love, love is to help him/her and always support him/her. love is too feel that you are alive, to feel how your heart beat fast when you touch and kiss your beloved one. love is the greatest feeling of all, and we must fight for it, no matter of the cost, no matter how hard, no matter if we will win or not. because love is that power, which shows us the real meaning of life, the real meaning of that, to have a heart opened for the BIG LOVE
22 Mar 10
yeah, you are definitely right. and we must treasure and keep it like we keep our own life!
• China
23 Mar 10
LOL...we must treasure everything that belong to us.
• China
22 Mar 10
Hi, phoenix8606 I am glad for making friend with you. Yes, love is that someone can love you the way you are and not the way someone else want you to be. Love can not be Ctrl+C and Ctrl+V.The love is unique only belongs us.
• India
22 Mar 10
everyone have different definitions for this, i say, love is something when you care about someone totally unconditionally, you care about them when you are angry at them, or even if they are annoying you, when you care beyond these simple emotions, jealousy, anger, frustration, I fell in love and i know, whenever I see her I always forget my problems :P i don't even remember what i was going to say, or whatever i have had planned already, then all i know is I want to love her even more :) love is strange, it hurts you a lot but when it doesn't hurt, that's the best part of love, you can't get that sort of happiness anywhere in this world but only from love, that is LOVE, it is happiness, a mutual understanding between two people where they want to stay with each other and want to avoid hurting each other, where they expect a lot more, and I mean a lot lot more, then they expect from other people, that is Love, its special, very special, you won't find a problem in love, if You are in love you will never blame your partner, NEVER, you would always find a way to say, "NO IT WAS MY FAULT!!!" or maybe "I WAS THE BAD ONE THERE" you just can't blame them, if you love them, you get angry at them, because You know they understand and we only care for them, that's why, its Love, because getting angry is not bad, because when I get angry at my sweetheart, I still tell her :) I Love her a lot, its just that I'm spoiled enough by her to show her my anger, people can't show their anger to anyone who don't even bother to know, but if they bother to know why, then they have spoiled you enough for you to show them that anger and frustration :) Love is really Strange, You will never feel bad about anything as long as your sweetheart is telling you that You did the right thing, its magical, its hypnotic, its a painkiller for those who have it, you can't find it, because LOVE DOES NOT EXIST you HAVE TO MAKE IT, you won't find love, you will find people, you have to be very decisive and help Love Exist further, love is very very strange Indeed! I have a lot of things to say, but i wonder if this text box can ever hold what love really is, it can't, Love is a BIG thing, everyone wants to find it but they won't succeed if they don't know they can't because they have to create it, Love is something that makes you skip a beat sometimes :P sometimes makes you cry :( sometimes makes you laugh like crazy, but what i want to say is LOVE IS AT ITS BEST WHEN LOVE MAKES YOU SMILE, if you can bring up a smile on the face of your loved one, then you should know, you are the best lover in this world, because of all things, a smile shows the happiness most, not laughter, not a grin, not a straight face :P I hope i explained well, sorry for such a short description :P
• China
22 Mar 10
Love is two people's thing.So, we should make our lover is the happiest person in the world,no anger,jealousy,frustration only smile. Thanks for you response. Best wishes for you!
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• China
22 Mar 10
LOL,It's a greatful explaination .LOVE IS AT ITS BEST WHEN LOVE MAKES YOU SMILE. You will be a good writer ! :) Before seeing at your post ,I was intend to give a response,but i give up now .haha
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
23 Mar 10
Love is a powerful thing, it can move mountains. Love is a beautiful thing, it can overcome obstacles, Love is a strange thing, when others wonder why, the ones in love know why. Have you ever heard of the song Love is blind by eve? If not look it up, not all relationships are like that but some are that bad I'm sure.